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Post Pill TTC - Party Hard with a Vengeance

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TheHotelCalifornia · 25/11/2020 08:30

It’s that time again, the 5th post-pill thread of ladies who are experiencing the highs and lows (mainly the lows…) of coming off the pill and TTC! Here you’ll find stories of delayed ovulation, crazy long follicular phases, crazy short follicular phases, light AFs, short luteal phases, long luteal phases, confusing temp charts and blindingly white OPKs, to name a few. Join us, won’t you? We're a lovely bunch and we'd love to help you make sense of post-pill life if we can!

Welcome back:

@mintgreenlife
@juno231
@kay00
@sperr
@mrsmacmc
@chinchilly
@curcurbita
@tillybabs
@ams19
@moocher90
@trying4one
@flowerbudd
@pumpkineverything
@tatty1987
@mancmama39
@elsie2021
@danielle2012
@spencer22
@charwils
@ftm94
@lobster8
@musicaljojo
@laurat94
@crabette
@moocher90
@cams50
@thedaydreambelievers
@K80AWE
@emmgrem
@MissC07
@MOL234

Apologies if I’ve forgotten anyone, please tag them!

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ChinChilly · 21/12/2020 22:47

@Luna57 I do that, I just throw them away like I’m mad at them 😂

@AMS19 we’re all here for you when you’re ready ❤️

Well managed to DTD again, hopefully in with a shot this month as long as my thyroid is behaving 😂

AMS19 · 21/12/2020 22:35

Thanks so much ladies for all the messages. Pretty gutted but just have to accept it wasn't meant to be this time xx

MissC07 · 21/12/2020 22:24

@AMS19 So sorry to hear your news. Sending you lots of virtual hugs and support Thanks

Luna57 · 21/12/2020 22:15

@ChinChilly haha I used to do that too and if they were low I didn’t log them i just threw them in the bin instead.

@Nellieee thank you! I know me neither. I’m feeling quite queasy today also. Surprised he didn’t pick up on it he ordered indian for dinner and I couldn’t stomach it and indian is my fave. Didn’t even question it actually haha.

This sounds so silly but I think my cocker spaniel can sense something with me. He’s being so needy and wanting to lie on my belly and keeps sniffing it. He’s our little 5 year old rescue so is quite anxious and he keeps whimpering today. My other dog couldn’t care less my boobs and womb are like magnets for her feet thankfully she’s only a small dog

Kay00 · 21/12/2020 21:50

@moocher90 ah yes, sounds good. Im with you on CD7, hopefully you'll get a decent peak and some noticeable fertile CM soon!

@juno231 no worries chick 😘 if ever your feeling like you don't deserve to ve escalated to the fertile clinic then let me know! It's totally your time.

Im 35 years old and if I don't get anywhere in the next couple of cycles then I'll be talking to my doctor about it too. Im willing to go private too.

Moocher90 · 21/12/2020 20:55

@ChinChilly I’m CD8 today not much going on. I am getting very faint lines on my OPKs which I wasn’t getting before. Only 0.22 the highest so far on Premom app so I’m hoping this month I ovulate.

Nellieee · 21/12/2020 20:47

@Luna57 omgggg. Congratulations to you! Don't know how you're containing it from OH. I'm terrible when I want to say something. Lovely early Christmas present, after such a shite year.

@Juno231 great news re your appointment. Hooray. Absolutely do not think you are less deserving. You've had a long journey to here, and absolutely deserve it.

@ChinChilly go on girl! 🐎🐎🐎 yes to your peak. And you @KGH5121

@Kay00 plenty of gin over Christmas sounds great 👌

Juno231 · 21/12/2020 20:46

@Kay00 thanks again❤️ I have a tendency to wobble and you just screwed my head back on!

@sperr weirdly my OH always gets in the mood when hungover! That's the one time I'm guaranteed BD 😅

Nellieee · 21/12/2020 20:41

@AMS19 I'm so so sorry to hear that. Thinking of you. Please feel like you can vent here whenever, and if you are comfortable, talk to people. ❣️

ChinChilly · 21/12/2020 20:39

@Luna57 I’ve POAS 5 times today 😂 I’m not an addict or anything!

@Moocher90 fingers crossed!! How are you getting on?

Kay00 · 21/12/2020 20:33

@sperr interesting 🤔 😆 I definitely am not in the mood when I'm hung over 🤣

Sperr · 21/12/2020 20:13

@Kay00 it’s the earliest if felt like my fertile week has started which is good cos last month we definitely powered out towards the end with DTD every other day. I’m hoping lots of Christmas drinking will help us along 😂 (I weirdly get really in the mood when I’m hungover, not sure if that’s an actual thing 🙈)

@Ams19 I’m so sorry to hear this. Sending lots of virtual hugs 💖💖💖

LauraT94 · 21/12/2020 20:12

@AMS19 I'm so sorry to hear that 😢❤️

Moocher90 · 21/12/2020 20:07

@ChinChilly here’s hoping this is your cycle xx

@Juno231 I really think it’s great that you have your appointment earlier then the original date and I do not think that you are a leech on the nhs for wanting what all of us want. It’s frustrating that you have put your all into it and no baby yet but your time will come whether it be before your appointment which would be lovely news to hear or during the appointments and tests they have to do xx you have wanted this for a long time and you deserve to have your appointment to get the ball rolling xx it’s not selfish or unfair to want something so badly, many women probably so thinking though when they are going through tests to check why things are not happing naturally, defo not pushing in the queue x

Flowerbudd · 21/12/2020 20:06

@AMS19 so sorry again :( we're all here to virtually hold your hand my lovely. Sending so much love to you both xxx

Luna57 · 21/12/2020 20:06

@ChinChilly your hormones must be good and high which is great news! I had a small pain in my side about 4 days before OD which got stronger and on actual OD I even had like lightening crotch that caused me to jump and shout ow! For the last 2 months I was taking a few vitamins and supplements not sure if any of them were linked to the long pain

Flowerbudd · 21/12/2020 20:05

@AMS19 ❤️❤️

Luna57 · 21/12/2020 20:01

@AMS19 so sorry to hear your awful news! We’re all here to virtually hold your hand through this all ❤️

ChinChilly · 21/12/2020 19:59

@Kay00 I don’t think I can commit myself to such a big change until I’ve had it check again!

@Luna57 My OPKs are still super dark so I’m guessing we’ll have to go for it again tonight 😂

My surge used to come and go really quick but for the last 2 cycles it seems to have lingered for a few days, been having AF style cramps aswell which seems abit odd 🤔

ChinChilly · 21/12/2020 19:56

@AMS19 omg I am so sorry 😢 that the worst news 😞 sending you lots of virtual hugs, be kind to yourself!

Juno231 · 21/12/2020 19:48

@Ams19 goodness no I'm so sorry! There are no words :( I hope it all passes smoothly so you can move forward ❤️

@kay00 thank you so much that really helped put it into perspective and made me feel less like a leech on the NHS 🙊.

@cams50 yes getting the ball rolling was always something I was worried about and it felt justified when they told me my appointment was going to be in May considering I had my first blood test back in July 😅. You're right, by the time anything happens it'll probably be months down the line anyway and if I'm not pregnant by then I'll be grateful I got that appointment in Feb after all!

Robyn101 · 21/12/2020 19:46

@Ams19 I’m so sorry to hear your news I hope you’re doing ok ♥️

Moocher90 · 21/12/2020 19:41

Ohh no @ams19 so sorry to hear this :( xx big hugs to you xx

Luna57 · 21/12/2020 19:39

@Emmgrem no wasn’t temping, I was only doing opk to try and see what my body was doing post pill. Yeah I caught my peak cd26 I went from low to peak the next night. I heard it’s possible for your body to try to ovulate a few times in the cycle so wasn’t hoping for much until I got the ovulation pains on my right hand side that lasted right up til 8dpo. I’m still achy but not as much now and getting central cramps on and off now. I quickly went on Amazon last night and ordered a hi dad baby vest and gonna use the digital and put them in a box and wrap them. OH and I aren’t doing presents this year either. Well we say this and last night I got him a toothbrush and he got me a trip to New York so he’s unreliable but I can assume this year I’ll be giving out the best present lol. Honestly I never thought in my wildest dreams this month was the month for our BFP. I’ve hid the FRER in a drawer and every so often I keep going up to check to make sure it’s actually real.

@Cams50 thank you so much! I’m gonna keep on this thread to watch all the BFPs roll out, it’s like my morning routine when I’m working late. Like reading the morning paper lol.

@ChinChilly that looks more promising your body must of got excited and kicked out a few hormones early to keep you on your toes. Our bodies really hate us sometimes lol. Sure what harm can DTD an extra day do.

Thank you @Kay00 so please to hear the good results. I have my fingers crossed for you

Thank you @Moocher90

Thank you @Sperr, hoping for a Christmas conception for you.

Keeping this from OH has been so hard I keep wanting to blurt it out but I know it’ll be more special waiting. I can never hold my own piss either so he’ll be so shocked I kept it from him for 5 days haha.

Cams50 · 21/12/2020 19:26

@Juno231 I think it’s great that it’s been moved forward! As I’m sure it takes a while for any further appointments / tests after that first appointment so quicker you can get the ball rolling the better. I feel I’m not too far off that as I’m about near cycle 9. But hopefully we both get our bfps before that.