TTC after MC - November 2020 (Thread 15)

@anon0704 how many DPO are you? I’m 4DPO today, with AF predicted to arrive between 9-12th December. Xx

@susiebluebell that’s so flipping cruel. I really hope you get your BFP. It doesn’t seem to make sense having such a long cycle for no reason. Have you temped throughout your cycle? its your temp still high?

@MoMof4xx what lovely news. HUGE congratulations to you. 💕

Anyone else on the TWW? Sanity please? 💜

@susiebluebell i'm really sorry, I really thought it was gunna be a bfp. Is ur GP helpful? U could maybe phone them for a chat tommorow xx

I’m not 100% sure of anything else that it could be other than the potential options that you’ve mentioned @susiebluebell It’s a very tough situation to be in, I do remember other women on here missing a period randomly in their cycles and it not being usual for them. Xxx

What do you all think is the issue? I've been feeling worse as the day has gone on. I suppose I could really be pregnant and am just one of those people who don't get a positive till later. Or else it could be a missed period, pcos, etc etc 😩 I'm going down a hole now. Hope everyone else is doing better than this! Xx

@susiebluebell I'm really sorry, that must be so blooming frustrating xx

@susiebluebell I really feel for you - sending you a hug. You did so well waiting and it seems very unfair. Xx

@HappyVibes I'm 20dpo based on when I believe I ovulated x

Usually my cycles are bang on 34 days. Since mc, I've had three cycles - 32, 35 and 34 days. So a bit of variation but not much. And by this late, it should be clear whether or not I'm pregnant. I could have ovulated later than thought, I tracked a rise but didn't catch the peak LH. I don't know what to make of it and I'm feeling quite deflated this afternoon xx

@susiebluebell I’m so sorry lovely :( That must be very stressful and disappointing. Is there a chance you were gearing up to ovulate but then actually ovulated later in your cycle? Xx

Oh goodness @susiebluebell What are your cycles usually like? Are you usually regular? How many DPO are you? Xx

Just done another digital and says not pregnant again... 🤦🏻‍♀️

@susiebluebell have you got any more test, to test again with a held wee? I definitely think the fridge situation will not make it as accurate. It doesn’t sound like a chemical as you would likely have had bleeding by now with a CP. xxx

@susiebluebell thank you. It really was. Everything crossed for u xx

I'm keeping everything crossed for you @susiebluebell xxx

@MoMof4xx Ah how wonderful! You must be over the moon to see baby's heartbeat! 💕

@elsimo @MSG92 I'm holding onto the hope that it was just because the wee had sat in the fridge. The thought of a chemical or an anovulatory cycle (though I don't know much about symptoms of them) just feels really cruel. I wouldn't mind AF if it came on time - but I'm on cd41 with no signs of anything either way. Grr x

Pushed my early scan to today and baby had a strong heartbeat. So relieved x

@susiebluebell just test straight away rather than fridge etc, it might impact your result. As late as you are if you just hold a couple of hours and don't drink loads you should get a more accurate result.

@susiebluebell maybe its because the urine had sat for a while. I was using Asda's own brands and I got positives any time of the day.
I would say if u are a week past ur period being due then just use the cheapie because it would show anyway xx

Right I'm very confused now ladies. We bought Clearblue digitals and a £1 cheapie just out of curiosity. It was first morning urine but had been in an airtight metal tub in the fridge for about 4 hours before we got home from shopping. I took it out of the fridge about 15min before testing, so that it would be closer to room temp. And yet we've got a Not Pregnant and an invalid... 😕

@HappyVibes
I have everything crossed for you. Were you tracking ovulation?

Sorry to hear about you ladies waiting for your negative. It is such a strange emotion wanting a negative but really wanting the baby you lost. I ended up having a pregnancy test at the hospital because I had line eyes and was convinced there was still a faint line.
I think you are all right about testing early. I’ve got those easy at home tests and I’m pretty certain they always have a faint line. The two week wait feels like forever though doesn’t it.
How do you all get through it without going crazy? Xx

@leftitlate37 yeah I know. I get really bad ovulation pain so I know when I'm ovulating without tests. I'm actually starting to feel ovulation pain a bit today which is about 2 weeks since I started bleeding myself. But it's only 5 days since I had my D&C and last sunday my test line was so dark 🤷‍♀️
Really want to just crack on a try if this is ovulation xx

This is so me @elsimo! today is first time got a definite no line at all!! Last week still got a faint one that I was thinking nah noting there, but if had been wanting a BFP I'd be going yippee a faint line ha. Cant have it both ways eh!