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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Crazy gang part..errr f*ck who knows anymore!

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Missgoldilocks · 08/09/2020 17:38

Hey @Danni2019 @Mumofboys17 @LAnna20 @lv1987 @katie1109

I don't know if I missed anyone sorry!! Please tag others of you notice any missing xx

I got my peak two days late today is cd17 but I got it thank god along with a lot of ewcm today. Didn't manage to dtd last night I fell asleep and my OH didn't wake me up grrrrrr but we dtd from cd13 to cd15 and will dtd twice tonight! Hope that does it!!

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Missgoldilocks · 13/10/2020 13:00

@BFP2020 awwww cutie!! That's so lovely xxx

@LAnna20 thanks chick. I still don't know when i ovulated or if I have lol but got some gold news today, the hospital rang me and is moving my fertility appointment forward to sometime this year, just waiting on another phone call with an appointment :) xx

@Quiffy thank you xx

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Danni2020 · 13/10/2020 08:11

@BFP2020 so glad everything is all well with your little one. Now the excitement can start x

BFP2020 · 12/10/2020 19:56

Hey girls just said I'd check in I had my scan last Tue all good here's a pic of my bub looking like it's sucking it's thumb. 💕 hope everyone is doing good and hoping for some BFPs this month xxx

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Quiffy · 11/10/2020 11:02

@Missgoldilocks that is brilliant news on your mum, so happy for you all. Here's to beating cancer's butt.

I'm with others, checking in every few days to see how you're all getting on. 🤞🤞🤞 For bfps soon ❤️

LAnna20 · 10/10/2020 14:53

@Mosherchick hello and glad you are feeling better about it 😊
@Missgoldilocks I am still here . I've just taken a bit of a break this cycle. However the relaxed approach I think meant we only dtd once in my fertile window so not feeling hopeful there. So pleased to hear about your mum that is great news ☺️ x

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Missgoldilocks · 10/10/2020 14:26

@Mumofboys17 🤗🤗❤️❤️ Well I have no idea where I am in my cycle or when af is due because I dunno when or if I ovulated! Dtd around the time needed that's all we can do!

@LAnna20 you OK? Xx

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Mumofboys17 · 09/10/2020 19:11

@Missgoldilocks I'm still here, my love!! X
Life just feels so busy at the moment, and like @Fredthespider says I sometimes get carried away posting about stuff on here then feel guilty for over sharing now 😣

I'm waiting for the BFP posts of all the OG crazy gang! 🥰 Because it WILL happen!
I've tried a few other threads on here and have to say no where else is the same as our little gang! Xxx

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Missgoldilocks · 09/10/2020 16:42

@Danni2019 thank you ❤️ ah cool! Yeah since I don't know when I ovulated I have no idea where I am myself, maybe it'll make it easier on me too xx

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Danni2020 · 09/10/2020 16:36

@Missgoldilocks so glad you had good news about your mum. Must be a huge relief. There isn't many people posting these days. I don't really have much to report at the moment as still trying but not doing anymore OPKs or anything and just trying to go with the flow at the moment. I'm a week into the TWW so will see what happens next Friday x

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Missgoldilocks · 09/10/2020 13:30

@Fredthespider it's such great news thank you so much ❤️ ❤️ lovely to hear from you :) how far along are you now How's everything going? Thank you! I guess we will just dtd till we are safe haha xx

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Fredthespider · 09/10/2020 12:28

@Missgoldilocks I'm so pleased the cancer hasn't spread!! That's great news!

I do keep an eye on you all even though I'm not trying. I feel a bit like I'm rubbing it in if I post too much and I really don't want to put anyone off reading/posting on here. I know how much of a rollercoaster TTC is and I know it's not personal but you sometimes can't help how you feel.

Fingers crossed for ovulation today/tomorrow for you :) x

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Missgoldilocks · 09/10/2020 11:36

Hey everyone how are we all? This thread is dead now 😭 I feel like I'm the only one left trying!!
I had good news this morning, my mums cancer hasn't spread its within the bowels so they ate going to operate to get it out. So glad it hasn't spread beat news xx
I have no idea when I ovulated or if I have ovulated, last month I ovulated cd18 and I'm cd17 today so maybe it'll. Happen tomorrow I have no sticks to check :( but we dtd cd11 cd14 cd15 and we will tonight being cd17

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Missgoldilocks · 05/10/2020 21:03

@quiffy thank you hope you're well!! ❤️

@Mumofboys17 hey lovely, I'm okay, Italy was great we had some fab holiday sex lol my mum is holding up well, I'm really trying to think positive that they will be able to help her and that it isn't too far along or anything like that. It's just the waiting that is hard!! I'm cd13 today, won't dtd tonight I don't want to force anything and I won't be tracking. Will dtd tomorrow and Wednesday no pressure and no double sessions lol. How are you? Xx

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Mosherchick · 05/10/2020 20:58

Hello. Late to the party, will be drifting in and out.

I had to take a step back TTC, as it was dragging me down mentally and emotionally. Now we're back at it.

I thought we'd missed my fertile window this time around, as I ovulated four days ago and we didn't DTD. HOWEVER, yesterday we did, and by the end of the day, I was 99% certain that I've ovulated for a second time. More spotting, slight twinges and EWCM was back!

Anyway, I know it's pretty rare for this to happen, so I'm not going to drive myself crazy over this. But phantom pregnancy is also supposed to be rare too, and I was hit with that back in January.

Glad I got that off my chest. 😊

Mumofboys17 · 05/10/2020 20:51

@Katie1109 I agree - the support in this group is amazing - and you've come SO far!! We're all here for you, this journey can be gut wrenchingly painful and unfair. Please, please don't give up. ❤️❤️

@Missgoldilocks hope all is ok with your mum and everything else? Xx

Quiffy · 05/10/2020 11:07

@Missgoldilocks lots of love for your mum and family. Everything crossed for good news ❤️

@Katie1109 sorry about af, it is heartbreaking but you're incredibly strong

@Mumofboys17 gorgeous scan photo - very exciting April baby ❤️

@beau2020 hope you're okay ❤️

@Fredthespider hope you're doing well too!

Danni2020 · 04/10/2020 12:26

@Katie1109 so sorry my lovely we are all here with you and in this together x

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Missgoldilocks · 04/10/2020 10:55

@katie1109 I'm so sorry this journey really is hard xxxx

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Katie1109 · 04/10/2020 10:41

False alarm, af got me this morning 😩 I think We are now ready to give up x

Katie1109 · 02/10/2020 09:05

Thanks @Missgoldilocks x I really hope you’ll get some good news about your mum 🤞

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Missgoldilocks · 01/10/2020 17:05

Thank you @Danni2020 @Mumofboys17 @Katie1109 @LAnna20 we are all really hoping it's early stages. She's been having bowel issues for a year and she's lost loads of weight but you know you just don't think it could be that. The tumour they found was the size of a walnut and it was before going to the actual bowel, they couldn't go further into her bowels because they didn't want to irritate it. Its awful not knowing what's going to happen but seriously hoping it will be early 🤞🤞🤞 she's being so strong but I find myself wanting to break down when I'm with her 💔 we find out everything Thursday so 🤞

I see a line so I really hope it's good news for you kate xx

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Mumofboys17 · 01/10/2020 13:38

@Katie1109 haha I know right! The last couple of weeks he was telling everyone that mummy is having 2 babies 😳 me and DH were actually a bit anxious before the scan yesterday! Friends/family all said if it is twins they want him to pick their lottery numbers 😂😂 deffo just one baby though x
I really think it's another boy. I like the idea of having a girl but I just feel like I know it's a boy 😂 forever out-manned in my house! X

Katie1109 · 01/10/2020 13:25

@Mumofboys17 glad you’ve got it all done in one go and that all is well x saves the hassle of multiple appointments x what do you think you’re having? x
How weird was that DS telling you? OMG I would freak out, is he some kind of psychic? Lol 😂

Mumofboys17 · 01/10/2020 13:03

@Katie1109 I had zero obvious symptoms prior to this bfp! The only thing that made me test was DS telling me I had a baby in my tummy 😂 and i'd had a headache for about 3 days, that's honestly it! X
Yeah I think so, I had a wobble really early on where my symptoms disappeared for a day or two, and my cp was low and very hard, I figured that was the end 🙁 but it all came back with full force the next day! Bodies are weird 😂 and obviously everything's ok for now as the scan was fine!
Yeah they did everything at the one appointment, I had my bloods done and even my flu jab 😂 got it all done! Xx

Katie1109 · 01/10/2020 12:53

@Mumofboys17 yes it was Sainsbury’s last time and had similar line then x I have no symptoms whatsoever, last time my boobs were so painful from 5DPO it was unreal, I also had nausea pretty early, although it was a twin pregnancy so maybe it had something to do with it x I had some pinching and pulling on the left side and some cramps here and there but nothing it would class as a symptom of anything x
Glad sicky feelings have stopped now x it’s a good sign at this stage isn’t it? Did you have your genetic testing done yet? x

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