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Anyone else on the TWW and hoping for a Christmas miracle

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Amyc94 · 14/12/2020 16:54

Hi everyone,

This is our first cycle TTC, and whilst I promised myself I would stay calm and collected, truthfully I am the total opposite. I can't switch off from thinking about it.

It's taken my OH a while to come to terms with trying to start a family. Whilst we have been together since we were 15 (now 27) he always wanted to earn more, to have a bigger house etc but he's come to finally realise that it's never the right time and we just have to go for it. I was so so pleased he was finally ready but promised we would keep it relaxed and calm. If it happens, it happens,

But working from home and not having anything else to do, I just can't switch off from my mind wondering 🙈 wondered if there was anyone else in the same boat who just wants to chat really?

I'm due AF on Christmas Day so it would be such a Christmas miracle if she doesn't come.

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Foundmyfeet · 03/01/2021 23:55

@Mariex1989 - I understand why you would feel a little sad and at the same time relieved that AF has arrived. Like @ELBlack says, at least you're out of limbo now and can get cracking on with the next cycle.
I'm the same as you...bloody hate the gym. I've been on a diet for 2 days and I'm struggling already! Lol!

@ELBlack enjoy getting jiggy! Lol! Sorry, I'm useless when it comes to the finer details about OPK's but the good thing is that you got a BD in the same day you had your peak.

@Alist12 - CONGRATS!! That's fab news!! Keep us posted on your pregnancy journey.

@Tillybabs - Just before I got my BFP with DD, I had some serious cramping and pains. I was at work and struggled to get out of the chair because it was so bad. A week later I got my BFP so you never know!

@Ebhc - I don't track every month due to time and expense. In the last 14 months, I've had 2 pregnancies; one tracked and one not. But also I conceived my DD the day after AF finished so that was a shocker to say the least! If you've been BD-ing quite regularly, hopefully you'll have conceived.

@Sarah239 - Welcome! Yes the TWW is a killer! But you're in good company! Lol!

Sarah239 · 03/01/2021 21:55

Hi everyone, I'm a bit late to this thread but I'm 11dpo and the TWW is killing me! My BBT dropped this morning (not super low so could be random, and earlier than I would normally expect it to if AF was coming) which was disappointing as I just felt "different" this month. I think I have got swept up in the idea of a Christmas/NY miracle too. My expectations were to be focusing on IVF/fertility treatments this year but I kept thinking "but what if this is the month?"

We have been TTC since June 2019 and nothing yet :( Had some tests done, sperm analysis "suboptimal" and my blood/hormone levels normal except for "slightly elevated" testosterone but they told us to just keep trying for another 6 months for now. It's so hard to believe it could actually happen after month after month of disappointment but I'm trying not to lose hope. Our next step is a Hycosy scan to rule out blocked tubes but I'm pretty scared of having it tbh incase it causes a uterus infection.

Anyway, fingers crossed for everyone still in the TWW, congrats to the BFPs and thinking of everyone who is disappointed this month xx

Ebhc · 03/01/2021 21:34

Cd19 and I'm really cramping. I hate not knowing if it's ovulation or what's going on. I think I might consider tracking next cycle if this one is unsuccessful.

Mariex1989 · 03/01/2021 19:40

@ELBlack that’s good - it seems being relaxed is the way to go. I’m not really “with it” when it comes to OPK’s; never really used them.

I’ve deleted my apps and just made a note of when I should expect AF next month (although clearly not reliable anyway) and whatever happens happens x

ELBlack · 03/01/2021 17:43

Hi ladies, looking for some advice, I got my 'peak' earlier this afternoon, and loaded it into my app which said test again in 4 hours, and I did and there was barely a line. Is that normal? Im on cd14 and started using OPK's on cd10 and they have been low, it just seems strange that I had a peak 4 hours ago, and now the line is barely there...

TIA

ELBlack · 03/01/2021 16:30

Welcome @ebhc 😊

@Mariex1989 thank you! I've felt much more relaxed about it all this month, and only tested once a day, whereas before I was testing like 4 times a day!! 🙄

Oooh, sorry to hear about AF but pleased you're out of limbo

Mariex1989 · 03/01/2021 16:13

@Alist12 best of luck for your scan! Do keep us updated 💕

Mariex1989 · 03/01/2021 16:12

Welcome @Ebhc 😊 not tracking seems to be the trick at the moment for the people who have got their BFP’s! Good luck! Keep us updated.

@ELBlack get on it girl! Fingers and toes crossed for you!

AF IS FINALLY HERE!!! 🎉
Feeling super relieved but also a bit sad. Hey ho onto the next x

ELBlack · 03/01/2021 15:26

@Alist12 good luck with your scan on Tuesday, keep us posted!

I had a peak LH test this afternoon, which is great because me and DH dtd this morning! Going to do it again tomorrow and hope that this is our month 🤞

Alist12 · 03/01/2021 14:50

@Mariex1989 thankyou so much👏🏼 was a bit shocked to know that my lines were faint and they put me at 4/5 weeks considering 3 years ago I first fell pregnant and my lines were so much more darker at 12 dpo then now but that pregnancy ended in a miscarriage unfortunately.
Just want my miracle baby. When I see the little dot on the scan I will know everything is okay

Alist12 · 03/01/2021 14:47

@Tillybabs so nervous and excited for the scan just in case nothing is there. It's going to be the longest 2 days of my life ughh

Ebhc · 03/01/2021 14:37

Hi, can I join you all? This is my first cycle TTC for my second baby. I didn't do any ovulation tracking, I'm so worried I got the timings wrong and we missed it. AF due 11th and usually have 27 day cycles.

Tillybabs · 03/01/2021 14:27

@Mariex1989 I’m not due on till the 7th so will wait and see if anything happens before then.

Mariex1989 · 03/01/2021 14:05

@Alist12 that’s amazing congratulations!!! Wishing a smooth and healthy pregnancy for you 😊.
That’s what I had today - cramps that felt a bit different to usual, went to the loo and just loads of creamy cm. but I’m CD50 and BFN/v faint lines so I’m deffos not pregnant just need AF to come now 😭.

@Tillybabs eeeek good luck! When you going to test?

Tillybabs · 03/01/2021 13:55

@Alist12 thank you and congratulations! 🎉🍾❤️

Alist12 · 03/01/2021 13:47

@Tillybabs I thought I was out this month because of the cramps but now I know it's because of pregnancy. Wishing you all baby dust✨

Alist12 · 03/01/2021 13:46

Me and my fiancé did the deed and he confirmed that I felt a lot softer inside which is apparently a good sign for early pregnancy. The nurse has put me down at 4/5 weeks

Tillybabs · 03/01/2021 13:45

@Mariex1989 will do. I do remember when I was pregnant some 8 years ago and I kept getting period pains but it turned out I was pregnant so I do get my hopes up a little but I’m pretty sure it’s AF this time.

Alist12 · 03/01/2021 13:45

@Mariex1989 @ELBlack

Been having mild cramps this morning and thought af had arrived but it was just creamy cm ( tmi ) rang 111 as the pains were getting a bit stronger after a while it turned to a pulling/tingly feeling.
A nurse from the early pregnancy unit rang me back and said I was indeed pregnant and i have now got a scan a on Tuesday to see if everything is okay because of the cramps. I asked about the lines being faint and she said it could be because of the hormone being too high

Mariex1989 · 03/01/2021 10:32

@Tillybabs AF cramps could be a good sign though 🤞🏻🤞🏻 Keep us posted

Mariex1989 · 03/01/2021 10:32

@Alist12 good luck for your tests, let us know how you get on.

@Foundmyfeet no problem! Hahaha sounds like you had a great nye! Yeah mine wasn’t too bad thank you. A few bottles of Prosecco went down too easily and I barely made it past midnight 😂.
The dreaded new year regime! I went to the gym yesterday and I’m already bored of it. I wish I was one of these people who loves exercise 🙈

Tillybabs · 02/01/2021 22:41

Hi ladies. Yes I’m on that wait and had a good opk reading a few days before Xmas but today I’m having AF cramps 😩😩☹️

Foundmyfeet · 02/01/2021 22:13

HAPPY NEW YEAR LADIES!!

@Alist12 - fingers crossed 🤞🏽 Really hoping for you that the line becomes stronger!

@Mariex1989 - sorry for delayed response! Been recovering from NYE! Boozed it up! Just decided to let my hair down before my strict health regime started. Started today and I've already got a banging headache! How was your NYE?
I couldn't help but chuckle at your comment about the invalid result on the el-cheapo PT! It's luck if the draw really with them!

Alist12 · 02/01/2021 19:52

@ELBlack it would help if I knew when I actually ovulated or how long till AF arrives. I have a feeling that the clear blue digital won't show up pregnant yet as I've counted from the 22nd and it would make me 12dpo tomorrow so I don't know if it's still early or not.
I have 6 pregnancy tests to take in the morning as I'm not bothering to take anymore after tomorrow haha.
All different brands

ELBlack · 02/01/2021 19:48

@Alist12 good luck! Definitely see the lines, so really hoping they progress for you!