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Crazy gang part..errr f*ck who knows anymore!

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Missgoldilocks · 08/09/2020 17:38

Hey @Danni2019 @Mumofboys17 @LAnna20 @lv1987 @katie1109

I don't know if I missed anyone sorry!! Please tag others of you notice any missing xx

I got my peak two days late today is cd17 but I got it thank god along with a lot of ewcm today. Didn't manage to dtd last night I fell asleep and my OH didn't wake me up grrrrrr but we dtd from cd13 to cd15 and will dtd twice tonight! Hope that does it!!

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LAnna20 · 26/11/2020 09:11

Hi @Ange211 . I'm somewhere in the tww CD22, cycle isn't very consistent though as it's anywhere between 22 and 28 days so still have a few days before I could be at the end. Not feeling very hopeful anyway as haven't dtd .
enough .
Try and stay positive and hide those tests 😘

Ange211 · 26/11/2020 07:26

Anyone else at the bat crap crazy end of the tww? AF due tomorrow according to Ovia...symptoms spotting like mad but bfn after bfn think I’ve wasted about 10 tests including 2 frers - I did take the positive step of approaching my GP to repeat my bloods (38 now so may not be ovulating as I was before) and signed myself up to a fertility workshop in January.
Someone come in and give me virtual slap - I need it! I’ve wasted a week of my life I’m not getting back staring at Bfns and hoping they turn to bfps :(
I was doing so well too - I’m raging with myself. This is the anniversary of all my miscarriages this month so always sends me broody and cray cray.

Katie1109 · 25/11/2020 09:39

@Missgoldilocks congratulation girl!! So so so happy for you x wishing you happy and healthy pregnancy x

BFP2020 · 24/11/2020 09:19

@Missgoldilocks It's so weird I haven't checked this thread in awhile and just had a feeling there was a BFP I'm sooooo happy for you. Congratulations {flowers]

I did join a pregnancy thread but there's too many on there to keep up with them. If you wanna make a crazy gang pregnancy thread for us to keep in touch I'm there. x

Missgoldilocks · 22/11/2020 09:13

@ange211 @LAnna20 thank you girls! Xxx
Ange it's nice to see you back, I hope you both get your bfps soon xx

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Ange211 · 22/11/2020 08:52

@Missgoldilocks massive congratulations 🥳

LAnna20 · 21/11/2020 19:00

@Missgoldilocks oh wow this is amazing and what a strong positive that is! So pleased to hear such wonderful news xx

Missgoldilocks · 21/11/2020 17:30

@boo2020 yes thank you I'm so happy I really got to the point of it wasn't going to happen it made me so sad xx

@Mumofboys17 omg do you know what I felt normal! I was getting period pains and felt so tired on Thursday and I thought yeah my period is going to come so much so I had a pad on Thursday and Friday waiting for it!! My cervix was low and hard and cm normal. The only thing that made me think huh? I was craving milkshakes and that's such a pregnancy Symptom for me so I was saying to my OH like oh if I was pregnant this would be such a Symptom lol but I'm. Obviously not haha low and behold!! I think I'll be due 27th July but I'm not sure because I'm not sure when I ovulated xx

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Boo2020 · 21/11/2020 15:09

@Ange211 thank you so much! We will get there!

@Missgoldilocks massive congratulations! It feels so good doesn't it 🥳 x

Mumofboys17 · 21/11/2020 14:12

@Missgoldilocks I just knew it would happen for you eventually! ☺️ Just takes some of us that little bit longer but we'll all get there 😘 did you feel any different before testing?! Have you worked out roughly when baby would be due? Xxx

Missgoldilocks · 21/11/2020 11:37

@Mumofboys17 😭😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 Thank you so much I'm so happy!!!!!!!! And shocked!!!!! ❤️ ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I really thought it wouldnt happen! Xxx

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Mumofboys17 · 21/11/2020 10:44

@Missgoldilocks OH MY GODDDD!!! 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️ I BLOODY TOLD YOU IT WOULD HAPPEN!!! 🎉🎉🎉
Omfg I'm crying, massive MASSIVE congratulations my darling!! I'm SO happy for you!! This has literally made my year, best news EVER!!! Thank god you never gave up, I never lost hope for you! Xxxxx

Missgoldilocks · 21/11/2020 10:41

Hello ladies....I'm in shock I cant believe it and we are so so so so happy, my lap and dye was booked in for the 25th but this just happened!!! omg it took 15 months I thought it would never happen!! I could cry with happiness!! I didnt do anything different this month except take it easy!!!! @Mumofboys17 @BFP2020 have you guys got a pregnancy corner i can join cries with happiness

girls I know some of you are still trying but now I can really believe that all of your times are coming!! I havent had a whiff of a positive test this whole 15 months but finally I have dont give up xx

Crazy gang part..errr f*ck who knows anymore!
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MgW1 · 20/11/2020 20:15

Can I join in ...., hope your all well, i had a mc at 14 weeks in July, just started trying again. Last time it happened first month, this time I bet it will take ages. Had a temp this am so hopefully will ovulate at some point this weekend 🤞🏻

Ange211 · 20/11/2020 08:09

@Boo2020 I’m so sorry to hear that - how awful for you :(
I’ve just come back to the group too - hopefully it’ll bring us both some luck xxx

Ange211 · 20/11/2020 08:07

Hi gang! I’m both sad & glad this thread is still going as I’m full on spiralling into crazy ttc mode 🤦‍♀️
Lockdown has been really busy for me (pharmacist so worked through and it’s been MENTAL!) and we moved house just days before lockdown 😱
I’d made my peace with not having another baby and felt I’d moved on but this month marks the anniversary of all 3 of my mc’s & I’m mega broody again.
Af not due until next Friday according to Ovia and I bloody tested this morning 🤯 bfn of course......argh
Anyway enough about me: who’s all still here? Have we got any crazy gang babies yet? Who’s had a bfp? Really looking forward to hearing everyone’s news 😘

Boo2020 · 19/11/2020 23:42

Hi ladies, wow I've been trying to find this thread for an hour, im so glad I've found you guys again 🙂
I don't know if you remember me but I fell pregnant in July with a crazy ass cycle! Long story short I miscarried at 10 weeks in August, actually on my birthday 😔 it was the most horrible thing I've ever been through, plus had to keep going upto the hospital after for a month for bloods.

Anyway I'm back and trying again, im on CD53 (Don't ask) and 5dpo (going from my peak OPKs)..

How is everyone ? How are you all getting on with crazy ttc journey? X

LAnna20 · 14/11/2020 19:56

@Missgoldilocks I am still here! Been trying to have a break and be a bit more relaxed about TTC (not that it's really helped!) . Thought my cycles had finally sorted themselves out to 27/28 days until af arrived a week earlier last month so no idea where I am.
That's great news about your lap - fingers crossed that you get some positive results! Xx

BFP2020 · 14/11/2020 10:53

@Missgoldilocks yes had lap and dye done on the 20th July and BFP 10th Aug but they didn't find anything wrong 🙈

Danni2020 · 12/11/2020 18:54

@Missgoldilocks still here too af has shown up for me today so on to another cycle now. I will have another blood test in a few weeks and honestly so done with these thyroid levels now it better be back to normal as I don't think I can take another 6 weeks of waiting. Just want to go into next year with a little bit of hope 🤞 x

Mumofboys17 · 11/11/2020 15:36

@Missgoldilocks I would honestly be happy with either, but would be nice to have one of each 😂 I’m not intending to try for a 3rd after all the TTC stress the (almost) 2 I’ve got have caused me!! Plus I definitely forgot how hard I found pregnancy the first time around 😫 I’m not unwell or anything but I have issues with my back and pelvis, I’ve really popped in the last couple weeks and I’ve been in agony some days!! It’s all worthwhile though and I’m definitely not complaining!! Xxx

@Fredthespider I really feel for you lovely. I’m sure everything will be absolutely fine, try your best not to worry about the next bit just yet. My DS’s birth wasn’t really straightforward but we were still home within 24 hours of him arriving, I think you have to stay on the ward for 12 hours minimum after delivery anyway? But that may be different in other hospitals, of course!! Get plenty of rest and look after yourself 😊 xx

Missgoldilocks · 10/11/2020 23:24

@Mumofboys17 Ahhh that has flown by!! That's so exciting 😍😍 what do you want? I guess I'd be happy with any but deep down I'd want a little girl lol then you have both! So glad you're doing well xxxx

@Fredthespider omg not long now!! When's your due date? Im going to keep everything crossed for you that you have a straight forward birth 🤞🙏❤️ being alone would be :( so fingers crossed!! Ohh okay, well I guess if lap is clear I will just have to have faith it'll happen, or there's always ivf lol xx

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Fredthespider · 10/11/2020 20:27

Hello lovely ladies! I am also checking in regularly but not posting. I'm getting on ok, coming up on 38 weeks now which is just crazy to think. I had a little downer week just over a month ago at what would have been the due date of the one we lost but also feeling very grateful that I was able to catch again so quickly. My trust have just announced no visitors to the wards so I need to hope we have a straightforward birth otherwise I'm on my own :(

@Missgoldilocks hope the lap goes well! I had one in 2015 which showed nothing which was devastating at the time so I hope you get better luck and they find something 'fixable'. When not TTC/PG I end up loaded up on the hormones to keep everything in check.

@Mumofboys17 18 weeks has gone sooo quickly!

Mumofboys17 · 10/11/2020 18:10

@Missgoldilocks hello my lovely! I promise I have still been floating around in the background every now and then, I've just been really conscious of over posting here past the BFP stage as I don't want to become over bearing!!
I'm doing OK though 😊 I'm 18 weeks on Thursday, next scan is 1st dec and we'll hopefully find out if we're expecting another boy or a little girl! Can't believe how fast it's gone!! 😳 hope you're doing ok! That's fab news about the appointment, really hope you start getting some REAL answers! I still have every faith it'll happen for you, you've done so well to keep going up til now!! ❤️ xxx
Hope everyone else is doing ok too! I really miss the crazy gang!! X

Missgoldilocks · 10/11/2020 15:55

Hellooooo everyone!!! I'm here to bring this thread aliiiive!! Where are you all at? @Mumofboys17 how are you?!? Xx
@katie1109 heyyy how are youuu xx
@LAnna20 wassup giiiirl hows it going? Xxz
@Danni2019 how are you my lovely xx
@Fredthespider how are you?
How is everyone!!!??

I'm cd20 have noooo clue when I ovulated since my body is being a CUNT yes I dropped the C bomb cuz I am tiiiiiirrrrreeed hahaha seriously those iso flavones meeeeessssed me up BIG TIME. anyway had my fertility app last week dunno if I said!? I'm having a lap done at the end of the month and I'm nervously EXCITED to get some answers!! Hoping they find adhesions that they can take out and when I come to they're like "hey, you had adhesions that's why you haven't been getting pregnant but it's fine because we cut them all out! Now go and jump on some willy because you have the aaaaallll clear" best case scenario. Honestly if she says nope dunno why you aren't getting pregnant lol I'm gonna be like 😬😬😬😬😬😬😬 no patience patty!! @BFP2020 you had a lap done right and fell after? Xx

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