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TTC after MC - September 2020 (Thread 13)

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VP91x · 13/09/2020 07:10

Morning all,

BFPs 💕
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@2020wish
@Beesy90
@Pugprincess
@Lollol86


@VP91x
@MrsK21
@MichT4
@HE88
@Rainbowhope11
@Diorissimo1985
@Rb486
@Northernsoul90
@Firevie
@chloedancer897
@Happyvibes
@Bl0ndi3
@susiebluebell
@Bellabubble
@Furbsies
@Runnergirl1
@RichmondLady1981
@familybythesea

I don't think I have everyone tagged so please pop yourselves in xx

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HappyVibes · 29/09/2020 20:52

@Rainbowhope11 the darkness of the lines and the progression definitely would indicate that HCG is getting stronger as the days go by - therefore, for me, surely it’s clear that this is BFP, and not trigger shot? Surely the trigger shot wouldn’t be getting dark? Xxx

Rainbowhope11 · 29/09/2020 20:49

These are my photos of my clear blue and first response tests! Excuse the lovely yellow staining 🙈🤣

TTC after MC - September 2020 (Thread 13)
TTC after MC - September 2020 (Thread 13)
Rainbowhope11 · 29/09/2020 20:35

The nurse just called, she said my Hcg levels were positive at 21 which is the average amount this early (at the time of missed period). Will repeat blood work tomorrow to see whether the levels are doubling. If they are, then it's real! If not then it's leftover trigger 🙈 keep your fingers crossed for me!!

Pugprincess · 29/09/2020 20:05

@Rainbowhope11 heartburn was one of my first symptoms and I get it most days since lol. My boobs didn’t hurt at the beginning this time but first preg they did so symptoms can be different. It’s more my nipples that get a bit tender, nothing as bad as I expected though. The worst has been fatigue and nausea for me but they didn’t kick in till like 7/8 weeks xx

MichT4 · 29/09/2020 19:58

@Lollol86 yeah it's nhs. I just hope it's quick from here, not the start of loads of waiting!

So pleased to hear you are feeling more relaxed after the milestone. I hope it's all smooth sailing for you

@Bellabubble I had lots of those with my CD4 tests. It was a full blood count too, all just added info. Hopefully can have my post ovulation bloods in a week or so, but that depends on one thing....although I'll prob book it for a week-10 day anyway as then they can decide if I'm ovulating regularly or not.
I guess you'll get the results in a few days?

@Rainbowhope11 this is so exciting! I'm keeping everything crossed. The fact that they are getting darker is great, as if it was the hcg shot they'd be getting lighter. Eeeeekkk!!

xx

MinnieMouse4 · 29/09/2020 19:57

@HappyVibes even lower again with my 1pm cheapie today! I really do think I must have missed it ☹️ Although I don’t see how. I am going to do another now but in not holding out much hope. Pic attached xx

TTC after MC - September 2020 (Thread 13)
Rainbowhope11 · 29/09/2020 19:12

@Pugprincess oooh thanks for telling me that! I was convinced that I was out when I saw the brown spotting the other day.

Rainbowhope11 · 29/09/2020 19:11

@HappyVibes @HappyVibes thank you so much ladies! I'm waiting very nervously for my blood results now. Today I have severe heartburn, but other than that no other symptoms. I'm really going to be surprised if this is the real deal, because I'm pretty sure that last time I fell pregnant, I had sore boobs quite early on and now I hardly have any symptoms at all!

Pugprincess · 29/09/2020 19:07

@MrsK21 aw I’m ok thanks still having some light brown in my discharge sometimes from the bleed. I have a scan this Friday eve so il ask her to check all that if baby is ok 🤞🏻 Been having growing pains and sickness, think the fatigue is easing a bit this week though 🥳 xx

@Rainbowhope11 fingers crossed this is a new pregnancy, it’s sounding positive. I had brown spotting in weeks 4 and 5 too which I think was implantation related. Cramps are good too could be growing 😊

HappyVibes · 29/09/2020 19:07

How have your OPKs been today @MinnieMouse4 have you got pics? Xxx

HappyVibes · 29/09/2020 19:06

@Rainbowhope11 amazing news!!! That’s literally so so good! I’m so elated for you. Good luck - keep us updated xxxx

Bellabubble · 29/09/2020 18:15

@MichT4 I’m cycle day 21 - so had bloods today, and booked the next lot for next Thurs (the cd2-5 ones - I’m hoping I have a 26-28 day cycle if I haven’t conceived or else I’m stuck lol!) They took 4 little tubes today - I thought it was just progesterone, but my Dr is doing a full blood count, rubella and some others I didn’t catch! I don’t know if that’s normal or not!

Rainbowhope11 · 29/09/2020 18:14

@MrsK21 huuuuge congratulations to you lovely!!!!! Aaah I'm so thrilled for you!

Rainbowhope11 · 29/09/2020 18:14

Hi ladies, just a quick update from me: I'm now 15 days post trigger, possibly 14dpo. Still getting positives, and today the clear blue test is much darker today! On Saturday and Sunday I was getting light cramps and had a tiny bit of brown spotting but it didn't progress to a full blown AF. I went in for a blood test yesterday and I'm waiting for my results now. The nurse seemed quite convinced that it's a true bfp, but I just feel numb🙈 I think my head is just trying to protect my heart. I'm seeing blazing positives but I'm still not convinced 🙈 such a strange feeling

MrsK21 · 29/09/2020 18:11

@Pugprincess thank you so much, hope you're doing ok after your scare the other week. I did read but was taking a step back from social media so didn't get round to asking after you.

@RichmondLady1981 thank you ☺️ just praying this one stays put where it's supposed to be.
This was the first cycle using the preseed so I can't say for sure it was the thing that did it, but this was my second cycle after MC (the first cycle was using Provera).

The ferti-Lilly cup was recommended by a few ladies on the earlier threads. It's a smaller softer version of a menstrual cup which sits higher close to the cervix and I'd pop it in after DTD to keep the swimmers in. I got mine from boots x

Lollol86 · 29/09/2020 18:00

Xx

Lollol86 · 29/09/2020 18:00

@MichT4 you will have done as much as can. Sending. You lots of baby dust. It's also really good you have an appointment coming up, is that through the nhs?
My favourite thing about having my dog years ago was going out for walks. Getting out and clearing your head is so good for your mental health.
Definitely get him on the treadmill though 😂😂 I also want to see video evidence of this.
This trying to conceive gets too much sometimes and think you have definitely done the right thing by stepping away.
I'm not too bad thanks, I was so happy with my scan. Passed a milestone with that one so definitely have me some reassurance.

MichT4 · 29/09/2020 17:49

Hi @Lollol86. I'm good thanks, just trying my best to stay calm and distracted. Really hoping for some good news soon, and feeling like I'm doing the most that I can. DTD as much as we can over the next few days as I'm hoping my peak will come soon. How are you getting on? Gorgeous scan pic the other day 🥰

Yeah Loki is getting big. He's so lovely to have around. And I love the headspace taking him for his walks. Until it rains....then I'll get him a treadmill I think 😂

xx

Firevie · 29/09/2020 17:21

@RichmondLady1981 lol hopefully it was a Freudian slip and I’m next 😍 xxx

RichmondLady1981 · 29/09/2020 17:15

Sorry @Firevie- I meant this for @MrsK21!! 🤦🏼‍♀️ 😬 x

RichmondLady1981 · 29/09/2020 17:14

@Firevie CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!! Amazing news!!! Was this the first month of using pre seed? And what’s a fertility cup? 🤷‍♀️

So exited for you!!! 😃

Pugprincess · 29/09/2020 17:04

@MrsK21 huge congratulations 🥳 so happy for you ❤️

Welcome to all the new ladies and sorry to read about your losses, you will learn lots here and be really supported xx

MrsK21 · 29/09/2020 14:38

Thank you so much @Firevie @HappyVibes @MichT4 @Runnergirl1 @familybythesea @MinnieMouse4 @susiebluebell @Lollol86
Your kind words have given me a lovely boost this afternoon ☺️

This thread has been an absolute godsend for me to navigate TTC, I really hope and pray there are lots of BFPs coming soon xxx

Janefx40 · 29/09/2020 14:22

Hello everyone. I was hoping to join too if that's ok. Congrats on the BFPs and good luck to those hoping for this month.

I miscarried at 8+ 4 a few weeks ago.

I had surgical management 5 weeks ago and just got a static smiley on the CB digital yesterday. I also spotting tho! Is that normal?

We are TTC but really we need IVF to conceive so it's just a "can't hurt to try" thing while we decide what to do next

Xxx

Lollol86 · 29/09/2020 14:18

@MrsK21 oh wow amazing news congratulations xx

@MichT4 oh hello, I've missed seeing your name on here, I hope you are ok? I don't comment much but always check in to see how everyone is getting on. Loki seems to have grown quite a bit ❤️ xx