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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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ArjaD · 06/09/2020 13:07

Hi All, I had a mmc at the end of June, and am now 8dpo after our first ovulation since the mmc. Surprisingly, I got this result this morning. Seems too early but it's there... Anyone else got a recent bfp after a miscarriage and is going through the anxiety of it all happening again? Hoping to see lots of rainbow babies xx

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ArjaD · 08/11/2020 12:52

@Idreamof2more just think at least you are lucky enough to be able to keep trying. ❤️ I'm worried time is running out for us. Soon hubby will be gone for five months at a time and I'm already 37 now.

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Idreamof2more · 08/11/2020 12:16

I am feeling that af is on her way tbh. I feel surprisingly okay though although a little bit disappointed. On to the next month. Keeping everything crossed for you I have a good feeling x

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ArjaD · 08/11/2020 12:14

@Idreamof2more I haven't dared to test again. Hubby has his hopes up and I'm so scared of disappointing him. Will maybe do another test tomorrow if I can bear it.... How are you feeling? The spotting may not be af yet!

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Idreamof2more · 08/11/2020 12:10

Bfn for me today on clear blue and think I’ve started spotting very slightly. Feel okay though on to next month. @ArjaD have you tested again I have everything crossed for you xx

Idreamof2more · 07/11/2020 12:57

Ah okay I might try one tomorrow if I get there. I am due Monday or tuesday (according to flo). My boobs are dull achy and I was so hot in the night but who knows. If I am I will be shocked. Would love to hold out until Wednesday but know I can’t. Okay look forward to your update I’m sure you will see another lovely cross xx

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ArjaD · 07/11/2020 12:47

@Idreamof2more I meant to say too, the blue dye tests are Sainsbury's ones. No idea how sensitive but they can be taken 5 days before period is due. I'm going to take another one of those later today after holding my wee for four hours or so. I just hope frer is just not picking it up yet.

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Idreamof2more · 07/11/2020 11:54

THANKYOU. You are still so early I have a good feeling for you xx

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ArjaD · 07/11/2020 11:51

@Idreamof2more yeah it's heartbreaking. I just hope that things may still change. Will keep you in my thoughts too ❤️

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Idreamof2more · 07/11/2020 11:45

Hi @ArjaD was thinking of you this morning. Sorry for your bfn. It’s so horrible isn’t it that tiny window of hope where you pray you see a little line to give us hope. I did a boots cheapie hcg strip and was bfn. I really don’t think this is my month. Can’t understand why I get faint positives this month and last but then af arrives?? Maybe recurrent chemicals. Your lines were so evident. What test is that cross one? Is it sensitive ? I’m just telling myself I am out this month as I hate the wait and the money I’m spending on PT. It’s such a rip off. I paid £8.99 for one cb and they are so much cheaper on amazon just hate the wait for them to be delivered. I will keep praying for you though xxx

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ArjaD · 07/11/2020 11:36

Frer still stark white this morning 😔

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Emmaa124 · 06/11/2020 22:12

@ArjaD well I'm definitely hoping this is your bfp and that you join me and my not so little bean very soon

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ArjaD · 06/11/2020 22:07

@Idreamof2more my af isn't due till Wed so I can't believe this early positive. I did get a tiny bit of spotting at around 5dpo which would have been a verrrry early implantation (if that's what it was) - so maybe that's why I get a positive. But I can't help but be sceptical after so many dud tests in the past 😳 yeah hubby will be away in a couple of weeks for about five months. It will be tough going with a toddler and one on the way, but we'll be OK. I'm feeling so knackered tonight, think I'll head to bed. Fingers crossed we can all join @Emmaa124 with bumps!

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Idreamof2more · 06/11/2020 19:26

@ArjaD oh I would love that so so much! When is your af dye mine is Monday or Tuesday. I also had a chemical last month. My boobs have got quite achy this evening. I’ve followed your thread and see that your dp is going away soon so was really routing that this was your month. I’m scared to get excited.
I am going to test again Monday I think. Wouldn’t it be lovely if we could celebrate together xxx

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ArjaD · 06/11/2020 19:16

@Idreamof2more I see that line too!!! I'd get excited about that!!! Oh i hope we can be bump buddies 😍 I also have twingy boobs, lots of watery cm since ovulation really. And sooooo tired.

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Idreamof2more · 06/11/2020 19:09

Thank you for taking a look. 2 super faint will test again once af is late x

Emmaa124 · 06/11/2020 19:00

@Idreamof2more I can just about see something

Idreamof2more · 06/11/2020 18:17

You will need to zoom, squint and stand on your head 🤣🤣🤣

Idreamof2more · 06/11/2020 18:15

@ArjaD do you have any pg symptoms ? My boobs are twingey but I still don’t believe I am pg as saw my line after the time window did see a shadow straight away. My af is due Monday or Tuesday. Did a cb and saw a super super faint but don’t trust them

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Emmaa124 · 06/11/2020 18:07

@ArjaD oh my goodness that's deffo positive 🥰

Idreamof2more · 06/11/2020 18:00

My first response was negative yesterday. I would say you are def pregnant @ArjaD so happy 😀 😍

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ArjaD · 06/11/2020 17:55

Well the top one is this morning's, the bottom one I took just now. My FRER earlier today was neg but I will take my last one of those tomorrow morning. I have hope again.

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ArjaD · 06/11/2020 17:54

@Idreamof2more I see it!!!!! 😍 😍 😍 😍 😍 😍

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Emmaa124 · 06/11/2020 17:36

@Idreamof2more I see something but it is very faint

Idreamof2more · 06/11/2020 17:09

Is there anything here ? Xx

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Emmaa124 · 06/11/2020 13:48

@Cbd333 ahh well hopefully it's not got my fingers crossed for you it's horrible waiting for the inevitable isn't it! 😞

@ArjaD take another one this afternoon see if it's changed at all I'm so excited for you really hope this is it my Tesco one looked the same as yours and that was a day before I was late so fingers crossed

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