Help protect children from gaming harms.

Take our survey

Please or to access all these features

Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Crazy gang part..errr f*ck who knows anymore!

469 replies

Missgoldilocks · 08/09/2020 17:38

Hey @Danni2019 @Mumofboys17 @LAnna20 @lv1987 @katie1109

I don't know if I missed anyone sorry!! Please tag others of you notice any missing xx

I got my peak two days late today is cd17 but I got it thank god along with a lot of ewcm today. Didn't manage to dtd last night I fell asleep and my OH didn't wake me up grrrrrr but we dtd from cd13 to cd15 and will dtd twice tonight! Hope that does it!!

OP posts:
Thread gallery
31
Noo3833 · 25/01/2021 09:44

I see! It’s different because I started very lightly spotting last night a very pale pink which has only ever happened once before mid cycle. It’s all just a bit confusing x

Hannahne · 25/01/2021 08:20

@LAnna20 I have heard this myself actually, I think im just been inpatient if I'm honest as wanting to conceive. Thank you for advice

LAnna20 · 25/01/2021 07:52

@Hannahne I've not had an implant however I do believe it's very similar to coming off the pill and that it can take a few month for them to regulate.
@Noo3833 it is not completely uncommon to not ovulate one month . If you've only used them one cycle just keep going.

Ange211 · 24/01/2021 23:02

@Katie1109 did you test with a digi?

Noo3833 · 24/01/2021 21:15

Hello all! Wondered if any of you do ovulation tests? I’m thoroughly confused if I’m honest!?!?! I’ve tracked them and sometimes multiple times a day! I had a slight increase with my cheap one step sticks but no where near positive. But I had like four days of the flashing smile on the clear blue digital but no solid smile :( I have no idea what’s going on? Any ideas?

Hannahne · 24/01/2021 19:06

Hi, I had the implant out on the 12th Jan 2021. I was due to come on the following Saturday. I was having regular periods throughout the implant. I never got my period although still having all the normal period type pains and feelings. Has anyone else ever had this? I'm so confused and feeling pretty crap tbh

LAnna20 · 24/01/2021 09:56

@Ange211 I had one of thoses days to yesterday, sometimes you just need to . I hope you are feeling better today 😘

Danni2020 · 24/01/2021 08:52

@Ange211 just sit back at let your husband work sometimes we need to just do nothing if that's what your body is telling you x

Danni2020 · 24/01/2021 08:49

@LAnna20 😂 yea wish we could go shopping at the moment. Sorry af got you in the end I'll be joining you in the next cycle soon too x

Ange211 · 23/01/2021 15:47

@LAnna20 I knew what you meant! I’m sorry it’s turned out to be AF 🥲
I’m having a really low day (which is highly unusual for me) I could eat everything in sight (although I turned my nose up at a bacon butty earlier) and I’m as crabbit as sin. Big time PMT & my get up and go has got up and gone 😂
It’s worse because my husband is busy clearing out the bootroom and I’m just sat on the sofa eating cupcakes, drinking tea & feeling rotten 😱

LAnna20 · 23/01/2021 14:41

@Danni2020 just realised my above message clearly wasn't meant to say shopping and in fact spotting ( wish it was shopping 🤣). That as expected has now turned into af

LAnna20 · 23/01/2021 09:53

@Ange211 I think it depends on where in your cycle you are, but I'd probably be a little apprehensive in the tww. But on the otherhand like said above if you you do just take regular breaks and don't spend to long in there.
@Danni2020 I started shopping Wednesday night (always have a couple of days prior to AF) but it's not turned into anymore than that yet . However I'm taking it as I'm out and she will be here anytime now!
@Katie1109 have you done the test yet?

Danni2020 · 23/01/2021 09:33

@Ange211 I debated this before but I've come to the conclusion after so long trying that you have to live your life and have fun otherwise you would go crazy. It maybe depends also where you are in your cycle and whether you could take an early test just to be sure. Otherwise have fun drink plenty water and just take regular breaks and you'll be fine x

@Katie1109 and @LAnna20 any signs of your af arriving 🤞

Ange211 · 22/01/2021 22:36

What’s everyone’s opinion on using a hot tub while ttc?

Ange211 · 21/01/2021 13:41

@Katie1109 that line is very pink and very clear! I’m not sure I could wait 🙈 🤞for you x

Ange211 · 21/01/2021 13:39

@Danni2020 that’s great news 🎉

Danni2020 · 21/01/2021 09:40

@Katie1109 this looks very promising I'm sure it can't be a false positive with that prominent a line surely!! That would be very cruel. I would take it as a positive but you can look forward to the digital telling you so at the weekend.

@Ange211 I'm sure the vaccine will be fine especially if you have had it before the egg implants etc as nothing goes to the baby at that point. There isn't much data at the moment sadly but I'm sure it's fine x

On my news I finally have a thyroid which is at an effective level to be able to conceive. My TSH level is at 0.16 and anything under 2.5 is good and under 1 is even better. With it being at 14 before it's been a long hard year trying to bring it down but I now feel I have a chance. Really hoping it works for me and there is nothing else going on 🤞 x

Ange211 · 21/01/2021 07:39

I had my Covid vaccine yesterday 💉
I’m a pharmacist so I’d researched the pros and cons of having it while ttc and decided on balance it was safer to go ahead with the vaccine.
Out of the blue my husband announced last night (after I’d had it) that he didn’t think I should have because we don’t know what harm it could do to an unborn child 🤦‍♀️
So for about the first time in 4 years I’m hoping NOT to be pregnant 😱

Katie1109 · 21/01/2021 07:38

@LAnna20 sore boobs and yesterday plenty of CM - sorry TMI. I couldn’t resist and I used another cheapie this morning, but I’m still not convinced, I’ve had lines on cheapies before. I’ll probably do a clear blue and digital on Sunday x my AF is due tomorrow but no period pains so far so 🤞

Crazy gang part..errr f*ck who knows anymore!
LAnna20 · 20/01/2021 21:59

@Katie1109 I had an extremely painful breast
(just the one!!) yesterday but that has eased slightly today. Also back ache and the feeling that period is coming for the last few days but that's probably just normal what about you anymore since yesterday? When is AF due?
@Irishgirl1990 welcome!

Katie1109 · 20/01/2021 20:40

@LAnna20 cycle buddies then x fingers crossed for both of us 🤞 any symptoms?
@Danni2020 I agree, and I think longer we TTC worse the hope gets x I hope we all have our sticky beans soon!! x

Danni2020 · 20/01/2021 20:12

I'm 6DPO and the TWW is always so long. It doesn't matter how long you have been trying you always hold on to that tiny piece of hope and you just want that nagging feeling away that occupies your mind for 2 weeks x

Irishgirl1990 · 20/01/2021 18:18

Hello ladies just thought I’d join in on the group. I am only 3dpo and dtd on my peak day of ovulation hopefully that will be enough. Fingers and toes crossed. No symptoms out of the ordinary but hopefully the tww will fly by.

LAnna20 · 20/01/2021 15:30

@Katie1109 have everything crossed for you! I am at a similar stage to you about 10dpo. Don't usually have the urge to test but really struggling this month , like you am holding out until the weekend as id expect AF to be here by then x

Katie1109 · 20/01/2021 11:44

@Ange211 thank you x I really hope this is it for us, would be a lovely way to start 2021 after the shit year we've had! In the last months I found positivity to be a key. We have been trying 18 months, with 2 miscarriages, the second one was absolutely awful and I was worried we'll never recover, but we did and we are stronger than ever. We took the relaxed approach, without adding stress of opks etc, just enjoyed regular sex every other day, sometimes every 2 days. Weekends we always tend to dtd more anyway, and my O seems to always fall right about then, so hopefully we caught it well this month :). Just remember to have fun, and put your relationship above all else and it will happen! x

Swipe left for the next trending thread