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IB???

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Noirberry19 · 07/11/2020 19:50

Having very light brown discharge today. I'm around 7-8dpo and never have this. Could it be IB?
Has anyone else had this, but ended up to be something different?

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Dixywitch19 · 16/11/2020 20:30

@Grumpsy I hope you get your bfp before having to go for ivf! It’s such a heart wrenching journey ttc isn’t it. I find it takes up pretty much all my mental space x

Grumpsy · 16/11/2020 17:27

@Noirberry19 yep absolutely, to be fair I think I’m running out of symptoms that I’ve had that are for no reason. I’m still hoping you’re in with a chance though.

If we don’t get anywhere we’ll be going for ivf next year. So I’ve spent my weekend wondering how that’s going to work when I need to pretend adult in a stressful job full time whilst basically being a walking hormone. I’m still hoping for a miracle before then, but it seems unlikely. 🙈

Dixywitch19 · 16/11/2020 17:11

@Noirberry19 I think mumsnet auto puts names in capitals when you @ someone!

I’ve only got two ICs left and one Asda cheapie left so I don’t wanna keep wasting them but I can’t seem to help myself 😂 I can’t stop weeing at the minute and have awful nausea which is pissing me off because there’s 0 reason 🤨 xxx

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Noirberry19 · 16/11/2020 17:05

P.s. don't even know what I'm doing putting everything in bold. Ffs 🤷🏻‍♀️😂😂

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Noirberry19 · 16/11/2020 17:05

@Dixywitch19 still nothing for me either, but god knows when I'm due!! Had really bad headache most of day, but think that's work related. Also had upset stomach too. Haven't tested again since Saturday, but can't be bothered either to see bfn 😩
How are you feeling today? Xxx

@Grumpsy oh god, I know the feeling. Every time I think "hmm this is different" and get excited, bfn. I should just learn that my body likes doing its own thing every month to get my hopes up 🥴🤦🏻‍♀️
Aww bless. Thank you. Although, I think it's a shit month again for me 🤦🏻‍♀️
Keep each other supported for next cycle. Hopefully @Dixywitch19 still has luck this cycle though as no af yet 🤞🏼
Hope you're feeling ok (ok as can be!!)xxx

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Grumpsy · 16/11/2020 09:44

@Noirberry19 thanks 🙂. It definitely is shit, but nothing surprises me anymore. 🙄🙈

Fingers crossed for you though! I think it’s only fair at least one of us should have some good news this cycle!!

Dixywitch19 · 16/11/2020 09:11

@Noirberry19 no sign of af yet for me but the cramps are def getting stronger. Also felt sick as a dog for last 24 hours - still bfn so can’t be related!

How’re you doing? Xx

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Noirberry19 · 15/11/2020 17:30

@Dixywitch19 definitely! Literally felt so positive with the mid cycle bleeding, but nothing will surprise me now. So annoying.

Hope you're feeling ok xxx

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Dixywitch19 · 15/11/2020 14:42

@Noirberry19 same here tbh. Resigned myself to the bfn, what a confusing cycle.
It’s awful having a billion questions go thru ur mind isn’t it xx

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Noirberry19 · 15/11/2020 14:38

@Grumpsy Sorry it's gotten heavier. Not fair is it. So shit 😩 sending hugs xx

@Dixywitch19 fingers crossed it stays away. I don't know when I'll be due now with this cycle. From now until 20th I assume. 🙄

Feel shit at the moment with everything. Struggling to be positive 🙄 how are you? Xxx

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Dixywitch19 · 15/11/2020 11:17

@Noirberry19 bfn here too. But no sign of af and I should be due on today (I think!)

I have horrendous back ache and keep thinking I’ve come on af but it’s just wet cm 🧐

How’re you both feeling xx

Grumpsy · 15/11/2020 09:16

@Noirberry19 yes no mistaking it’s AF, still not as heavy as usual, but definitely heavier than yesterday 😕

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Noirberry19 · 15/11/2020 09:04

@Dixywitch19 I'm being such a bitch at the moment lol. Think it's hormones mixed with anger 🙄😂

Bfn for me this morning too, so can't imagine I'll have bfp this month 😩

@Grumpsy has it turned into at??

Hope you're both ok xxx

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Grumpsy · 14/11/2020 19:06

I’m still a day - 2 days early based on ovulation (confirmed with opks and temps) I think my body has a horrid sense of humour 🙄 plus I always have a 14 day LP 🙈

Dixywitch19 · 14/11/2020 18:19

@Noirberry19 omg I was in a bitch mood yesterday! Everything was absolutely driving me crazy.

I’ve had no cramps no nothing! Did a test this evening after an afternoon nap 🤣 was bfn so I think I’m out but I’m now questioning when I’m actually supposed to be due af as I have no symptoms at all x

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Noirberry19 · 14/11/2020 17:44

@Grumpsy aww it's so horrible not knowing and waiting, isn't it?!

Sending lots of hugs and fingers crossed it won't get any heavier 🤞🏼 x

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Grumpsy · 14/11/2020 17:23

@Noirberry19 I’m bleeding, but it’s still very light, usually AF is fairly heavy with small clots. I still think it’s my AF, but I have no idea with what’s going on with my this month as it’s just been so odd 🙈

I’ll see what happens tomorrow I guess

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Noirberry19 · 14/11/2020 17:19

@Dixywitch19 no symptoms here either aside from the odd twinge and I'm in a complete b*tch mood, but that could be anything 🥴😂Xxx

@Grumpsy aww no. Hope it's not af for you! Anymore since you posted? Hope you're ok x

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Grumpsy · 14/11/2020 15:27

@Dixywitch19 not tested due to bleeding and cramps. Mainly the cramps, unmistakable AF cramps 😞

Dixywitch19 · 14/11/2020 13:56

@Grumpsy have you tested or are you not going to because you’ve got bleeding x

Grumpsy · 14/11/2020 13:04

@Dixywitch19 mine are usually 28 days, but occasionally I have a 26day cycle and sometimes up to 30 days. Never usually 25. At this point, after intermittent bleeding throughout my LP nothing surprises me 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️

Dixywitch19 · 14/11/2020 13:01

@Grumpsy I have really long cycles usually, until my mc earlier this year, since then I’ve actually had 4 periods which is crazy for me, before that I’d had 4 in two years!

Grumpsy · 14/11/2020 12:59

@Dixywitch19 I started spotting again this morning, followed by horrible cramps. Followed by bleeding (red blood) but it’s very light at the minute. I’ll see what happens but I assume this is cd1, after just a 25day cycle 🙈 shortest cycle I’ve ever had.

Dixywitch19 · 14/11/2020 12:53

@Noirberry19 @Grumpsy heyyy 👋🏼

How is everyone?
Still same here no more ‘symptoms’.
Bloody tired though!

I looked into the Ava bracelet and the ovusense but they’re a lot of money. Xx

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Noirberry19 · 13/11/2020 18:03

@Grumpsy I haven't seen the Ava bracelet, although read about it briefly on here.
I never looked into that because I was originally diagnosed with pcos, so thought it was pointless for me.
Yeah, if you've got the hang of the temp, I wouldn't bother spending money on the bracelet x

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