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Trying but not trying...anyone else?

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larrythelizard · 12/12/2020 08:28

TTC no 2.

I decided (with full support from DH) that we should get on with TTC no 2...

I've said to myself that for we'll take a 'relaxed' approach to it for a few months (no temping, no SMEP etc) and see what happens, no great rush - took the best part of a year (incl a MC) to conceive DS so I don't expect it to be quick...

Except obviously it's now all I can think about as I approach what I think is my fertile week!!

Anyone else out there in the same boat and want to try and keep the madness on here and not in their heads?!

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larrythelizard · 12/12/2020 19:38

No 1 is just about 18mo. Didn't think I'd want another quite as quickly but here we are...!

A BFP in Jan would be pretty cool but I have a sense it'll take longer!

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bravotango · 12/12/2020 18:41

My cycle has timed very well for Xmas in that AF is due early Jan so don't have to worry about a BFP before Xmas day and being rumbled by PIL!

Mine too! What a relief. Think I'm due New Years Day - maybe a BFP to call in the NY?! Fingers crossed for us all.

Curiosity101 · 12/12/2020 15:27

We're just starting trying for #2 this month. #1 is 15 1/2 months old but was almost 7 weeks early. It's possible we could have similar issues with #2 but fingers crossed for a smoother time this time.

We're being reasonably relaxed about it all. I expect to get a bit twitchy in the second week of my TWW though. Currently anticipating ovulation sometime next week.

Rightthen24 · 12/12/2020 14:41

Our first turned 4 in Sept and doesn't start school until next Sep. I am happy with a bigger age gap, ideally No1 will be at school and I can spend time with No2 during the day when No1 is at school. Also No1 can be mummy's little helper 😁

magnarocks · 12/12/2020 14:34

For those who are TTC no.2, how old are your first borns?

Ours is very nearly 4, it's a longer age gap than I would have ever anticipated but life has just sort of got in the way.

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larrythelizard · 12/12/2020 14:08

Oh good, my kind of people...you know, the ones pretending they're not thinking about it all the time but they actually are!

My cycle has timed very well for Xmas in that AF is due early Jan so don't have to worry about a BFP before Xmas day and being rumbled by PIL!

As if it'll be that quick...!

I'm generally a bit of a control freak so TTC is quite hard for me in that respect!

Decided to make it fun so have got some nice new undies for later...!

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bravotango · 12/12/2020 12:44

Can I join! We have decided to TTC number 1 - taking the 'relaxed approach' too (although I'm already counting days so not sure how relaxed that is). I think I've just started my fertile week so a bit of a way to go yet in my first cycle but very, very excited!

Rightthen24 · 12/12/2020 12:26

Can I join, we are TTC no2, took 18 months to concieve no1 so expect it to take that long again but we caught in first month on trying but had a miscarriage so back to TTC.
I am not doing anything apart from DTD every 2-3 days and I'm actually really relaxed about it. The first time was awful and I was so stressed with opks and testing so I am refusing to go down that route again. If it's meant to be it will happen 😁 Good luck 😁

magnarocks · 12/12/2020 11:08

Thinking of starting TTC no.2 soon so place marking.

mooloop · 12/12/2020 09:45

Me! DH is very chilled about it all, I am trying (pretending) to be chilled too Grin due AF on Monday and hoping she doesn't arrive 🙈

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