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No period but BFN

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hopefully2021 · 07/09/2020 07:22

Morning everyone
AF was due Fri/Sat but so far no sign - usually like clockwork however I have tested up to yesterday and all tests are negative, I tested yesterday with a clear blue early detection digital and nothing. I was really moody on Friday night & had slight period pains so thought AF was definately make an appearance on saturday morning but so far not even any spotting - do I keep testing? Really confused why my period is late as this doesnt usually happen to me and with all tests coming back negative I can't work out what is going on down there!
Any advice would be appreciated, thanks all xxx

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MJM1608 · 10/09/2020 08:24

@hopefully2021 it was positive - thanks for asking!! I now feel horrendous today after a bad nights sleep, like I’ve been hit by a bus 😂 wonder its because I know now & i’m picking up more symptoms.

How are you? Any sign? Are you using FRERs? I had some spotting yesterday (will be 5 weeks) but apparently that’s normal. I have everything crossed for you xxx

No period but BFN
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hopefully2021 · 10/09/2020 08:09

@MJM1608 how did you get on? hoping it's good news for you xxx

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hopefully2021 · 09/09/2020 16:59

@MJM1608 wishing you the best of luck! let me know how you get on tomorrow morning xxx
It's so frustrating isn't it, I keep going to the toilet to wipe myself just to see if I can see the faintest sign of blood but literally nothing at all!
Thank you, I hope so too but getting negatives at this point doesnt give me much hope xxx

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MJM1608 · 09/09/2020 16:54

@hopefully2021 I won’t believe it until I see it on a digital test (hopefully tomorrow morning!) as it’s weird to only get a positive 19days dpo!

I actually feel normal except I did have a nap yesterday but can’t tell if it’s because I can’t sleep thinking about what’s going on with my body! Your body is deffo telling you something, please keep me updated, really hope it’s good news for you this month!! xx

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hopefully2021 · 09/09/2020 16:37

@MJM1608 thats brilliant news! Congrats you must be over the moon xxx
Did you have any symptoms? I have been feeling sick and really tired - ended up taking a break from work today and having an afternoon nap which is really not like me (lucky I'm still working from home) and had one yesterday evening so something is definately not right plus just feel sad all the time xxx

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MJM1608 · 09/09/2020 16:31

@hopefully2021 hope you get your answer soon! To give you some hope - I had negative tests as I mentioned before and today at 19dpo I got a bfp. I had really bad cramps and all the tests were negative until today. I used a FRER - was shocked to see two lines. Not out until AF arrives as they say - sending you love!! xxx

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hopefully2021 · 09/09/2020 16:07

still no sign, called the doctors this morning as I was diagnosed with pcos quite a few years ago & the doctor at the time said to get back in contact when I was ready to start trying for a baby so they could do some more tests, calling me back next week & if no period still he is going to put a plan in place to start arranging some tests to check if everything is okay xxx

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hopefully2021 · 08/09/2020 09:24

Thanks everyone @MJM1608 - I had a hot water bottle last night hoping that might make it come quicker, been to the gym this morning but still nothing! I've just done a cheap tesco test and still negative - no idea why I'm so late this month just want to be put out of my misery so I can start another month of trying!xxx

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MJM1608 · 08/09/2020 07:18

@hopefully2021- I’m exactly the same!! :( 18 days dpo, had the worst cramp last night & sure I’d wake up to AF - nothing yet!! It was due Friday/Saturday. It’s never this late & all the tests are negative. Let me know how you get on, hopefully we are put out our misery soon! 😊

Jessicatayla · 07/09/2020 10:36

I've just had the same, AF was 4 days late when I've never had a late period before. If it escalates passed 2 weeks maybe see your gp

dreamer2 · 07/09/2020 10:29

Hi there , I know the feeling , I think sometimes our bodies just decide to act weird for no reason , perhaps you ovulated late this month and it's too early to test or period is just late for a couple of days , the thing is , pregnancy and period signs are practically identical it's so annoying, i would say the best thing to do is wait till you are about a week late then to start testing x

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hopefully2021 · 07/09/2020 08:49

bump

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