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The dreaded TWW!

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mommyofone2019 · 11/11/2020 15:02

Anyone else in the dreaded tww?
I'm currently 2DPO. Would be nice to chat to others in the same waiting game to keep us sane!

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mommyofone2019 · 19/11/2020 07:27

So sorry to hear @Emmie12345 😞 sending lots of 🤗 xx

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Emmie12345 · 19/11/2020 07:24

Thanks @mommyofone2019 yeah 100% AF (

I thought the time I ovulated was when dp and I were apart this month as I was mega frisky . Just missed the boat(

Feel so sad cos at my age I literally have so few eggs left I rhink ! Xxx

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mommyofone2019 · 18/11/2020 22:31

Oh no. So sorry to hear @Emmie12345 🥺 is it definitely af?

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Emmie12345 · 18/11/2020 22:20

Just got my period ((

Feel really sad (

Good luck all ! Xx

Highfalutinlootin · 18/11/2020 21:01

I keep testing because I think I'm having symptoms, but if it doesn't work out this month I think I'll know better next month and be much more judicious with the tests. Just hard to know what's a symptom!

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mommyofone2019 · 18/11/2020 19:49

@KitQ good luck 💪🏻 I caved and tested using a frer today and instantly regretted wasted one 😞

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KitQ · 18/11/2020 19:21

I’ve caved and ordered some early pregnancy tests. Arriving tomorrow but gonna hold out as long as I can before testing (let’s see how long that lasts once they’re here..)

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mommyofone2019 · 18/11/2020 18:47

@Boredinthehouse12 that's kind of given me a bit of hope. I'm exactly the same. Zero symptoms. Just the odd pain and I wouldn't even say cramps, more like a weird belly ache 🤷🏻‍♀️ I'm not going to bother testing tomorrow now. I'll hold out until Friday fmu

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Boredinthehouse12 · 18/11/2020 18:23

@KitQ AF is due on Saturday, so 3 days. I didn’t test between 10dpo and 13dpo because I didn't have any symptoms. I’ve got everything crossed hoping this one sticks

KitQ · 18/11/2020 17:09

I mean BFP sorry @Boredinthehouse12

KitQ · 18/11/2020 17:08

@Boredinthehouse12 Congrats! How many days before AF are you to get your BFN?

Highfalutinlootin · 18/11/2020 16:54

@DJmum83 So sorry. :( But at least the new cycle comes on very quickly after AF.

@Boredinthehouse12 Congrats!! Keep us updated on the line.

I tested again today at 8 DPO. BFN. Been having all sorts of twinges and cramps but like all of you somehow I can’t tell if it’s just my period coming on or not.

madeinthe80z · 18/11/2020 15:56

@zeerecords I'm not too sure. I think I had what you would call a chemical the month before I conceived my daughter. Basically, I tested early and got a faint positive. The lines on the tests didn't get darker over the next week and then 9-10 days later, I started bleeding, which was essentially AF but a week late and more painful. Not sure what that was classed as though really. Lack of line progression seems to be the common theme with 'chemicals'
Not a nice term really.

Boredinthehouse12 · 18/11/2020 15:50

@mommyofone2019 you’re definitely not out yet. I tested on 9 and 10 dpo but got -a bfn. As I previously said I tested again this afternoon at 13dpo and just got my BFP. FYI I tested with FRER on days 9 and 10 too! There’s still a chance!

zeerecords · 18/11/2020 15:30

Does anyone know when a chemical pregnancy (hate that term but don't know how else to phrase it) is no longer an option? Is is a few days after AF is due or a week?

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mommyofone2019 · 18/11/2020 15:09

@Boredinthehouse12 I'm 9DPO today. Couldn't resist the urge to test using a frer anymore so did this afternoon and was a bfn!

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Boredinthehouse12 · 18/11/2020 14:39

@mommyofone2019 thank you! How many dpo are you now?

DJmum83 · 18/11/2020 14:28

@mommyofone2019 tomorrow or Friday xx

madeinthe80z · 18/11/2020 14:19

Boooo for AF 👎👎 sorry 😞

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mommyofone2019 · 18/11/2020 14:12

@DJmum83 no 😞 was it due today?

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DJmum83 · 18/11/2020 14:10

Af got me today with a bang xx

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mommyofone2019 · 18/11/2020 14:01

White as a ghost!!

The dreaded TWW!
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mommyofone2019 · 18/11/2020 13:58

@Boredinthehouse12 that is definitely a bfp!!! Congratulations 🥳🥳

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mommyofone2019 · 18/11/2020 13:58

I CAVED! And bfn obviously! And now I'm annoyed that I've wasted a frer!
not testing now until Friday 😞

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Boredinthehouse12 · 18/11/2020 13:57

@KitQ sorry for the late reply, I was 10/11dpo at the time so pretty much thought I was out.

I’ve just done another test and it looks positive to me. I have absolutely no symptoms, Zero, Zilch, Nada so I’m trying not to get my hopes up. With my first pregnancy in June (ended in MMC) I had nausea and sore boobs very early on but this time there’s nothing.

I think I need to retest in a few days to make sure it’s not a fluke.

The dreaded TWW!
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