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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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ArjaD · 06/09/2020 13:07

Hi All, I had a mmc at the end of June, and am now 8dpo after our first ovulation since the mmc. Surprisingly, I got this result this morning. Seems too early but it's there... Anyone else got a recent bfp after a miscarriage and is going through the anxiety of it all happening again? Hoping to see lots of rainbow babies xx

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Emmaa124 · 23/09/2020 16:43

Yeah I'll be 7 weeks at the end of the week and the tension was getting to us from not having that release we had to have abit of fun after all the stress of trying it made us feel closer and more relaxed xx

BabyDust13 · 23/09/2020 16:17

I don't think I could go from all the sex trying to make a baby and then none I'm 5 weeks and we haven't stopped but we haven't been going crazy either

Emmaa124 · 23/09/2020 10:43

@Sansa87 well I must admitted there was nothing for 2 weeks because we were both scared but we just go gentle hopefully it won't affect me

Sansa87 · 23/09/2020 10:39

@Emmaa124 I’m jealous, I’m far too scared to have sex. If I see even a hint of spotting I’ll go back in panic mode 😂

There has been nothing since 15th aug. I’m practically a nun again!

Emmaa124 · 23/09/2020 10:09

Congratulations and @ArjaD haha no hit I'll tell you something since being pregnant my other half and I have had more passionate sex luckily think he's super happy we've finally got pregnant again and we don't see it as a chore anymore 😂❤️

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ArjaD · 23/09/2020 09:06

Awwwww great news @BabyDust13! 😍 Congratulations!
We're on fertile week now, so dtd when we can 😂 nothing romantic about baby making huh...... 🙄 How is everyone?

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Sansa87 · 23/09/2020 08:33

Congrats @BabyDust13!

BabyDust13 · 23/09/2020 08:02

Got my 3+ this morning ladies on exactly 5 weeks

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BabyDust13 · 17/09/2020 14:53

@Sansa87 congratulations

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ArjaD · 17/09/2020 14:04

@Sansa87 that's amazing, sooooooo happy for you xxx

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Emmaa124 · 17/09/2020 12:13

Congratulations that's amazing x

wishingwomen · 17/09/2020 12:10

@Sansa87 congratulations that's lovely news!

Sansa87 · 17/09/2020 11:41

Was expecting to go in to EPU to be told I’d had a mmc...

6+3 weeks with a heartbeat

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Littlebee1990 · 16/09/2020 12:23

@BabyDust13 I’d also read up on it but also read somewhere it can cause MC and shouldn’t be taken unless prescribed, but then I’ve read people who have taken it without being prescribed and been fine x

BabyDust13 · 16/09/2020 11:10

Morning all I just wondered if any of you had tried using low dose aspirin I've read quite a lot about it and after 2 loses I've decided to start taking 75mg a day. I'm not sure if it will help but I guess it's worth a try

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ArjaD · 15/09/2020 23:11

@Sansa87 it could just be pain from stretching muscles or ligaments maybe, I had a lot of discomfort down there when pregnant too. Sitting was hard enough at one point 😳

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Jaysdream7 · 15/09/2020 22:01

Congratulations both of you!! The most amazing feeling when you get that BFP. I have a mc in March then fell again in April. This one sadly ended in a termination due to severe medical complications. Also had chemical last year so I know how anxious you must feel. Knickers checking is the worst. Hopefully you will feel better after your scans.
We decided to start trying again this month but sadly AF arrived today so in to next cycle.
Hope to be able to join you soon. Xxx

wishingwomen · 15/09/2020 21:53

@BabyDust13 yeah I told him I didn't yesterday when the line was faint but done a clear blue one and it come up pregnant straight away so told him today we're both very happy but very anxious!

@Littlebee1990 yeah I've just done the self referral and looking at the private scan now just so worried to book because it's the worst having to ring and say you've lost the baby so no longer need the appointment praying that won't happen though and I really don't want to think like that just so hard! Xx

Sansa87 · 15/09/2020 21:51

Thankfully still no sign of bleeding, but the pelvic/vag pain is still horrible. Really regret moaning about boob pain as I’d do anything to get it back

Think we are booking a scan for Saturday, but fear it will be too late/no point

Not sure whether to go to work tomorrow, other than pain I don’t have a reason to not go in

Littlebee1990 · 15/09/2020 21:44

Welcome to the newbies! Great to see lots of BFPs.. I finally braved filling in the self referral form for maternity and booked a private scan for 3rd October where I should be between 7+2 and 8+3.. only 18 sleeps to go 🙈😩 Still feel so so anxious that something is going to go wrong and check for blood all day, every day!

BabyDust13 · 15/09/2020 21:40

@ArjaD thank you I'm trying to remain calm and positive

@wishingwomen congratulations 🥳 have you mentioned it to your OH yet I had to come to bed early I hate not telling him I just want to wait a couple more days until my FRER arrive

wishingwomen · 15/09/2020 21:26

@BabyDust13 congratulations I also got my positive this morning after having a miscarriage in June! Hope all goes well for you! Thanks

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ArjaD · 15/09/2020 21:24

@BabyDust13 awww congratulations!!!!! 😍 Feel free to join us, so sorry to hear about the mmc and cp 😞 hope you are not too anxious xxx

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BabyDust13 · 15/09/2020 20:17

Hi ladies hope you don't mind if I join

I got this BFP this morning after having a d&c on 24 July after a MMC. I guess I'm about 4 weeks I'm excited and anxious all at the same time

Haven't told my OH yet as my period is due Friday and I've also had a chemical pregnancy once this year

Good luck to you all Thanks

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ArjaD · 14/09/2020 14:03

@wishingwomen aw thank you xx fingers crossed for you. It's such a rollercoaster huh.
@natnev so sorry for the bfn, but at least you can focus on next cycle!!!

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