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Thoughts please? 😣

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Stabal · 24/10/2020 18:49

MMC in May after TTC for 2 years and no luck since. Decided to give up tracking this month and didn't even reorder supplements because I've been extremely down about it all and every month is devastating. Last month I had a short luteal phase of 8 days when I'm normally around 15 and my whole cycle is usually between 32-35, ovulating around CD19-22. So I've not been tracking but still doing my temps every morning. FF is saying I've ovulated already (BBT attached) which is early for me. Yesterday temp dipped, I had a few cramps in the afternoon and some spotting by last night. Today I've had more spotting this evening. Yesterday was tiny red tinges when I wiped, today is more brownish and more on the tissue when I wipe than yesterday but not enough to need a pad. So I decided to take an OPK and it was positive.. What do we think? AF arriving meaning a really short luteal phase again or FF is wrong and this is ovulation bleeding? I don't normally spot before AF or with ovulation and it seems odd to be having ovulation bleeding days before ovulation would actually be happening? Ready to just rip out my ovaries at this point as it becomes increasingly closer to my due date 😔

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Stabal · 26/10/2020 17:52

@galatea098 God it feels never ending doesn't it! I can't decide if I'll go back to the OPKs next cycle or not. In one hand it's nice not peeing into a pot 3 times a day 🙄 and feeling regimented but on the other I'm stressed I've no idea what's happening lol. No, it's dipped low again so honestly at a loss what's going on! I was very crampy last night and no spotting today so maybe today is ovulation? Who knows anymore! Where abouts in your cycle are you?

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galatea098 · 26/10/2020 16:55

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Stabal · 25/10/2020 21:25

@galatea098 I think everything in the world right now is making a lot of cycles messy! We're doing really good with the BDing this cycle because we're in N.I so currently in a second lockdown and both of us are off work again 😂 it's nice to not be manically tracking with the OPKs and just enjoying time with my fiancé that we don't normally get

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Stabal · 25/10/2020 15:52

@galatea098 thank you! Yes I'm slowly losing the plot to be honest. It took so long to finally fall pregnant to have everything crushed at a scan at 9 weeks after seeing my little bean's heart beating fine at 6 weeks 😔
Here's my last 4 charts. My temps are usually higher post O so I definitely think FF is wrong. When I enter the positive OPK it takes the crosshairs away so hopefully this was ovulation spotting! I had some more today, back to red tinge in EWCM. 🤞 for you and your TTC journey!

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Stabal · 25/10/2020 12:21

@kirinm in a normal length cycle I'd be considering that but CD9 is really early for me so I can't imagine anything going correctly if it's a messy cycle and we only DTD on CD9 and CD11 so not much chance unfortunately! I'm hoping FF is wrong and ovulation is still on the cards. Exhausting!

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kirinm · 24/10/2020 19:10

Implantation bleed? I've never had one but the timing would be right?

Stabal · 24/10/2020 18:49

Oops, would help it I attached said BBT chart 🙄

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