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1DPO - who is with me?!

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BigLucy · 11/10/2020 08:26

Hi Ladies,

Anyone at the start of their TWW?

Xxx

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BigLucy · 14/10/2020 19:39

Hi @RichmondLady1981 thanks so much for your insight. I really appreciate it as going store crazy. I tested on it beCause whilst my strips were lightening a little they have stayed fairly dark so I have been confused and worried I didn't ovulate. Today I think I'm 4dpo and these are my strips. The numbers are cycle days. My peak was on cD19 which has the strongest line. I was just worried I didn't end up ovulating as I haven't had intercourse since CD 21. Our lives are manic and once I thought I had ovulated we stopped BDing but then panicked I had missed it. So hopefully I did ovulate day 19/20. Today I have had lower back ache and cramps. Xxx

1DPO - who is with me?!
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Purpleflowers21 · 14/10/2020 19:36

@Lemongrass9 I’m exactly the same, only people I’ve spoken to about it are the people on here, and I don’t want to start telling my other half every singe symptom, he’ll think I’m crazy hahah

Lemongrass9 · 14/10/2020 19:29

@Purpleflowers21 it’s really nice to have someone at the same point in the cycle isn’t it. I haven’t told anyone I’m ttc so nice to be able to chat on here.

Purpleflowers21 · 14/10/2020 19:21

@Lemongrass9 we can defo have hope! And it’s nice that we’ll be due AF at the same time too

Lemongrass9 · 14/10/2020 19:10

@Purpleflowers21 my flo app originally predicted AF for 17th but as I didn’t get my opk peak until CD18 it has changed to 22nd. But I was planning to wait and if no AF on 23rd will test then. I can see myself wanting to test early but going to try to hold off as long as I can.
I feel the same about not being sure it would happen first time - we can hope though!

RichmondLady1981 · 14/10/2020 18:26

Hi. Why are you testing on CB after you have already found your peak? Static peak smiley is when LH is detected. You don’t need to continue to test on CB after this.

The reason why your test is flashing is because after a peak it resets. in the first instance it detects oestrogen. There is a second surge of oestrogen after ovulation. So that’s what it is picking up.

If you want to want to Use OPK after ovulation you should use the cheapies.

Purpleflowers21 · 14/10/2020 18:09

@Lemongrass9 my plan is to wait until AF is late/if AF is late but I can see myself ending up testing early haha. What about you? AF should be due 23rd if my cycles have returned to 28 days. I really didn’t think anything would happen first cycle but this saliva thing has got me thinking, also today I’ve been weeing sooo much!

Boredinthehouse12 · 14/10/2020 17:23

My first pregnancy ended in a MMC in Aug but my very first symptoms were start/stop cramps from ovulation to the day AF was due, sensitive boobs from 5dpo (this only happened to me a few days during AF), and increased creamy discharge. I knew I was pregnant when I woke up with achy boobs and was proven right 4 days later.

I know it’s early days but I’m 5dpo today and I’m not so optimistic. I’m going to test at 9dpo as that’s when I got my first BFP.

BigLucy · 14/10/2020 17:10

Yea @CookieMonster3001 I'm going to do that. I have lower back ache today so maybe thats ovulation back ache? Who knows Lolol xxx

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CookieMonster3001 · 14/10/2020 17:03

@BigLucy that's so weird!! Part of me wants to say its far too early to assume pregnancy as they say implantation occurs around CD6-11. Maybe its worth DTD over the next few days just in case you didn't actually ovulate the first time and continue testing with your CB every morning just to monitor it?

BigLucy · 14/10/2020 16:29

Ok I'll do that xx yea and I had ewcm in the peak day too - now there is no ewcm but I do have lower back ache x x x

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WinterBabyof89 · 14/10/2020 16:20

@BigLucy Just been reading about it and it’s not clear why you could still have positive OPKs. Some people have gone on to have their BFPs, some day it can be a sign of PCOS, others have just had a prolonged surge in a cycle randomly.

I’d go off your other symptoms of ovulation, and like a PP said you clearly have a strong peak on one of the days.

BigLucy · 14/10/2020 16:17

I don't even know if I've ovulated now? Can't work out why I would get a flashing smiley after I got my peak 5 days ago x x x

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WinterBabyof89 · 14/10/2020 16:10

@BigLucy if you’ll be disappointed try and hold out.. but if so test early let us know!

@greenjavapiano fingers crossed it isn’t AF

BigLucy · 14/10/2020 16:09

I'm so confused why would I get a flashing smiley 5 days after my peak!? Just doesn't make sense x x x

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Emiliasmummy · 14/10/2020 16:07

Im now on 8dpo and driving myself mad symptom spotting. I've had 2 pervious pregnancies and with both I've had really vivid dreams before my missed period. These dreams were the reason I tested early with my daughter. I have been getting them again for the last 2 nights. Also I have suddenly got really sore boobs which I never get. Probably all in my head but I'm not sure I can wait much longer to test.

WinterBabyof89 · 14/10/2020 16:06

@CookieMonster3001 frustratingly I can’t remember if it was from ovulation or closer to AF (I recorded everything in a diary -retro- and I can’t find it now :( )

Fingers crossed it is a lucky thread. Thanks for starting it @BigLucy

And as Cookie said, yay for the first babies! Definitely extra exciting

greenjavapiano · 14/10/2020 16:04

I was around 1dpo when the thread started, can I joinWink.
Now 7dpo, AF due Friday. Today had some sharp pains low down in the centre, hoping it was implantation, but started light spotting at same time. Have had implantation bleed before but not like this so most likely AF. Hoping AF doesn’t arrive and I can test tomorrow or Friday

BigLucy · 14/10/2020 15:52

@CookieMonster3001 no haven't been tracking BBt I did when trying for my first but my little one gets me up fairly often around 4/5am to go for a cuddle. So I'm not sure - I just got a flashing smiley on the clear blue even though got a peak on Friday and Saturday. So confused xxxx

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BigLucy · 14/10/2020 15:51

@WinterBabyof89 I was going to wait until maybe 26th but not sure I can hold out that long lol xxx

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BigLucy · 14/10/2020 15:50

Thanks so much @CookieMonster3001 it's really stressing me out working out what's going on. I've just done a clear blue lol. Waiting for the results to come up lolol xxxx

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CookieMonster3001 · 14/10/2020 15:27

@BigLucy it sounds as though you did and from looking at your tests, CD19 looks like your peak, whilst the others are dark, I wouldn't say they are darker than the control line. If this is not your month, I would highly recommend monitoring your BBT. I know people say its a lot to do and its added stress, but its the only thing that can really confirm your ovulation. You seem to be having the same as me though! I have had creamy milky CM since ovulation as well!

@WinterBabyof89 ooo was that from ovulation as well? I literally have been having the same type of cramps everyday since ovulation, and I think I ovulated on my right because I could feel the pain on that side, and my cramps have all been on the right since ovulation

lots of first babies on this thread too! So exciting! Fingers crossed this is a good luck thread :)

Lemongrass9 · 14/10/2020 14:30

@Purpleflowers21 yes definitely good to know.
Yes this is my first too. Do you think you will test early or try and hold out? Do you have a date in mind?

Purpleflowers21 · 14/10/2020 13:32

@Lemongrass9 Well that’s good that you know you’ve definitely started ovulating again. This would be first baby, what about you?

WinterBabyof89 · 14/10/2020 13:21

@RichmondLady1981 oo fab! Let us know how you get on and thanks for sharing.

@CookieMonster3001 it is too early for implantation (if our ovulation dates are right) but we can always hope ha. That being said my first pregnancy I had cramps leading up to AF and he’s now almost at high school.

@BigLucy when are you going to test (sorry if you’ve mentioned this before but if I scroll up I lose my message). AF should be due 20th but suspected ovulation date puts this at 10dpo so still early.

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