TTC after MC - September 2020 (Thread 13)

@Firevie Thank you so much for your kind words. Keeping everything crossed for your BFP next week xxx

@HappyVibes lol I’m really impatient usually but trying to distract myself as much as I can. V excited for you! Can’t wait to give us the news soon! No symptom spotting here either. I’ve never been v good at it. All I analyse is my bbt which is bad enough I think lol
@KatiePlus3 ooh yay we are birthday buddies too. It’s my birthday next Friday. I’m hoping I will get my BFP before then so it will be the best birthday gift ever! Af is due 10/11th October. So let’s see. Fingers crossed for us!
@PinkFizz19 so sorry to hear about your losses! It’s such a horrible experience but hopefully you’ll find some comfort and support here xxx

@2alreadywantanother It's such a mixed bag of emotions isn't it.

Hopefully AF comes along soon then we can both get cracking on the next cycle xxx

@pinkfizz19 100% it will. That's the part I'm afraid of. Not enjoying been pregnant.
On a plus I just tested and got a neg. Only time I'll ever want to see a neg result 😥

@2alreadywantanother Thank you so much for your kind words and I'm so sorry to hear you've recently had a MMC Be kind to yourself. I am really hoping for our third time lucky but I am concerned if i was to get a BFP that it would be overshadowed with worry as I didn't enjoy my second pregnancy as much as my first.

Who would have thought all those years ago in sex ed when they were warning you about contraception etc. that it would be so hard to get pregnant and stay pregnant Sending love to all xxx

@Firevie I'm due AF on 13th October (due date of baby I lost back in February) so Im praying I get a positive to cheer me up slightly :/ it's my birthday thursday aswell and I dont want to test on that day and get a negative and ruin my day either if its negative haha so I'm going to use a FRER friday morning with FMU and I should be about 11dpo xx

@Northerngal20 @RichmondLady1981 absolutely no symptoms what so ever 🤣 I dont feel anything! But I never did with my other babies, never got sore boobs never had different CM always feel myself when I've conceived until the 6th week and then nausea and fatigue sets in! Although the day before yesterday I had a slight pinky tinge on a tissue after having a wee but I said to myself I'm not getting my hope's up xx

Oh you must have so much more self control and patience than me @Firevie haha. In all honesty I think I will wait now until Friday or Saturday. I am taking it as a sign that I have no FRER in for a reason. AF should definitely arrive by Friday (my own calculations predicts tomorrow for AF, but app is saying Friday). So if I wait until then, I’ll be more confident in the result being accurate whatever it may be. How about you date wise testing?

Symptoms wise I vowed not to symptom spot this month so any possible signs, I’ve fully dismissed and not overthought them because I’ve been 110% convinced in previous months ha.

How about you lovely symptoms wise? Xxxxx

@pinkfizz19 u poor thing, just waiting on my 1st cycle to start after mmc. But having to go through that twice frightens me. Sending big hugs.

@HappyVibes ooh!!! So exciting! When will you test again do you think? I haven’t even thought that far ahead just taking it in day by day. Any fun symptoms you’ve spotted ? How are you feeling? Xx

Morning lovelies,

CD32 & 11DPO feeling the pressure to early test for a few days but I didn’t have any FRER in so just used whatever I had haha (desperate times obvs). Got a stark white ofc lols. AF is due Friday according to my apps. Arrr the TWW I get weaker and weaker by the day haha xxx

Hello 😊

Can I join you lovely ladies please?

We've just started TTC #1 again after a break following a MC and then MMC of twins last year 💔

I took Nortistherone tablets to delay AF by a few days in August to as we were going on our honeymoon. You'd think all the DTD you do on honeymoon we'd have got caught but sadly by my usual cycle, AF is officially late and I've tested on a FRER this morning and it's a strong negative. I'm now worried the Nortistherone is going to have messed with my cycle pattern again now (not just the delayed one) after being off the pill for 2 years.

Would love to share this crazy journey with someone who understands xxx

@KatiePlus3 I'm also cd 21 and 7/8 dpo! are you feeling anything? i had some twinges late last night but i don't know if it was just in my head! this week feels so long but i'm gonna try to hold off on testing til next tuesday.

@susiebluebell yay fingers crossed for you!

Morning all, CD20 over here for my cycle buddies, and ov today or tomorrow. DTD last night and just got a bit of that hopeful happy feeling back 😊

@RichmondLady1981 yay for ovulation. I’d say def DTD tonight and if you can then perhaps tmr too just to have all bases covered. I know how hard it is - same for us. We just cba after 3days lol
Thanks 😊 I’m really hoping this is it and my temp stays elevated. Af predicted Saturday / Sunday so I think I will hold out. Let’s see. I’m just taking it day by day for now. 8dpo today! No symptoms I don’t think. Sore boobs gave it away last time but oh reminded me that I got sore boobs a week after missed period last time so quite late so hopefully nothing to worry. Keeping my fingers crossed for elevated bbt and continuing to take my pessaries.
@KatiePlus3 @Bellabubble looks like we will be testing around the same time. When are you ladies testing/af due? Good luck!!! Xxx

@KatiePlus3 any symptoms from you? Getting close to being able to test! 😁

Oooooooooooh @Firevie that a great elevation in BBT!!! You’re right this is keeping us all on the edge of our seats! How are you feeling?

Chart looking great!

@Bellabubble well done for being so patient. Last cycle I didn’t test and held out. I ended up having spotting later on so I KNEW I wasn’t pregnant. If you take a test there is always the question whether it’s accurate. So I say wait and enjoy some harmless symptom spotting. If AF comes then at least there’s no question. I’d wait until the day after your longest cycle since Mc. But that’s just me 🤣. And I know how tempting it is. I also work in a bonkers busy school so I know exactly what you’re talking about. It can be a great distraction though. Everything crossed for you my dear 💕 Keep us posted. 😀

@Sallyjo27 yes doing all of those too. It’s such a pain in the ass but at least it allows us to pinpoint. My main issue is keeping up with DTD!! We are shattered! Ha! Both my apps (yes I’m using two!! 🤣) say ovulation today. DTD last three nights in a row and guessing I will have to do the same today?? EWCM yesterday and seen some this morning so had better go ahead later ... if my husband has anything left! I’ve always been intrigued by an Ava... I think If things don’t go well this cycle I might try one. Looks like you get loads of info from them.

Good news on the EWCM. Everything I read tells us that this is the most surefire way of knowing you’re in your FW. Get BDing lady! :)

We are both working full time so DTD will have to wait till this evening. Hopefully if we go tonight that will be enough? I hear people saying to do again day after ovulation. What are your thoughts on this ladies?

@VP91x look my chart is keeping me at the edge of my seat!!

Cycle day 21...7dpo...anyone else roughly the same? :)

@RichmondLady1981 so happy for you. According to my app I should be peaking tomorrow or Wednesday

Fingers crossed the tww goes well

@Jazper thank you! Huge congratulations to you too - such great news :)

@HappyVibes - I might send oh out tomorrow to get one whilst I’m at work! I ordered some on amazon - but they say between Weds and Fri (knowing my luck they’d be Friday lol!) but there’s the little voice in my head that says I could just have a longer cycle this month..bodies are so annoying sometimes!

@RichmondLady1981 pretty much everything I have felt symptom wise has been the same every tww since the mc lol! I’d say I’ve had more stabby type pains this time - and sore boobs (but get those before af just like I get a but crampy) The only weird thing my friend mentioned could be a sing was that on Sat I could taste blood on my mouth - but I do suffer from sinus problems - and they have been a bit blocked this week, so that could definitely explain the taste! To be fair - school is so crazy that Weds will be here before I know it and then Thurs if af hasn’t shown I’m technically late - so I don’t have too long to wait really! Just I have done SO well until this eve, and now it’s dragging lol!

@RichmondLady1981 thank you, I use both 😩😂 I use the cheapies and the clearblue ovulation tests (I ran out this month and think I’ve missed my ovulation with them) and I’ve got an ava bracelet but they’ve all been all over the place this month. I did have loads of EWCM the past few days so think/hope I’ve ovulated. What about you?
Fingers crossed the next 2 weeks go quickly and we will both get BFPs xx