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Day 41 Negative Test.

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missnessa84 · 20/11/2020 11:48

Morning everyone,

Trying for a baby for a year. Normal cycle 27-30 days now day 41, negative "not pregnant" result from a clear blue digital pregnancy test this morning.
Ugh...
Test again (could it be too early) or except it's a longer cycle? Longest I've had since I've tracked in 3 years.
Cramps for a week.
I'm 36 years old if that helps lol..

Thanks in advance x

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missnessa84 · 27/11/2020 10:55

It's a mixture of emotions @pizzaandcats.

BFN for me again this morning. Sad

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pizzaandcats · 26/11/2020 23:15

It's*

pizzaandcats · 26/11/2020 23:14

My friend has just told me she's 9 weeks pregnant (they weren't actively trying but stopped contraceptives and ots happened in 2 months). How can I be feeling so happy but so frustrated at the same time?!!
Baby is due on my birthday though which is very cute and exciting Grin

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missnessa84 · 26/11/2020 16:19

@Ginini

Meant *cycles however curses seems more appropriate 😂
Lol Grin
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missnessa84 · 26/11/2020 16:18

Hey @Ginini
Welcome. I can't believe how many have joined this chat and also the stories I've read online.

I'm feeling like you @Sunnybeam day 47 17-20 days late.
No AF and still bfn!! Limbo.. hopefully one of us will get a BFP soon.

Glad we've found a place to express our worries and frustrations.

X

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Sunnybeam · 26/11/2020 15:35

Hopefully something shows up for us soon, I still am waiting for bfp or AF. getting even more discharge today TMI. Its horrible when you have no idea what is wrong with you. I hope at least one of us gets a bfp soon then at least we will know that could be a possibility for us too!

Ginini · 26/11/2020 15:02

Meant *cycles however curses seems more appropriate 😂

Ginini · 26/11/2020 15:02

Hi ladies can I join? Now on day CD 35, curses can be irregular but normally it comes early not late, normally 25-30 day cycles!
Had a tiny bit of spotting for 3 days only once a day when wiping and it really was a little pink/brown tinge nothing like a period (sorry if TMI) around day 23 no cramping or anything and none of my normal AF symptoms. Since then I've had mild cramps on and off and shooting pains in my boobs on/off, and sleeping so much!
Been testing most days since spotting with IC and always BFN, nothing like this has ever happened before, so confused! Normally I have really heavy AF with terrible cramps so nothing like the spotting!
Found a couple of promising stories on here/internet about late BFP, but it's so confusing!

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missnessa84 · 26/11/2020 14:55

Isn't it just @sociallydistained
I talk myself into each scenario throughout the day.

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sociallydistained · 26/11/2020 14:11

@missnessa84

Saying that... Just read a post a women had a low cervix and was 27 days late before she got a bfp..
What a wait! It's crazy being in such limbo and reading lots of different stories!
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missnessa84 · 26/11/2020 13:16

Yes @Cjg14 so many questions.
Doctor didn't suggest prolapse could effect cycles, in fact he kind of dismissed my missed AF all together.

More waiting I guess...

Have you been doing any treatments for your p.prolapse?

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Cjg14 · 26/11/2020 13:10

@missnessa84 glad results came back clear.
I also have been told I have a partial prolapse but wasn't aware it could have anything to do with cycles. Just so many questions isn't there!

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missnessa84 · 26/11/2020 12:51

Doctor also considering that my uti symptoms could be from a prolapse (or very early beginnings of)
Arranging a pelvic exam etc..
Could a prolapse mess with regular AF cycles?

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missnessa84 · 26/11/2020 12:41

Hey,
Tests for UTI all clear, not a trace. Doctor not willing to do much else in regards to missed/late AF at this point.
Keep testing, if not bfp then AF will arrive soon enough.
Ugh... not sure how I feel now. Confused

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missnessa84 · 25/11/2020 22:38

@pizzaandcats

I've been reading into it this evening and apparently your cervix can take up to 12 weeks before it goes high and stays high if you are pregnant!
Oh really wow.. ok. Hope yet 🤞🏼
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pizzaandcats · 25/11/2020 21:41

I've been reading into it this evening and apparently your cervix can take up to 12 weeks before it goes high and stays high if you are pregnant!

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missnessa84 · 25/11/2020 21:34

Saying that...
Just read a post a women had a low cervix and was 27 days late before she got a bfp..

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missnessa84 · 25/11/2020 21:29

My cervix is very low. I don't think I'm ovulating, but if pregnant shouldn't it be high?

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missnessa84 · 25/11/2020 20:16

Haven't checked my cervix position, No CM yesterday but today white and sticky.

I enjoy TTC my partner really really really really wants a child, that's lovely but I do feel pressure sometimes. Especially now it's not as easy as when I was younger.

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pizzaandcats · 25/11/2020 18:24

This morning I had a really low, firm and closed cervix and no CM at all for the last few days. This evening its so high I can't actually feel it any more and I've got a little bit of sticky CM.

Anyone else hate TTC? I don't have a particularly high libido at the best of times (worse when I know I HAVE to DTD) and the waiting and looking at negative tests just gets me down

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missnessa84 · 25/11/2020 16:58

@pizzaandcats my symptoms have been all over the place, @Sunnybeam @Annannanna too I believe.
Boob soreness is definitely a PMT feeling I get. Nothing this time.

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missnessa84 · 25/11/2020 16:55

Hi @pizzaandcats nice to hear from you. Sorry that you are feeling this confusion too.

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missnessa84 · 25/11/2020 16:52

Stay in touch with any updates.
Baby dust to you....
SmileSmileSmile

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pizzaandcats · 25/11/2020 16:50

Can I join you lovely ladies please? CD42 for me. Held out until today to test but its BFN. My cycles are usually irregular and this isn't my longest but I usually have 3 or so days of EWCM and then 11 days after that AF arrives. This time I've had sporadic EWCM across two weeks (the last time was 12 days ago). No idea what's going on Sad feeling doubtful that it'll be good news this time but I am missing the usual symptoms of AF coming along too! I usually have sore boobs for a week and nothing...

pizzaandcats · 25/11/2020 16:50

Can I join you lovely ladies please? CD42 for me. Held out until today to test but its BFN. My cycles are usually irregular and this isn't my longest but I usually have 3 or so days of EWCM and then 11 days after that AF arrives. This time I've had sporadic EWCM across two weeks (the last time was 12 days ago). No idea what's going on Sad feeling doubtful that it'll be good news this time but I am missing the usual symptoms of AF coming along too! I usually have sore boobs for a week and nothing...