Testing 25th sept buddys

My colleague just found out the gender of her baby and has told everyone this morning, I honestly feel like crying 😔 I feel so bad for feeling jealous

@AKcheer AF has well and truly arrived today 😅

Honestly I feel like that too! Whenever it’s my fertile window I feel like I’m a psycho saying to him “we have to dtd tonight! It’s my fertile window!” I too don’t have much advice as I feel the same as you :(

@nam095 sorry to hear that. 💕

@AKcheer I wish I knew the answer to your question 🤣 I try not to bang on to much about positive opks and just tell my oh the week so he has some warning but not loads of pressure. That doesn't help for me though as then I have to make sure we actually dtd on the right days.

@Nam095 you’re not out until AF fully comes!! Let’s hope your cramps are your uterus growing!! Let us know how you get on today. Otherwise we all go for next round and stay positive ❤️❤️

Random question guys - how do you make your sex life not become a chore when TTC? Advice please?

I’m out as well ladies, temp has nose dived today and been having AF cramps all morning. Roll on next cycle and good luck to us all 🤞🏼

@AKcheer absolutely 👍 x

@1992EM oh no I’m sorry AF has come. At least I. A few days it will be over and then onto the next month. And we try and pray again!

@AKcheer thanks , AF has arrived along with the cramps. So no need to test. It seems even when you are relaxed and expect AF it still manages to surprise you 🤣 onto cycle 6. X

@1992EM Oh no really. Well you never know. People have spotting when they are pregnant too so let’s wait and see and hopefully AF doesn’t show up. Need to find a way of relaxing next month and going with the flow. Fingers crossed, i pray all of us get a BFP if we haven’t this month.

Just need to not obsess and symptom spot. I swear in the TWW I make myself believe I’m preg!

@AKcheer sorry to hear AF has arrived. Pretty sure it has for me too . Spotting getting heavier so sure ill wake up to full blown AF tomorrow x

Omg @Nam095 I really hope your line gets darker!! Please keep us updated! So guys I’m out my AF has come today :( so sad.
So this was my month 3 trying, onto month 4. Not sure how long this is meant to take :(

@nam095 I hope it gets darker for you. I am so rubbish with lines. X

I feel like I’m imagining a faint line 😔 I’m just making this whole process harder for myself looking back at the image. Good luck to those still waiting to test x

Thanks hun xx

@iloveoreos definitely, have everything crossed you get your BFP x

[quote 1992EM]@iloveoreos absolutely not out until AF arrives . I am assuming it wasn't fmu you used. It could be that as well . Also read frers haven't been as good recently. Its all I have ever used though . Maybe try an early clearblue one.

AF Still hasn't shown here . Had spotting for a few hours but nothing on the pat and only when I wipe . I am so confused and if I am not pregnant I wish AF would just hurry up. [/quote]
Will wait a week or so and then test again i guess

@iloveoreos absolutely not out until AF arrives . I am assuming it wasn't fmu you used. It could be that as well . Also read frers haven't been as good recently. Its all I have ever used though . Maybe try an early clearblue one.

AF Still hasn't shown here . Had spotting for a few hours but nothing on the pat and only when I wipe . I am so confused and if I am not pregnant I wish AF would just hurry up.

Tested .There goes my frer to waste ..bfn for me.. here come the tears
As one of the ladies said above not out of the game until AF arrives so staying positive xx

Ps i posted this accidently in another topic first facepalm i blame the watery eyes 😂

@iloveoreos I use one step alongside clearblue when it gets stronger and have always been accurate. Have you tested at all ? I would do a test tomorrow as if you ovulated at cd13 it will definitely be positive if you are pregnant. Your luteal phase is normally always the same . So no matter when i ovulate the days after are always 13days and one was 12 but most likely ovulated the day before so was actually 13. That results in my cycle ranging from 28 to 30 days.

Long cycles upto days of 40 maximum** typo error above

[quote 1992EM]@iloveoreos how many dpo do you think you are again ? I have everything crossed for you

@nam095 I hate how it always surprises you. I was full on expecting it this morning and would have accepted it . Then when it didn't i got my hopes up again. Ttc is so hard at times 😔[/quote]
I was using the one step opk and im sure i got positive ovulation around cd 13 and im cd 40 today but then i have awlays had long cycles up 40max .its only over this last yr cycles reduced to less than 40
.ive read on this site how bad one step brand is for opk the dye in it just is so light. Never ordereing onestep again. Also doesnt help this was the 1st month i was using opk😂

@iloveoreos how many dpo do you think you are again ? I have everything crossed for you

@nam095 I hate how it always surprises you. I was full on expecting it this morning and would have accepted it . Then when it didn't i got my hopes up again. Ttc is so hard at times 😔

Still havent found courage to test yet. Im scared ill end up in tears if its a bfn.

@1992EM I think the same for myself as well, I’ve been getting dull cramps all day :( 4th month and 3rd cycle for me (1st cycle lasted 2 months). Really hope next month is our time 🤞🏼