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Keep calm and TWW.. yeah right!

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beckyBP · 05/12/2020 22:00

Hey guys,

So I'm in my 6th TWW and roughly 6/7dpos. (Ive stopped monitoring.. for now). I was doing sooo well and now I'm on the obsessive googling stage.

I get a little crampy around this time every month.. I think. 🤣 so I've just been trying to work out what implantation cramps could feel like 🤯

Does anyone else feel like when you aren't TTC the time between periods go super quick but when your in your TWW if feels like the whole of 2020 within that two weeks 🙈

Why can't I just CHILL!!!

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mooloop · 04/01/2021 17:44

Hey everybody, hope everyone's OK today?

@beckyBP ooo the heartburn and crazy dreams sound like they could be promising! 🤞🏻

One of my best friends found out she was pregnant today (not planned, very new relationship). Really happy for her but if I'm being honest it felt like a bit of a kick in the gut 😬

On another note, I've had loads more EWCM today and a high (still not peak) OPK, so maybe I still haven't ovulated after all 🤔 CD17 so I thought I would've by now.

beckyBP · 04/01/2021 10:45

@bluemagicalsky well that's good if you were 9DPO!! Keep positive.

The heartburn was super random tbf.. I hadn't eaten anything for a good 4/5 hours so seems bizarre that it would be from that. However, my tummy feels very pre AF like so I'm not getting my hopes up. Xx

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bluemagicalsky · 04/01/2021 10:40

@beckyBP Afraid not. Got a BFN yesterday but I'm so sure I'm pg 😂 Now I'm thinking that I ovulated a few days later than I thought so I only would have been 9DPO yesterday. Maybe wishful thinking but we'll soon find out! The theory is that the chemical changed my cycle a bit 🤷🏼‍♀️

The dreams and disrupted sleep are a good sign! Heartburn is an even better sign! When you planning on testing?

Yes ladies! Let's have some BFPs in January!

beckyBP · 04/01/2021 10:29

@bluemagicalsky any news with you?

@mooloop don't quote me but I think it's normal for EWCM to start before peak! I'd just get DTD as you're best off doing it pre ovulation.

@MsCrapola yes! Would love to see loads of BFPs this year and early this year would be AMAZING! It's so hard isn't it as most early pregnancy symptoms are similar to pre AF.

I had heartburn yesterday (7dpo) so was frantically googling that 😂🙈

I think I had a chemical a few months back and in the latter part of my TWW I was awake by 5am everyday and having very vivid dreams. I work up at 5am today so got really excited but I think that was more to do with the 'back to work blues'

I say to myself every month I'm not going to symptom spot but here I am again!!

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MsCrapola · 04/01/2021 08:46

Hi ladies, thank you to those who welcomed me! Hope everyone had a nice Christmas and a happy New Years Smile hopefully 2021 will bring more happiness than 2020 and BFPs for us all too. I am 9dpo today and really really trying to resist the urge to test, although I know I will probably cave. Only symptoms I've had are sore boobs and being really bloated and gassy Blush though not sure if that's related!

mooloop · 02/01/2021 21:51

Still no peak OPK today (still reading as high) but EWCM has arrived. No idea if that's normal??

bluemagicalsky · 02/01/2021 20:54

Sounds positive @mooloop Good luck!

@beckyBP I know I said I wasn't going to... buuuut I'm going to test tomorrow morning at 12DPO, I'm only human lol.

Absolutely. It's so difficult to know especially as everyone is unique. Hopefully it is just your body doing it's thing and you're someone that can feel it more easily.

beckyBP · 02/01/2021 15:58

@kaffy197 great you got to DTD lots over Christmas and are pretty chilled now. I'm the same, I would normally put my life on hold in the TWW but I haven't this time!!

@bluemagicalsky that sounds super positive!! When are you going to test?

The cramping is so weird. It's every cycle. It doesn't hurt and I only notice it when I'm sat still but I don't get what it is and if it's ok you know?

@mooloop good luck for your fw! Hope you get lots of DTD in! Xx

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mooloop · 01/01/2021 22:58

Hey @bluemagicalsky, fingers crossed for a BFP for you with all those symptoms! 🤞🏻 the OPKs are fine so far, had a high reading today and have had some cramping today (usual for me around this point of my cycle, CD14 today) so hopefully my peak will be soon! 🤞🏻

bluemagicalsky · 01/01/2021 21:55

@beckyBP all well over here thanks 😊 10DPO and have definitely seen an increase in CM, sore boobs, trouble sleeping and waking up with a blocked nose. Exactly the same symptoms when I got my BFP last cycle. Back pain has been worse this time. Feeling good and hopeful

Oh cramping is the worst. So annoying that it came mean so many different things! Hope the rest of your TWW goes quickly and you have some good signs!

That's great @kaffy197 every cloud! And great that you can enjoy and relax at the same time with a cheeky glass of wine!

How are you finding the ovulation test strips @mooloop ?

kaffy197 · 01/01/2021 17:46

@beckyBP @bluemagicalsky
Hi ladies, I've been off for a few weeks enjoying Christmas and DTD!
I'm a few days post ovulation now and feeling relaxed about it. We managed to dtd more than usual over Christmas given all our plans were cancelled. On another thread I also learnt that most women carry on as normal (ie enjoying wine) during the tww which I hadn't been doing but will do now, and that certainly makes me feel more relaxed!! I'm not going to symptom spot, but I don't usually have any symptoms to spot anyway 😆
Happy new year to everyone, hope you had a good break.

beckyBP · 01/01/2021 17:22

Hey ladies! Happy new year!

@mooloop sorry doll. Our bodies are so cruel but glad you got to enjoy Christmas.

Welcome @MsCrapola wishing you a speedy TWW with a positive outcome 🤞🏽

How are you doing @bluemagicalsky 10dpo now?? Hope all is well.

I'm about 5dpo. I'm a little crampy which I seem to be every month after ovulation right through to AF. It's not painful AT ALL and if I'm occupied I can't feel it but it's there.. What's that all about? X

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bluemagicalsky · 29/12/2020 19:28

@mooloop such a shame but great that you know your body so well. Sounds like a good Christmas!
Yeah 7DPO, one week to go! Had all the same symptoms as my last cycle so not sure if that is good or bad! I'll test on the 7th if AF doesn't arrive on the 6th.
Ah that is such a lovely thing to do and I'm sure she'll appreciate that so much. Fingers crossed 🤞🏼

mooloop · 29/12/2020 18:32

Hey @bluemagicalsky Smile I tested when I was 1 day late and got a stark white BFN and could tell AF was en route after that, so didn't bother testing again. Enjoyed plenty of wine and gin over Christmas at least GrinWine

I see from your last post you're about 7dpo now are you? How agonising is that TWW! When do you think you'll test?

Doing a zoom baby shower for a friend tomorrow. She's due next month, so excited for her, especially as she had two MMCs before this pregnancy. I hope it will be our turn for a happy new addition soon Smile

bluemagicalsky · 29/12/2020 18:25

@MsCrapola Welcome and wishing you lots of luck! ☺️
Hey @mooloop oh sorry to hear AF arrived, that really is such a cruel trick 😞 Did you do any tests in those 5 days?
That sounds like a great plan. Are you all settled in to your new house?

mooloop · 29/12/2020 17:35

Hi all Smile

Dreaded AF turned up on the 19th for me, 5 days late!! Hmm it's like our bodies play tricks on us. So I'm now CD11.

I've ordered some cheap ovulation test strips from amazon to give those a try as the CB ones were expensive. DH and I weren't really actively going for it last month, just DTD when we felt like it and not using contraception, but I'd like to try and up it a bit this month and try to DTD every other day if possible. Won't be too easy when we both go back to work next week though!

Hope everybody else is doing OK and had a lovely Christmas Smile

MsCrapola · 28/12/2020 18:48

Hey ladies, going to join this thread! This is our first time TTC and am currently 2dpo. Feel like I have ages to wait. Fingers crossed to all of us waiting and trying and congratulations to the bfps! Smile x

beckyBP · 28/12/2020 14:02

Lush to hear from you too @bluemagicalsky

I think I feel an ovulation style pain today (not sure) but I'm going to DTD. Didn't yesterday in the end which annoyed me 😂

Well done you! You definitely covered it! Keeping everything crossed for you.

No not working, back in on the 4th! Xx

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bluemagicalsky · 28/12/2020 10:49

@imzeeimz1991 my backache rarely leaves me! Sounds like it's time to test for you!

imzeeimz1991 · 27/12/2020 23:45

Hi anyone had achy thighs and was pregnant ny af was due today but havent started i got back ache and achy thighs which I don't get was wondering if anyone else has these

bluemagicalsky · 27/12/2020 21:57

Merry Christmas!
Hi @beckyBP Great to hear from you. Looks like you've covered it very well! A BFP for the start of 2021 would be amazing!
I am also CD 15 but am 5DPO as I ovulate CD 10
DTD CD 5, 7, 9, 10, 11 & 13. Bad back pain and creamy CM today the same as my last cycle which ended in a CP. Only time will tell!

Are you working in between Christmas and New Year? I am and hoping that work will keep my mind off it! X

beckyBP · 27/12/2020 18:28

Merry Christmas ladies 🤍 hope you all had a good one.

I think ovulation is today for me (CD 15) but not tracking. Just trying to monitor CM but not confident I know what I'm doing there 😅.

We DTD CD 9, 11, 12, 14. Will also try to do it the next few night also. I definitely feel like it's easier in lockdown and Christmas period!!

How is everyone?! Xx

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beckyBP · 21/12/2020 23:42

@Melonbee90 some of the girls keep banging on about disaronno velvet which I think is a bit like baileys.
Just a mental year isn't it. I just feel like nothing surprises me and I'm going to keep going with my life (what I can control) as much as I can! Mainly, TTC!

Yeah got pretty much all of it done and the last few bits are Amazon prime. How about you?

Used preseed for the first time tonight. I'm a fan! We didn't use it properly (not in my fertile week yet) just used a small amount on him but yeah.. it's a 👍🏽 from me! Xx

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Melonbee90 · 21/12/2020 18:11

@beckyBP its lovely! Highly recommend it if you like baileys. This year is getting ridiculous with every day by the seems of it. When they did the announcements other day it actually made us consider putting ttc on hold but now we've settled a bit we're going ahead trying for baby #2 however u got to dtd for that though and we've not in ages because we're always so tired 🤣

How are you holding up did you manage to get any Christmas shopping done before we were put in to lockdown?

beckyBP · 21/12/2020 16:52

@bluemagicalsky You're spot on!! And you've got us ☺️

Oh no I'm so sorry! I hope you shave a lovely Christmas regardless. We're tier 4 Wales so Christmas Day can be somewhat normal

What a year hey!! Xx

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