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Day 41 Negative Test.

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missnessa84 · 20/11/2020 11:48

Morning everyone,

Trying for a baby for a year. Normal cycle 27-30 days now day 41, negative "not pregnant" result from a clear blue digital pregnancy test this morning.
Ugh...
Test again (could it be too early) or except it's a longer cycle? Longest I've had since I've tracked in 3 years.
Cramps for a week.
I'm 36 years old if that helps lol..

Thanks in advance x

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missnessa84 · 08/12/2020 13:59

Hi @Ems2111
It's so frustrating isn't it. My bf is convinced I'm pregnant. I don't know what to think anymore. Blush

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Ems2111 · 08/12/2020 08:04

Hello,

Sorry to hear about people’s long cycles and potential missing AF... I’m in the same boat. We have been TMI since April and my cycles are varying from 34 to 45 days it’s driving me absolutely doollally!!

This month has been the worst though because I’m sure I ovulated about 6 days later than I expected and now I’m on 14dpo with no idea what’s happening :( day 43... I think my AF is on the way so I think I’m out. Iv had all sorts of symptoms over the last week. Today I have a bit of bloating and white milky discharge. Haven’t tested I’m too scared and convinced I’m not late anyway...

Massive good luck to everyone also waiting for their BFP!!

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missnessa84 · 08/12/2020 07:43

How about you @Sunnybeam

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missnessa84 · 08/12/2020 07:41

Poor you @Cjg14
Yes the same symptoms as you.
Thought Friday AF was coming because of cramps but nothing.
Boobs beginning to hurt a little. CM increase, very white (tmi)
Haven't tested since last Wednesday.
Have you spoken to a doctor at all?
Sorry can't remember.

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Cjg14 · 08/12/2020 06:32

Day 64 and nothing @missnessa84 it's driving me mad now! I just don't get it. I have waves of feeling nauseous, slight stomach cramps at points, boobs are hurting, still lots of cm. but I'm obviously not pregnant, haven't tested since the last time as I just feel like the point! Have u got any symptoms?

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missnessa84 · 07/12/2020 17:07

Day 58 for me. Haven't tested. How's you @Cjg14

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missnessa84 · 05/12/2020 07:49

Hi @Cjg14
Poor you that's so long. I'm really over this now. What's going on?
I read a similar post, I'm wondering if perhaps they have ovulated much much later than they think. Or missed AF then got pregnant.
So in fact it's not 80 days.
Who knows, we can hope.
Blush

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Cjg14 · 05/12/2020 07:14

Hi everyone, I'm now on day 61 with no sign of af. I have had terrible stomach pains but not like af cramps. I'm really over this now and just want af to show up! I did see a post the other day of a lady who was on day 80 and then got a bfp...is there still possibly hope?? I doubt it but why isn't af happening 😔

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missnessa84 · 04/12/2020 22:56

@Annannanna hope you get a wonderful bfp for xmas...xx

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Annannanna · 04/12/2020 22:34

Aw I have been wondering how you were getting on. It must be so frustrating waiting so long with no answers. I really hope you both get a late bfp!
I’m now on cd8 and waiting for ovulation, hoping for a Christmas Eve bfp!

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missnessa84 · 04/12/2020 22:11

And another bfn yesterday morning Sad

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missnessa84 · 04/12/2020 22:01

Hi @Sunnybeam
I'm on day 55 but AF feels like it's going to happen any minute.
Cramps and sharp pains.

X

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Sunnybeam · 04/12/2020 21:19

Also, im on cd 56 🥴

Sunnybeam · 04/12/2020 21:16

Hi everyone, sorry I havent been on in a while, just caught up now.

Im so sorry for you ladies who's AF arrived, its so hard but its also a relief after waiting so long for anything to happen.

I am still currently waiting for AF, I did do a test a few days after I tested on that Tuesday but none since and that was a bfn 😞.

No more AF symptoms or anything for that matter, I still feel tired a lot of the time still so I have no idea.

How are you all getting on now?

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missnessa84 · 30/11/2020 23:27

Oh poor you @sociallydistained sounds horrible, I'm dreading mine turning up, it can be bad on my longest cycle 36 days... 52 now.
Hope you feel better soon, and chilling is a great idea. Wink

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sociallydistained · 30/11/2020 22:28

My AF arrived Saturday it has definitely been the worst I've ever had. Cramps yesterday had me in tears! Very heavy for me I think it's just about slowing down. Was very worried earlier at work but no pain now thankfully. I really hope this cycle isn't as long I'm gonna try and chill out I think 🙈

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missnessa84 · 30/11/2020 15:07

@pizzaandcats That's good, hopefully you will be seen soon.
Good luck DaffodilDaffodilDaffodil
It was lovely talking to you on here.
Thanks for sharing and supporting.
Keep us up to date xx

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pizzaandcats · 30/11/2020 14:43

Thanks @missnessa84 the doc has made a referral to the fertility clinic so just got to wait for an appointment now

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missnessa84 · 30/11/2020 13:04

Good Luck with the doctor. Let us know what happens.

ThanksThanksDaffodilSmile

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pizzaandcats · 30/11/2020 12:39

I got to 46, called the doctor today and I'm waiting for a call back to see what's next for me as we have been trying for nearly 2 years now.

Hope to see some good news coming from the thread soon FlowersFlowers

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missnessa84 · 30/11/2020 12:32

Oh no @pizzaandcats Sad least you know where you are now. How many days did you get to?
I have a feeling we might all be experiencing the same thing.

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pizzaandcats · 30/11/2020 11:59

Hi all, looks like I'm out. Two days of spotting which stopped last night but AF is here this morning Sad

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missnessa84 · 29/11/2020 14:09

@Cjg14 it gets stranger!

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Cjg14 · 29/11/2020 12:46

Hi ladies, so I've taken a ic and it's negative again but I have also taken a ovulation test and it's high/peak yet again! Have any of you taken an ovulation test whilst ur waiting for af to turn up? X

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missnessa84 · 29/11/2020 09:54

Morning @Sunnybeam that is an interesting list Smile My achey feelings are back, and in lower back too.
Day 50 BlushBlushBlushfor me.

Let us know how the test goes.
P.s I've no patience either Grin

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