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POAS Anon Christmas Party 🌲🧑‍🎄 Ho ho ho-ws your line progression?! Thread 3

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AMS19 · 10/12/2020 12:09

@GreenApplesYo
@positivitytree2020
@jessi60
@DrS44
@PowerOfFlowers
@Bells20
@Dex1521
@Emmgrem
@Foxl2222

@CardioQueen just so you know where we are

Here we go ladies! The last thread was a lucky one so let's keep up the success on this one!

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Bells20 · 22/12/2020 14:25

@positivitytree2020 thank you for sharing that about the stuff to extend LP, I hadn't really given it much thought and have just been repeating what I've seen others say, I hadn't realised they could cause problems so that's helpful to know! Good to know there seems to be an alternative with the raspberry leaf tea!

I'm really thinking of everyone today, especially AMS and her partner x

positivitytree2020 · 22/12/2020 10:39

@Dex1521 yes I’m charting, having an anovulatory cycle tho, so hoping AF will show up in next week or two so I can just move onto the next! 🙄
Your chart looks great!! 🤞🏼🤞🏼

@DrS44 be careful trying to extend your LP! I’ve totally fecked my cycle up as a result! 😌 some people are fine but I’ve done a lot of research over the last few days and Vitamin B and/or Angus cactus has really messed some people up! Apparently the hormone balance is so delicate, and can be thrown off very easily! 😌 what I plan to do once my cycles come back to normal is drink some red raspberry leaf tea but only after I ovulate!

Ya I know what you mean @jessi60! Feels weird even writing in here after yesterday’s news! 😔 can’t get them out of my thoughts! 😔

Dex1521 · 22/12/2020 10:16

@Emmgrem charts looking so good! It’s funny mine is spiky after ovulation and yours was before it’s like we’ve swapped 🤣 I did a FRER this morning obviously a BFN just couldn’t help myself after seeing the spike in BBT but I’m not losing hope. Definitely this is like an emotional rollercoaster I really wish there was more support or awareness about it but I always find ttc is always very hush hush so you always go through it alone

@Foxl2222 that’s amazing! Where about in Ireland? I’m from the north coast of NI. Do you live in England too? Me @DrS44 and @jessi60

Bells20 · 22/12/2020 09:44

@jessi60 I'm feeling the same, I was not expecting pregnancy to be such an anxiety provoking time! I realise that might sound mad and I'm thinking now I was quite naive going into this. Terrible anxiety about something going wrong but also now some anxiety about what if everything goes well and I have a tiny new baby. I had a nightmare last night that I didn't know how to hold a baby and it's head was flopping everywhere, woke up crying and had to YouTube how to hold a baby 😂 It definitely doesn't match how I thought I'd feel when I fell pregnant!

@Emmgrem @Dex1521 charts are looking good ladies!

Foxl2222 · 22/12/2020 09:30

Sounds positive @Dex1521 🤞 eeek not long now until your TWW is over..and mine starting. I'm with @jessi60 on the BBT thing - don't really get it, but been making a half ass attempt at taking OPK'd so attached my chart- it looks like nothing 🤣🤣

@DrS44 @Dex1521 fellow irish 🙌☘️
I'm working over Christmas otherwise would have found a way to get home too. @DrS44 enjoy the time with your family ☺️

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Emmgrem · 22/12/2020 09:13

@Dex1521 Definitely could be! 🤞
Here's my chart today, another rise but mine are more gradual than your pattern. Had pains on my right side last night which woke me up in the night, definitely more frequent urination, nipples still like rocks too.. but sounds like a lot of people get those and it's still a bfn. Really worried now if I get a squinter and won't know whether to tell DH on Xmas morning and get his hopes up or not!

@jessi60 ahh I know what you mean. I feel like that too, imagining going through all this emotional and physical turmoil and that's not even at the pg stage yet. I can't imagine what the next stage of anxiety is like 😣 People really don't talk about this side of it enough- you just see the happy announcements and then the happy smiling babies at the end of it and none of the reality behind I suppose.

POAS Anon Christmas Party 🌲🧑‍🎄 Ho ho ho-ws your line progression?! Thread 3
jessi60 · 22/12/2020 08:51

Hey, I’m doing okay thanks. Just finished a night shift and back in Christmas Day.
Feeling abit down with the news on here yesterday. This whole TTC journey and then when you go on to being pregnant is so stressful and full of worry 😞 feel like it’s a never ending circle.
Hope everyone is doing okay and taking care of themselves xx

Dex1521 · 22/12/2020 07:42

Morning - how is everyone today? @Emmgrem @Foxl2222 @positivitytree2020 are you charting and if so how are you getting on with it? And anyone else ttc who I’ve not tagged.

I had a big rise in BBT today the highest temp I’ve had which I am assume is an implantation dip. Just trying to stay hopeful 🤞x

Have a good day everyone. We’re all in this together 💙

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Foxl2222 · 22/12/2020 06:54

@AMS19 I am so saddened to read this. Heartbroken for you and sending all the prayers and thoughts to you and OH❤️ know that we will all be here when you're ready. Take care xx

DrS44 · 22/12/2020 00:43

For anyone interested I'm going to post something on Premom Facebook group now. I'll ask about extending my luteal phase to see if anyone can help. If you see it and want to message directly please feel free 💛 lots of love everyone xxxxxxxx

DrS44 · 22/12/2020 00:36

@AMS19 I'm genuinely heart broken for you! I hope you're okay. I know that's a stupid sentence as it's unlikely that you are. I'm so sorry. If you want to chat at any point please let me know and we can arrange one privately if you'd like?! You've been such a support to me and id love to be there for you. I can't even begin to imagine what you're going through right now but I'll keep you in my thoughts over the next few weeks. Lots of love 💛💛💛 xxxxx

positivitytree2020 · 21/12/2020 22:15

@AMS19 So so sorry to hear this, you poor thing! 😔 thinking of you and sending lots of love! ❤️

CardioQueen · 21/12/2020 20:41

@AMS19 I am so sorry to hear this. Sending you so much love and strength. Was just popping back on to see how everyone was getting on - hope you and DH can use the Christmas break to help process this. 💕💕

AMS19 · 21/12/2020 19:58

Thanks ladies. I'll take some time to deal with it all and be back at some point I'm sure. In the meantime wishing everyone lots of luck xx

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PowerOfFlowers · 21/12/2020 19:42

Oh @AMS19 I am so, so very sorry to read this. Huge hugs to you and we are all here for you, when you are ready, just as you have been here for all of us over these last few months. Xxxxx

Bells20 · 21/12/2020 19:40

@AMS19 good god I am so so sorry to read that. I'm absolutely devastated for you and sending you so much love 💛💛 as others have said, here if you want to talk about it x

GreenApplesYo · 21/12/2020 19:26

Oh god @AMS19 I am so so sorry to read this. It must be hard to take in. We'll all be thinking of you, hope the coming days go as well as they can xxxxx

jessi60 · 21/12/2020 19:26

@AMS19 I’m so sorry.
Thinking of you lots.
When the time is right we are all here to listen and hold a virtual hand ❤️❤️ Xxx

Emmgrem · 21/12/2020 19:10

Oh @AMS19 I'm so so sorry to read this. Can't believe it. I hope you're as ok as you can be. When you feel up to talking about it we're all here and we're all in the ups and downs of this journey together girls ❤️ Sending you lots of love 😘

Dex1521 · 21/12/2020 19:03

@AMS19 oh god no way!!?!? I did not expect to read this tonight - I’m so sorry this has happened. We are all hear for you ❤️

AMS19 · 21/12/2020 18:55

Girls...bad news. Miscarriage for me ☹

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Dex1521 · 21/12/2020 17:32

@jessi60 literally all I listen too is guns shooting or football screaming 🤣 glad I’ve got my own wee thing now. I bought him an Xbox last year as he hadn’t played one since he was a teenager and he loves it again.

My boobs were sore the last two cycles too but not this one. If anything I don’t feel pregnant this cycle but the last two I did lol

Dex1521 · 21/12/2020 17:30

@Emmgrem yeah that’s a good idea actually! If I see a cute “daddy” onesie I’ll get it and tell myself that too lol. I don’t think it was as we’ve put our presents under the tree for each other but it isn’t brand new he bought it off a mate at work for £50 who’s kid barely used it game and all 😂 couldn’t tell it’s second hand it’s in great condition. Animal crossing it’s like a wee avatar and you own An island and have to run around fixing it up and making new wee friends and get them to move there lol nothing too exciting but so addictive

@PowerOfFlowers I’ve been getting a tension headache always around 5pm the last few nights and now this stabbing pain when I move or sneeze. I googled the pain and it said it’s round ligament pain but I doubt I’d get that until 6+ weeks into a pregnancy. Haven’t had it the past two cycles so let’s hope I’ve also had 0 AF style cramps which I always get

jessi60 · 21/12/2020 17:28

@Dex1521 ha I’m getting an Nintendo switch but for Christmas off my partner. Felt like I was too old for it but then he sits and plays on fifa on his Xbox so thought why not 😂😂

My nipples and sore boobs were my main symptom. So sore! X

PowerOfFlowers · 21/12/2020 17:04

@Bells20 Mine are exactly like that too!! Having a nipple piercing one of them makes it extra sensitive too ouch ouch!

@AMS19 - hope your scan went well today! 🤞🏻🤞🏻

@Dex1521 that's so cool - I'd love to start crochet! Your DH sounds lovely ☺️ As for your symptom update - I didn't get this. My only symptoms were very sore boobs and bbt going up! And because I normally get very bad pmt in the lead up to AF, I was surprised by the lack of PMT symptoms.

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