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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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No AF and BFNs 🤷‍♀️

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ImpatientMama · 17/11/2020 14:24

Hello! We are trying for our second child and I am frustrated. I am sure several of you can relate to being frustrated with this whole TTC thing. 😅 Anyways. AF was due 3 days ago and has not shown her ugly face yet. But I have also gotten nothing but negatives (and one invalid). I was planning on not testing again until AF is a week late. Anyone get their BFP that late or even later? I am irregular, so it could just be a late period? I just want to know if I really am pregnant or not, so I can move on! Thanks for any insight you all provide! 😊

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HT1335 · 18/02/2021 13:31

@lastbany least you know what’s happening now that it’s arrived
Good luck with the testing once it’s time!
I’ve got my scans tmorow 🤞🏻😊

Marvellouslymadmum · 18/02/2021 13:18

Feels like forever until that time again lol

mrssunshinexxx · 18/02/2021 13:01

@Marvellouslymadmum me neither I'm 3dpo

Marvellouslymadmum · 18/02/2021 12:45

Nope cd3 for me 😑

mrssunshinexxx · 18/02/2021 06:33

Anyone due to test soon x

lastbany · 15/02/2021 14:08

Af for me today x

HT1335 · 14/02/2021 13:00

@mrssunshinexxx oh that’s fab! Pleased you’ve had that ☺️

mrssunshinexxx · 14/02/2021 12:10

Just got static smiley was NOT expecting that really pleased done a cheapie too and also v strong ! X

Marvellouslymadmum · 10/02/2021 14:31

@HT1335 definitely! It's scary but progress so I'm definitely looking forward to it

Attiyaa7866 · 10/02/2021 13:44

Hi

HT1335 · 10/02/2021 13:35

@Marvellouslymadmum oh I’m the same I’m dreading the scans and whatever they’re going to do with me but on the other hand I can’t wait to see why it’s not happening and what can be done to help!!

Marvellouslymadmum · 10/02/2021 13:03

@HT1335 that's good! I can't wait to get the ball rolling - who would've thought I'd be looking forward to tests 😂

HT1335 · 10/02/2021 10:09

@Marvellouslymadmum yeah they’ve arranged a sa in advance of my appt he’s taking it to the hospital today so the results be back when I go my first appt, so we should get a good indication of what’s going on very soon!

Hope everyone else is getting on ok 🤞🏻😊

mrssunshinexxx · 10/02/2021 09:28

Anyone testing

Marvellouslymadmum · 09/02/2021 17:41

@HT1335 thank you, I'm just hoping she carries on with others after this first one! I know you can pay for separate tests if not but 🤞🏻 good luck at your appointment, I imagine one of the first things they'll do there is an sa if it hasn't already been done.

HT1335 · 09/02/2021 17:21

@Marvellouslymadmum good luck with the tests this is what I’ve recently had, j like when the doctor is proactive and sends for further tests etc hope all goes ok!
I have my appt at fertility clinic next week but my partner hasn’t had his sa appt yet and it would have been helpful for these results to be back in time for my appt but never mind

Marvellouslymadmum · 09/02/2021 17:03

I spoke to the doc and she's going to book me in for my day 21 test which I believe from other posts on here will me the progesterone one. She did just say don't worry and try to dtd 3/4 times a week even when you're not in the fw. The fact that we've had 2mc means we are fertile but possibly due to age as to why we had the mc (I'm presuming the egg quality test will be a good one to take for that?) she didn't seem too worried about getting my partners sa at the moment either but I think I'll just do this one then start bugging for others lol

Skl2021 · 07/02/2021 16:21

@ImpatientMama my youngest is 5 now feels like a lifetime ago 🤣 I don't think I felt any different at time of testing. I then got morning sickness a few weeks later but can't remember anything particular that made me take one I was just impatient and testing everyday 🤣 I have every symptom going now but I'm not pregnant sure my body is trying to trick me

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ImpatientMama · 07/02/2021 14:54

@Skl2021with my first I had like no symptoms. So far it's the same with this one. There was one day before I tested positive when I had a major mood swing. I am usually a chill person, but I lost my patience with my husband. It happens occasionally, because men. But, it felt different, so I kind of had a feeling I was pregnant. Haha. I have been peeing a lot more, but I have also been trying to be better about my water intake, so that is definitely a factor. How were you symptom-wise with your pregnancies?

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Skl2021 · 07/02/2021 14:44

@ImpatientMama how exciting! Bet you can't wait. Did u have any symptoms or a feeling? X

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ImpatientMama · 07/02/2021 14:36

@Skl2021 thanks! According to the app(s) I am using to track, I am around 6 weeks 4 days. Have my first doctor's visit Thursday, probably an ultrasound next week, then I will know exactly how far along I am.

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Skl2021 · 07/02/2021 14:29

@ImpatientMama yes our bodies like to play tricks on us keep us on our toes. Congratulations on your pregnancy! Hope it is successful Grin how far along are you? X

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ImpatientMama · 07/02/2021 13:52

@lastbany that is a good idea. Just enjoy the process and it will happen when it is meant to!

@Skl2021 I definitely felt like our first happened easier, around 3 months. I was working at the time so I was more distracted. Being a stay at home mom is a blessing but also allowed more time for me to overthink things during this process. This one took 5 months, with a chemical in the 3rd month. Hoping this pregnancy is successful! 🤞

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Skl2021 · 07/02/2021 13:32

@HT1335 not been using an app just doing opks everyday since last due period. But there all negative up to now Confused
@ImpatientMama not sure when or iff I ovulated. Only started opks again after my missed period but up to now there all negative still and it's been roughly 18 days since missed period. Never wanted af to come so bad Grin this is 3rd baby. 1st took around 9 month ttc. 2nd took straight away so silly old me thought it would be easy. Then my body throws a curve ball Hmm

lastbany · 07/02/2021 13:25

@ImpatientMama well this has been in my mind! Tbh past few months we haven't been properly trying haven't monitored ovulation etc just had sex now and again but not much of it die to one thing or another lol due to such small chance of falling preg each month we deceived balls to it! Keep trying if it happened then then it's ment to be lol

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