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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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ArjaD · 06/09/2020 13:07

Hi All, I had a mmc at the end of June, and am now 8dpo after our first ovulation since the mmc. Surprisingly, I got this result this morning. Seems too early but it's there... Anyone else got a recent bfp after a miscarriage and is going through the anxiety of it all happening again? Hoping to see lots of rainbow babies xx

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ArjaD · 27/11/2020 15:15

I know what you mean, I can't help myself most of the time either 😂 don't think I've ovulated yet, due to get that positive ook any day now. Not that it matters since hubby is on the other side of the world. So that's me until April or so, defo won't be getting pregnant 😂

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Idreamof2more · 27/11/2020 15:09

@ArjaD knowing me I will prob check with fmu? 🤣 how many dpo are you ?? X

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ArjaD · 27/11/2020 14:54

@Idreamof2more well like you say it's still early days 😊 maybe give it a few days?

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Idreamof2more · 27/11/2020 14:18

@ArjaD I did another but can’t see anything mind you about 8th wee of the day. Xx

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ArjaD · 27/11/2020 14:14

@Idreamof2more wow that's a line! Who still knows what is happening with our bodies. I really hope it's good news for you, I so do 🙏🙏🙏🙏

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Idreamof2more · 27/11/2020 12:04

Hi @ArjaD the strangest thing I got this today on a first response at 6 dpo at 3 minutes but then it almost disappeared after an hour. I know it’s super early.
Fingers crossed for you 🥰

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ArjaD · 25/11/2020 08:43

@Idreamof2more how are things? I thought I had one more shot at it with hubby this month, but he got an emergency call yesterday and is on a plane to South Korea now to join a ship for five months or so 😔 guess the stress is off for now.

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ArjaD · 22/11/2020 15:03

I'm sure we'll survive. Just hope the pandemic and stress goes away soon.
Well all it takes is one sperm! Fingers crossed you got it 🤞🤞🤞

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Idreamof2more · 22/11/2020 14:05

Aww bittersweet then I guess. Well fingers crossed for you. I have only dtd once second day of static smiley as had an op last Monday so pretty sure I have not hit it although had so much ewcm yesterday so who knows. Nice to hear from you hope all works out well xxx

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ArjaD · 22/11/2020 11:30

Hey @Idreamof2more, doing OK atm. Hubby's work assignment got cancelled so he's still home. Able to try again this month, but no paycheck coming in. Silver lining and All that. How's you? X

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Idreamof2more · 22/11/2020 07:58

@ArjaD hi lovely how are you? Xx

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ArjaD · 10/11/2020 12:34

@tigertreats thank you so much ❤️😊 and congratulations!

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tigertreats · 10/11/2020 12:04

OP don't give up I'm much older than you. Had a missed miscarriage last year at 13 ish weeks - was devastated as had already told people having had 12 week scan.
Grieved hard. Like you I had a positive quite soon after that turned in to a heavy period - I now think probably chemical and too soon for my body. Few months later tested a week after af was due (had given up) and got a positive. Now 38 weeks and awaiting arrival.
Didnt stop worrying until about 28 weeks but way more relaxed now.
You have lots of time - let your body recover .
Sending lots of baby wishes xxx

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ArjaD · 10/11/2020 11:31

@Idreamof2more I'll defo message you x I'm also staying on this thread though just to keep up to date with all the lovely ladies who had their bfps ❤️ always love to hear the happy stories.

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Idreamof2more · 10/11/2020 10:47

I’ve been dreaming of a fizzy Prosecco and I think I will enjoy a glass or two very soon and also celebrate my blessings.
I am always here even if you want to message me on here also. I am really not sure if I want to have another right now. I want to relax stop peeing on sticks etc and enjoy Christmas.
I have wasted hundreds of pounds on pregnancy tests also money I could have spent on my babies.
Oh well lesson learnt.
Sending you much love and enjoy that rum xxx

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ArjaD · 10/11/2020 09:21

@Idreamof2more morning my dear, I'm totally with you. Af started two days early. Joy of joys 😣 oh well, I think I'll enjoy a wee glass of rum tonight and just count the blessings we already have. So glad I've got someone to chat to about it all on here❤️ how are you?

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Idreamof2more · 10/11/2020 09:04

@ArjaD morning lovely how are you doing ? Af in full force today and cramping is rotten. Xx

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ArjaD · 09/11/2020 08:46

@Idreamof2more that is so odd, I feel the same. I look at my toddler and realise how blessed we already are to even have him. I don't want to go through ivf or anything like that, if it isn't in His plan then it's not meant to be.

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Idreamof2more · 09/11/2020 07:36

Bless you that’s such a selfless thing to say. I know it’s prob not what you want to hear but I have read first response picking up positives later. Still keeping everything crossed for you.
Not sure what’s happened but woke this am questioning if I want another baby. Xx

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ArjaD · 09/11/2020 07:28

@Idreamof2more aw so sorry, 😢 well I really hope to see a bfp for you whilst I wait for hubby to come back home. It would make this pandemic at least seem so much better ❤️

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Idreamof2more · 09/11/2020 07:16

So sorry @ArjaD my af showed last night so same for me.. it’s so frustrating esp when we see lines. Thinking of you although your aren’t out until she shows xx

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ArjaD · 09/11/2020 06:42

Did my frer this morning, bfn. I guess I'm either having repeat cp or just very unlucky with tests. Ugh wish I hadn't tested early now. Onward to next year I guess. 😣

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Idreamof2more · 08/11/2020 15:16

If only xxx

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ArjaD · 08/11/2020 14:48

Wish we could just plan our lives five years ahead and what we planned would happen no matter what 🙄

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Idreamof2more · 08/11/2020 13:39

I know lovely that’s hard for you. I’m 41 in jan so although my dp is home my time is really running out xx

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