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TTC after a Missed Miscarriage

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Mustkeepgoing2 · 11/11/2020 10:16

Hi

I was wondering if anyone wanted to join me in TTC again.

I suffered a missed miscarriage at 10 weeks in October and was completely devastated. I did opt for the surgery but because of the wait time miscarried naturally before my scheduled surgery.

My cycle returned 29 days after my miscarriage bleed and I am now on my period. I am now three days into my first cycle and we are thus going to start TTC again now. Hopefully it won't take long.

The purpose of this thread is for support and to share experiences along the way of TTC again after loss.

I hope there might be other ladies who might want to join me who are at the same or similar stage as me and are TTC again. It can be such a difficult and confusing time xxx

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Original poster
Mustkeepgoing2 · 11/11/2020 14:08

Welcome and I am sorry for your loss. I am CD3 xx

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TTCROYGBIV · 11/11/2020 13:23

I’ll join you.

MMC in May, had medical management in May, surgical in June and surgical again in July. AF finally appeared 18 weeks later on Sunday just gone so on CD4 today.

Will be starting to use my Ovusense which arrived last week so hopefully that will take the stress and routine out of trying as was trying for 10 months before the mc.

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Mustkeepgoing2 · 11/11/2020 13:18

Thank you. I hope this cycle goes well for you too.

Please do let me know how you get on. I will be keeping everything crossed.

This will be my 1st true cycle back and my period is much heavier than it would normally be but I hear that's normal.

I have found it all very hard in all honesty. I have one healthy toddler who I conceived easily but when TTC no 2 I also had an ectopic in June so when I found out that I was pregnant again and it was in the right place it felt brilliant and it hit me hard realising it was a MMC at 10 weeks.

Xxxx

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EclipseHart · 11/11/2020 12:28

Hi there,

I am so very sorry for your loss, it is a huge blow and can take a long time to come back from.

I had a MMC in early September at 9 weeks and I still have a little cry when I think about it.

I had a normal cycle post MMC, but then a very short cycle the next month. I am now on cycle 3 post MC and I have seemingly ovulated a few days earlier than usual. 9dpo now and tested BFN on a test.

Not holding out much hope for this month as we suffer infertility and were lucky to get pregnant with the MMC!

I hope this cycle goes well for you xx

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