TTC - thread 3! A luckier one!!!

Hi ladies,
I’m looking for a group to join of other ladies TTC. This thread seems so lucky so far. Congrats @Redfoot89 & @AnxiousAnnie86
I’m currently 1dpo. 39 years old was TTC for 18mths got pregnant got to 12 weeks and MMC so after a few months break we are trying again.
Nice to meet you all xx

Oohhh fingers crossed for you ladies!! 🙂 x

@Blossom428 shall we go and do a rain dance? 🤣 let's make it happen with willpower 😂👍💡
No, I won't test beforehand. I'll wait - I honestly can't believe that it's going to happen, it's been so long without anything, you can imagine that I'm just pretty much the world's biggest skeptic at this point.
The hip-tugging seems to have quieted down for the time being now, not sure if I've had any more CM since this morning (tbh I think it all came out in one go - sorry TMI)

@TheOrangeMonster i had the same hapeen 2 days before my bfp and its still happening every so often now. The first 2 days there was loooooads of it (sorry tmi) i also had the same twinge left side (how strange)

Will you test before @TheOrangeMonster or wait for AF? What date is AF due?
Let's manifest that this is our month haha

@AnxiousAnnie86 that's interesting!
I will try not to get too excited as it's probably just my body playing tricks as usual. The hip thing is weird though, it does feel like it comes from the actual hip bone, like if I drew a line from my hip to the middle of my uterus on the left that's where it's a bit achy and weird. Maybe it's just post ovulation weirdness. I'm only 6dpo so it's too early for implantation.

Thanks ladies @AnxiousAnnie86 @TheOrangeMonster
I dunno why I did it haha 🙈

Not too sure on CM, but interesting to hear that about an increase in it then getting BFP.

@Blossom428 I agree with @AnxiousAnnie86. 9dpo is far too early for a BfP even if you do have 9 day LP usually. Implantation takes about that long regardless of the normal length of LP. Hold out!

Ladies can I get an opinion - sorry, it's slightly gross.

The last 3 days I've had LOADS of "off-white" discharge. No itching or smell or anything indicating it could be thrush (and I get that enough that I know what it's like). It's sort of thick and thin at the same time which is weird. This morning I also had a strange feeling which was almost like it was in my hip but also in that general area on the left (I think I ovulated from left ovary this time because I felt an obstruction in there when we were DTD which usually means a cyst). I don't recall getting quite this much discharge before at this point in my cycle (but that doesn't mean I haven't, just that I don't remember). Anyone ever had similar with current or previous bfp's?

Thanks @AnxiousAnnie86. I'll have a look.

So I accidentally did use the clear blue early detection test. Stark white 😭 I know only 9dpo, but I really think I'm out again this cycle.
I just want to see even a tiny line and that would make me so happy 😫😔

Ooooh @AnxiousAnnie86 I'm in Yorkshire. Could you recommend. I may have to try. I feel that my anxiety and stress also play a massive part in all this. I'm such an over thinker and worry about everything !!

[quote AnxiousAnnie86]@bwfcchick88 I was convinced it was all rubbish but she was able to tell me so so much at my appointment, try find one who specialises in fertility, if you are in the Yorkshire area by any chance I can recommend an amazing one! X[/quote]
I'm in Greater Manchester but I'm sure there will be one here... thanks so much for the tip! X

[quote AnxiousAnnie86]**@bwfcchick88* @WaitingForEgg* have you guys ever looked into reflexology? I never really believed in it, but I'm a massively anxious person (hence the name) and my reflexologist helped so so much. She said she was certain that was what was preventing me get pregnant, x[/quote]
Oooh, no I haven't but I will give it a go! I've had two doctors tell me stress and anxiety are preventing me..I did have CBT last year though which worked massively to calm me down generally. Thanks for the tip and good luck with everything 😍 x

Hey everyone. I'm 32, TTC my first. Anxiety & stress have made a massive part
In our journey, but I feel calmer & better about trying. We will all get there! X

Hi @Peony20 welcome to the club. I’m 32, also in Scotland and TTC number 2. I’m on cycle 5. Had a weird wobble where my cycle went pretty bizarre (very long) I think likely related to stress. Trying to go with the flow... but struggling a bit to relax

Haha don't apologise .. it's nice to have fresh faces (messages) and spreading positivity, and tips for each other 😊
@Redfoot89 @Peony20

@Peony20 thank you. i kind of crashed the thread too now that you mention it as ive only been in it for about 3 weeks 🤣 sorry ladies.

Patience is super hard to maintain when ttc, we all know. Fingers crossed for your journey 😊

Thank you all for the welcome and a bit about yourselves and sorry for crashing your thread 😬. Congrats on your bfp @Redfoot89 will keep everything crossed for you.

I’m from Scotland too, and just starting my TTC journey so early doors I know and need to have some patience 🙂 xx