Two week wait - going crazy

Hi Ladies! My first post on here but so helpful to read people are feeling like me. So TTC#2 I’ve just turned 40. Ultra confused got a BFN earlier today which is weird as I feel pregnant so am v disappointed. So I am always regular cycle about 27-29 days. Day 27 got v light pinkish spotting/staining in liner lasted about 2.5 days on and off. My boobs are on fire 😳. Was not a typical period for me at all. It never went blood red or had a flow. Usually my boobs stop hurting as soon as period comes. Twingy/crampy and bloated still. Emotional all the usual. Used a CB test but now read that these are not most sensitive? Today would be day 32 of last cycle unless that was my period? Should I test again? Should add I was using OPK clearblue and never got a smiley but forgot to test on day 15 with early wee. I did have signs of ovulation though. Ideas girls? 🤪🤪🤪

@Wils85 my biggest sign was sore boobs, not extremely sore or anything like that but definitely tender so hopefully you're in the same boat, it's still early days so fingers crossed for you!

@Wils85 that was the biggest sign for me (after my sore boobs) I started getting really gassy and acid reflux. Good luck honey xx

@3scompany @Char1803 thanks ladies. I know it's early and Im still hopeful, time will tell. Struggling with reflux last night and today and that was a biggy in my last pregnancy. If I'm not PG then my body is crueller than I ever though!

Will keep you posted though ladies and thank you for the luck. Sending love xxx

@Wils85 of you are not due AF till Wednesday you are still technically 5 days before missed AF so you still may not be out. I have everything crossed for you!!

@3scompany I told my sister in law as soon as I did as test because it was so faint I wasn't sure if it was positive and she already has 2 children so I checked with her 🤣 i also told my parents last night as I feel if anything went wrong I would want them to know and to have their support. But I won't be telling anyone else now until 12 weeks which will be close family and friends xx

Oh @Wils85 I'm sorry 😔 but you're right: you're not out yet! I'm also sorry you feel so horrendous. That cannot be helping. I shall still be keeping everything crossed for you xxx

@Char1803 I don't plan to tell anyone other than maybe work before 8 weeks. (When I'm hoping to have a reassurance scan: as long as places like that are still open!) what about you? Xxx

BFN for me this morning on a FRER. God knows what my body is doing as I feel shocking! Hey ho, not out til the fat lady sings but I'm just gonna wait it out now. No more testing xxx

Testing today...I think! 🙈 I feel so anxious as I'm scared about the result and if it's negative that I look like an idiot (again) because how I've been feeling had made me think I am PG. I still have sore boobs this morning. @Char1803 mine aren't extremely sore but I know I have them and they don't hurt to touch and haven't kept me awake like @3scompany but then I don't remember them being that level of sore in my first pregnancy. I keep trying not to compare, as I know every pregnancy is different but it's so hard not to. I try to stop myself as well because neither previous pregnancy worked out so I don't want to jinx it. Tiring of this rollercoaster ride 😔

I have to wait a bit as in a sleepy state I went for a wee at 430 🤦🏻‍♀️ so going to try and hold for at least 4 hours and use a FRER

Hope everyone has a lovely Sunday xxx

Thanks girls for the kind messages 😊 congratulations on all your BFPs!

I've been getting quite pronounced cramping on and off today. I do get cramping before AF so most likely is just that.

@Wils85 and anyone who is in their TWW - when will you next be testing?

Thanks ladies 🥰 will defo keep you posted!

Welcome @acaciabluebell 👋🏻 I agree with all the ladies, it's still early doors yet and you're not out til you're out 🤞🏻

This really is a lovely feed. You've really helped me this time round and kept me smiling. Sending so much love and baby dust to all xxx

@3scompany ah how exciting, I will be 12 weeks on Christmas day so excited to announce!!! I'm really keen to tell my parents today but I'm just not sure if its a good idea given that I am only 4 weeks. Do you plan to tell anyone?

@Wils85 thank you!! Fingers crossed for you, but I definitely just had a feeling like you did and had extremely sore boobs so sounds promising!!

@JenC95 congrats!! The test on the top is so clear for 12dpo mine was still really faint then!! My clear blue digital showed positive 14dpo so you may not have to wait too long!!

This is a lovely feed I have seen so many with so many negative results its nice to see some positive ones!!

Evening ladies!

I've done two tests today - a FRER this morning and a regular First Response test this afternoon both BFPs at 12dpo! I am genuinely shocked, scared and excited all at the same time. I have a clear blue digital to use but going to wait till next week to use it (also to see if little bean sticks) and tell my fiance.

@3scompany and @Char1803 biggest congratulations to you both If my ovulation and potential date of when I conceived (and looking at fertility friend app) I should be 12th July so right next to you guys!

@Wils85 biggest luck to you with your FRER, I have everything crossed for you!

@acaciabluebell don't lose hope yet, 8dpo is still early so retest in a few days, best of luck!

I really hope you get your bfp tomorrow @Wils85 !! My boobs have been ridiculous the last 4/5days. So so sore. They've actually kept me awake! I'd be just under a week behind you so pending scan dates (all being well) I'd hope to make a New Years announcement too 🥰

@acaciabluebell hello! Don't lose hope. I tested yesterday with a FRER and was very negative and must've had a huge boost in hcg as today's result was instant and quite clear. So big fingers crossed for you too! Xx

Hi guys can I join? I am 10dpo today of cycle #5. I've not been having many symtpoms this month, but I've had months where I've had SO many symtpoms and not been pregnant sooo I dunno.

I don't have any tests except one step internet cheapies which I did at 8dpo and was very negative. Thinking to just wait and see if AF shows or not... Due on Monday

@3scompany just told DH how I've been feeling today and that I suspect but daren't say it for fear of jinxing it and I think we might test tomorrow morning with the FRER 🙈 I checked my fertility app and I didn't test positive on a cheapy until day 27 and I'm only day 24 today.

I'm already anxious thinking about it. I felt hungover this morning (I don't drink anymore), I've have had an undercurrent of nausea all day and my boobs have been sore all day. They've been on and off sore the last couple of days as well. So I'm keeping all my appendages crossed but also trying not to get my hopes up too high.

Thinking way ahead (as I always do) we will be 12 weeks on my birthday (new year's eve) so we might be able to give family and friends and very happy new year, that would be just perfect wouldn't it?

If I haven't said it before @Char1803 congratulations 🎉🎉🎉 got everything crossed for you xxx

@Char1803 ooh how exciting! Mine would be 16th July 2021. But I'm still a bit wary of dates because I had my coil out 30th sept and have had 2 periods (a week apart) between then and now. But I assume I'll have fallen after my second period on 11th Oct and I have 26 day cycles (I know I ov'd either 22-23 Oct) xxx

@3scompany what is your EDD? X

@3scompany at the moment 9th July 2021 but I'm not exactly sure when I ovulated i think it was earlier than predicted. I didn't use trackers or measure my temp so not sure when O happened!

That's good news @Char1803!! Big fingers crossed for you. When is your EDD based on dates so far?

@Wils85 I hope you join us too. This thread has been lovely and supportive 🥰 when are you planning to test? Xxx

@3scompany I am with you on that one, I feel like I was consumed by waiting for a BFP and now I have got it I'm consumed by hoping nothing happens 🙈
I am CD 30 (usually 28days) and still no AF 🤞

@3scompany I feel you! I've had to stop running as my chest is so tight 😔 taken up sewing instead, not much difference 😂 sending you love for the next 9 weeks. Hoping that I'll be joining you on that journey ❤️

@Wils85 thank you! Now I'm just anxious about the next 9 weeks 😩 I wish I could get my anxiety in check. Xxx

Eeeeek @3scompany they look positive to me my lovely. Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉

Thank you @Wils85 I'll attach them below. (I've since done a FRER too!)

Hope everyone is ok today. Big 🤞🏻🤞🏻 for everyone xx

Morning @3scompany bless you for being so considerate ❤️ I'm happy for you to post them, we are all in this together xx

PS I'm sure I responded to some of the posts from yesterday but it's disappeared... 🤔 I'm losing it 😂

Welcome to the trying to stay sane house @JenC95 👋🏻 let us know how you get on with the FRER. I'm at a similar stage. I took a cheapy strip this morning at it was BFN. Only took it as I was mega nauseous and have sore boobs. I have a FRER but don't want to waste it 🙈 how ridiculous, I know. Im determined not to test now until Wednesday, save myself the heartache but the inevitable hanging on to hope until AF arrives. Ah the rollercoaster 😔