POAS Anonymous - Thread 2

@AMS19 @Bells20 I did on CD 27 because I thought if I was pregnant it would show being one day before my period was due and that was with an early test and it was stark white negative so haven’t bothered since 😂

I thought it was more likely that my cycle might be messed up this month because I wasn’t well and it might just be longer than usual. And the second opk peak of that month puts me at 10DPO which would mean my period is due in 4 days with a 34 day cycle 🤷🏻‍♀️

Don’t know what to do really, wait it out or test again 😂 x

@PowerOfFlowers your chart looks fantastic! Did you chart last month too, are there any differences?

@jessi60 have you tested? AF is late so might be worth doing one and seeing what it says?

@PowerOfFlowers Hey, aw fingers crossed for you this month 🤞🏼Good that your temp has stayed up!

I have no idea what my body is up too. Normally a 28 day cycle but currently on cycle day 31 with no sign of af. So don’t know if this cycle is going to be longer 🤷🏻‍♀️ the app has me down as 10dpo due to the highest opk but don’t know if I actually ovulated as I didn’t have any other symptoms to go along side it.

You never know that dizziness might be something🥰 Xx

Morning! How are you all? Where are you all in your cycle now?
So... 9/10 dpo over here! Bbt dipped slightly yesterday but today it's shot up again - here's my chart! Haven't tested as I have a 35 day cycle so too early (wow - who am I?!). Haven't been symptom spotting this time either but one weird thing happened yesterday - I was on the sofa, had just finished eating lunch (a chicken salad sandwich if anyone's interested 🤣) I got up and I was so dizzy. I was dizzy for about two hours. A dizziness like you get the day after way too many gins. I was ok last night and I'm ok today. Anyway, its probably not connnected.

@CardioQueen sorry missed your message. So sorry to hear this I really feel for you. Totally understand taking a step back from the forum as it can get so overwhelming at times. Have everything crossed for you and wishing you all the best. 🥰xx

@CardioQueen oh god I am so so so sorry to hear this. Feeling for you 💛 totally understandable to take a break from here, thank you for all your support 🌟 wishing you all the best in navigating through this tough time! Xxx

@Dex1521 Congrats on your news! Very exciting! xx 🥳

@CardioQueen Sorry you got this news, it’s really rubbish and so unfair that people have to go through this. Your right to take a step back from things, i think the forum can be quite hard when you see so many success stories (although it is lovely at the same time) you need to do what’s best for you. Sending you all the luck in the world with your fertility journey, you hear about wonderful things happening for people. The first step is finding out what’s wrong and then you can now progress towards some progress 🤞🏼🤍

If you ever feel up to it we would love to hear how you’re getting on and keeping us updated when the time is right.

Sending lots of love to you Xxxx

@Foxl2222 @AMS19 @GreenApplesYo @Bells20 @PowerOfFlowers thank you so much for your kind words.

Definitely want to keep in touch with you girls - when I know more and have processed it a bit more I will let you know how things are going. I want to hear how you're all progressing down the line as well ☺️

Thank you @Bells20 @PowerOfFlowers it’s all very exciting

Oh @CardioQueen huge hugs to you. This must have been a shock for you. But, on the plus side you now know what's happening and they are going to help you. How weird about your LH being so high but yet opks gave you nothing to go on.
Yes I agree with @AMS19 Please do keep us updated (that is, if you want to and when you are ready)I was thinking of you just yesterday wondering how you were getting on. Hugs xxx

Congrats @Dex1521 - great news for you guys!

@Dex1521 that is so exciting!!! Hope it's a smooth process for you! You've gotta be a bit cheeky sometimes and try your luck haven't you!

House update - we are after a house for sale at £128k we offered yesterday £118k chancing our arm and they declined it then this morning we got a phone call from agents asking did we want to increase our offer so we said £120k and they declined asking for at least £122k to cover their fees. We said no and (lied) that we had another house who is accepting £120 and we were gonna go with them. So then 2 mins later agent was back on the phone saying they’ll accept £120k

So excited and nervous too haha being a first time buyers but so glad we’ve bought our first family home too

@CardioQueen I am so sorry to hear that but at the same time glad you were able to have these tests and get more of an understanding about what was going on! I echo everything @AMS19 said really and I'm wishing you all the very best xx

Oh @CardioQueen I'm so sorry to hear this and really hope everything works out for you. It would be lovely to hear from you again if you feel like it at a later point. Best of luck for the future, I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for you. Take care of yourself xxx

@CardioQueen so sorry to hear this ❤️ sending you lots of love and prayers that it all works out for you. Take care of yourself xx

Hi girls ☺️

Got results of my bloods and AMH back and they weren't good - LH too high (so confused as I don't get even the faintest line on an OPK), oestrogen too low, FSH at the very top of the normal parameters...points towards possible ovarian failure. I.e. early menopause. AMH was 8 which is low for my age (33) - puts me in the 25th percentile. If it is early menopause then AMH doesn't really matter anyway as IVF isn't an option.

Waiting to hear back from fertility specialist on Monday as to when I can get an appt. But I don't think this forum is the right place for me so I'm going to wish you all the very best and hope you gets lots of BFPs ♥️♥️

@AMS19 I'm in Woodford, which is like London/Essex border :)

@Bells20 that line is amazing!!! Must feel really real now seeing it like that. Are you going to take a CB digital to see how many weeks?

@Dex1521 amazing news about the house!! Congrats! That will be a nice distraction from TTC aswell.

Oh @jessi60 I thought we were bad with having our offer accepted in August, still waiting on vendors to get mortgage offer and checks etc for ours. Currently in a one bed flat with no garden. Not exactly ideal for a bambino! Hope you get sorted soon

I'm 9dpo today now and had another BFN this morning. Although I know it's technically still early. Will try again tomorrow🤞 but still assuming it's not my month as I haven't felt so much as a twinge of anything! 🙈

@GreenApplesYo that snow😍😍

@DrS44 ah thanks! I wouldn't worry about your temp, as @jessi60 says it's very normal for it to fluctuate. I've definitely had some lower temps around there. I think general rules are just taking it at the same time every day where possible and needs to be after 3 hours consecutive sleep at least so maybe that affected it if you didn't sleep well. If you take your temp outside of your usual times there are some helpful adjusters online (I just googled bbt adjuster) which should hopefully provide a more accurate reading. Glad to hear you're feeling chill too!

@DrS44 No your body temperature can jump around all over the place, I’m normally like 37.5-37.6 which people like to tell me is high, which it’s not. But I’ve been doing it more recently in work and sometimes I’m like 36, doesn’t mean anything even though it’s not my normal. Just keep tracking to see it go high 🥰 wish I could use temperatures lol.

Depends how long your cycle is, 28 day cycle text book is day 14 so half way but I’ve been having 27 day cycles but didn’t get my peak until CD 20. So god knows what’s went on there 😂 x

I'm actually CD 11! Not 10 🙈

What's the "normal" ovulation day? If there is such a thing

@jessi60 oh ya I'm not worried that I'm ill or anything it's just lower than what I've been recording which has been about 36.33 ish! So I wondered if it meant anything!

Ya I'm glad we got the crazy month out of our systems 🤣 xx