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TTC November Bus

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Bmeggar · 23/10/2020 08:25

Hi loves,
I'm out of the game for the Oct bus so I thought I'd kick off November bus early so people can join if AF rears her ugly head.
Brief summary of me - TTC since Jan, mc in Sept, just finished first period after d&c and ready to get pregnant already!
I've got a 4yr old ds and really hoped to be pregnant right now so pretty fed up with the whole process but trying to keep positive. IT WILL HAPPEN.
Sending baby dust to everyone! Summer babes for us all round Smile

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Markygirl1995 · 29/10/2020 22:56

@Raffaella13 I'm going to try this! OH said we could start trying Dec but trying to tempt him this month so I'll see how persuasive I can be muahah! It's out first month TTC I suppose too in a way exciting!! Xx

Raffaella13 · 29/10/2020 22:31

@Markygirl1995 @SRyellow I heard about it online. This is my first month trying so I’m reading all sorts 😂

Basically, you DTD every other day until you get a positive OPK and then you DTD on the day of the positive, the day after, then miss a day and do it again!
I’ve read lots of good stuff about it online but don’t know how practical keeping up with that plan is 😂 I think we are going to try loosely follow it, I don’t want to get caught up in sex being scheduled just yet! Haha

SRyellow · 29/10/2020 21:50

@Raffaella13 I’ve not heard of that but I’m currently googling!
My cycles are usually 32 days but I did have a couple of really long ones when trying to regulate after the pill. There fairly regulate now but still can’t get an ovulation pattern!

Markygirl1995 · 29/10/2020 21:45

@Raffaella13 never heard of that is that an app? Might look into it. I’m cycle day 10 Smile feel like we have a long wait ahead of us xx

Raffaella13 · 29/10/2020 21:43

@SRyellow You are one cycle day ahead of me! I'm currently on CD9.
First time TTC :)

I came off the pill in April to regulate my cycles again. They're about 32 days but last cycle I had a 72 day cycle! Hoping that won't happen again!

Has anyone tried the sperm meets egg plan? I'm thinking to try it!

Figarosbow · 29/10/2020 20:51

@Prettygreeneyes97 I'm due on Sat, in my head I'm saying Wednesday too but I will probs do Tuesday as I can't help myself lol. I have a Frer ready and waiting.

BossyFlossie76 · 29/10/2020 19:02

@Prettygreeneyes97 I can’t hold off testing til my period! Glad that’s not unusual! It drives me mad though, I’m going to try not to this month (ha!)

Prettygreeneyes97 · 29/10/2020 18:36

@Figarosbow when are you planning on testing or are you waiting to see if AF arrives don’t think I have that patience I was thinking FRER on Wednesday

Markygirl1995 · 29/10/2020 18:35

@Figarosbow oh wow! Might DTD then every other night then go for it in my fertile window xx

Markygirl1995 · 29/10/2020 18:34

@Prettygreeneyes97 it’s trial and error isn’t it xx

Figarosbow · 29/10/2020 18:31

Hi @prettygreeneyes97. You're the same dpo as me. I'm the same, I love a good Google of symtoms even though I've done it all twice before 🤣

@SunnydazeQ I did wonder that, as today my belly has bloated and my nipples are sore (sorry TMI!) both happened to me before in the 2ww. We shall see 🤞

@Markygirl1995 we dtd 3 times in the fertile window. With my last pregnancy we dtd every other for 2 weeks, it was exhausting but it worked!

Prettygreeneyes97 · 29/10/2020 18:14

@Markygirl1995 only 3 times in the window. But I’m confused if I’ve worked the window out correctly so stressing

Markygirl1995 · 29/10/2020 17:51

@SunnydazeQ @Prettygreeneyes97 oh definitely there’s always time to find symptoms and google for about 3 hours till you think you found something similar to how you’re feeling haha! How many times are you guys DTD in a month to prep? I saw online you should do it every other day not sure. I’ve still got a week to go xx

SunnydazeQ · 29/10/2020 17:49

@Figarosbow could it be implantation bleeding. Fingers crossed for you! 🤞

SunnydazeQ · 29/10/2020 17:47

@Prettygreeneyes97 and @Markygirl1995 it is so hard isn't it!! I always read up on the next DPO day's symptoms to keep me going Grin I am busy at work but still find time to symptom spot!! Haha I think the first week is the worst!! Roll on week 2 Smile

Markygirl1995 · 29/10/2020 16:46

@Prettygreeneyes97 always happens I’ll probably be the same 🤣

Prettygreeneyes97 · 29/10/2020 16:45

@Markygirl1995 thanks! I guess I picked the wrong week off work the days are dragging

Markygirl1995 · 29/10/2020 16:41

@Prettygreeneyes97 it’ll fly by just keep yourself busy to take your mind off of it easy said than done I know.

Prettygreeneyes97 · 29/10/2020 15:05

Hi hope I can join here, I’m 6dpo and it’s our first ever cycle TTC. 2WW is killing me can’t help but keep thinking every little pain or twinge is a sign

Markygirl1995 · 29/10/2020 15:01

@Figarosbow it sounds positive to me so far! I think I remember with my first I had leukerrea and a little bleeding that's it. Fingers crossed for you. I've just bought some ovulation tests and pregnancy tests for the ready! Starting exercise today to help my weightloss as I think I'm going to be too heavy to fall pregnant

Figarosbow · 29/10/2020 14:58
  • I meant cd7 and cd8 not 7dpo.
Figarosbow · 29/10/2020 14:57

@Markygirl1995 I use the Flo app too.

I think I'm 6dpo and I've had some light brown in with my cm today twice. Hoping its not the start of an early af, although I do normally get really sore boobs leading up to that and haven't yet. Going by my app I'm 6dpo but I had ewcm at 7 and 8dpo too so god knows?!

SunnydazeQ · 29/10/2020 14:49

@Bmeggar thank you and sorry for your loss as well. Fingers crossed for us this month x

My friend just announced her pregnancy last night and I am not sure if that's why or that I'm 2 DPO but I felt rubbish this morning. Happy for them but felt a twinge of jealousy if I'm honest, which is really unlike me.

Anyway I'm feeling a bit better this afternoon. When do you test? I'm symptom spotting a lot and only 2 DPO!!!!! Confused How am I going to survive this 2ww!

Hi @gracie2307 how are you? Have you booked your accupuncture already? I'm going on Saturday and looking forward to snoozing while I'm there Grin

SRyellow · 29/10/2020 13:38

@Bmeggar I’m using the opks too, I’ve had the faint line everyday since starting testing this month. Hoping for stronger lines soon and hope you get another peak!!

Bmeggar · 29/10/2020 07:40

Hi @SRyellow I use Femometer too! I think it's pretty good and accurate for me. I use the Femometer opks too and I find that I get a faint line (which the app recognised as low) pretty much all month until the week before my period when there is no line. I'm due to ov in 2 days and got a 'high' opk yesterday. Hoping it'll be another high or peak today 🤞

Hi @SunnydazeQ I'm sorry for your loss. I know how you feel. We would have been a couple of weeks into our 2nd trimester too now...and 4 of my friends still are! It's hard, but I'm really hopeful November bus will be our bus! 🤞🤞🤞

Hi @BossyFlossie76 ! I'm on kiddy #2 too. Good luck and hope it happens quickly for you!

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