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ArjaD · 06/09/2020 13:07

Hi All, I had a mmc at the end of June, and am now 8dpo after our first ovulation since the mmc. Surprisingly, I got this result this morning. Seems too early but it's there... Anyone else got a recent bfp after a miscarriage and is going through the anxiety of it all happening again? Hoping to see lots of rainbow babies xx

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ArjaD · 07/09/2020 12:35

Welcome ladies!! Join the worry club! X wish we had a crystal ball, that would just make it easier! @LRboop it's odd how it can differ so much from person to person huh. Hard going, I hope you get your bfp soon 🤞🤞

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Sansa87 · 07/09/2020 12:32

If nothing has happened by the end of the week (I’m away until Friday) then I’ll book an early scan. At least it will let us know once and for all.

LittleTiger007 · 07/09/2020 12:28

Sorry above should say I haven’t taken a test yet! Not yesterday!

LittleTiger007 · 07/09/2020 12:27

Hello ladies, can I join you? I had a miscarriage at the end of June and a d&c on 8th July. Now I’m 10 dpo. I haven’t taken a test yesterday, but I have all the same symptoms as before. I’m prettified to go through it all again but desp to conceive as I’m getting on in years. This is our first. All that happened in June/July was hard to bear

LRboop · 07/09/2020 12:04

Hi everyone, I'm really encouraged by how quickly some of you got pregnant after MC. I had a missed miscarriage at the end of May and haven't got pregnant again yet, it took 10 cycles to get pregnant. Feel like I'm so anxious about not being able to get pregnant again and then if I do I'll just worry about losing it. I haven't had any CM in the last two cycles so also nervous about that. reading these chats are very helpful.

recreationalcalpol · 07/09/2020 12:02

Oh sansa I’ve got everything crossed for you. Like you say, it’s weird how you can just know. Can you get a scan once you get to six weeks? I’m planning to see my consultant at 6/7 weeks ish.

Sansa87 · 07/09/2020 11:56

Isn’t it weird how sometimes we just know, last time I think I knew somethin was wrong, but it came as a shock. This time from the start I’ve not felt like it’s going to go right.

I thought it was just because of what happened in july, but maybe my body was letting me know not to get attached

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ArjaD · 07/09/2020 11:49

Looks fab @recreationalcalpol, congrats! 😍 I think mine was just a chemical or false test. Ugh.
@Semele5069 I agree, the uncertainty is so crap! What do we do it for huh.

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recreationalcalpol · 07/09/2020 11:19

Lovely strong positive on a FRER this morning at 12DPO. Much stronger than with my MC in July. Feeling very positive about this one, having felt like my last pregnancy was doomed from the start

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Emmaa124 · 07/09/2020 10:41

Just stay positive it will happen I was crying the other day cause I thought it would never happen and then this happened good luck to everyone x

Semele5069 · 07/09/2020 10:11

Hi all
I'm 5 weeks now after early losses in January and April. I don't know how I'm going to tolerate the uncertainty! I have no sense that this pregnancy is going to result in an actual baby, it just feels so vulnerable. I keep trying to remind myself that every successful pregnancy goes through these early stages and make it!

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ArjaD · 07/09/2020 09:24

Wow some good positive results there, congrats all! I fear my positive test may have been a faulty one. I took a frer this morning and there is the faintest of lines which may be an evap. Nothing else. So I'm losing hope now.

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Emmaa124 · 07/09/2020 08:16

These are my results

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Emmaa124 · 07/09/2020 08:14

Hello I've also just found out I'm pregnant after an early mc in March I'm currently 4+2 weeks pregnant congratulations on your OP but I am also feeling anxiety! X

Littlebee1990 · 07/09/2020 08:06

Hi ladies, please can I join? I had an early MC in June and today at 10DPO I got this. I don’t really know how I feel tbh, a bit exited and a bit scared. I’ll test again in a few days x

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Sansa87 · 07/09/2020 07:57

“Don’t worry” is the easiest and only thing to say isn’t it 😂 I’m the same, & then I think “of course you’re going to bloody worry. You’re human”

9dpo is pretty early @ArjaD but I am sending all the positive thoughts your way. ❤️

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ArjaD · 07/09/2020 07:55

I say don't worry but if only it was that easy to switch off huh 😒

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ArjaD · 07/09/2020 07:55

9dpo today, so confusing. I was amazed at the clear Line yesterday but on the frer today it's hardly visible. Hubby can't see it but his eyesight is worse than mine. Worrying now we had a faulty test yesterday or we have a chemical. Ugh I hate this wait. Don't worry @Sansa87, there are always days where you worry because you don't feel anything. Any more bleeding? X

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Sansa87 · 07/09/2020 07:28

@ArjaD how many dpo are you?

I’ve woken up still cramping, but my boobs don’t hurt today, & I don’t feel any sickness 😔

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ArjaD · 07/09/2020 07:00

It's so odd, after an obvious positive yesterday I got a squinter of a line on a frer this morning. Definitely worrying now 😳

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ArjaD · 06/09/2020 20:30

@Nottherealslimshady thanks, and sorry for your loss xx but congrats, wow you got pregnant very quickly after!! 😍

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Nottherealslimshady · 06/09/2020 19:15

I'm currently 5+2, my last pregnancy finished 1st august at 5+4.
This as felt totally different though and feels strong and healthy (because I feel sick and tired as hell 😂)

Good luck with your pregnancy, its important to remember that this is a different pregnancy and your last pregnancy ending in miscarriage does not increase the chance of this one also ending in miscarriage.

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ArjaD · 06/09/2020 19:07

@Rumples welcome, so sorry to hear about the previous chemical. Fingers crossed we're all lucky this time. I find wee groups to chat like this does a lot for my fear and worrying!

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Rumples · 06/09/2020 18:47

Sorry to hear about your MC OP - that test looks positive to me though!

I got my BFP yesterday after having a chemical in June.

I've had awful cramps last night and feared the worst. No bleeding yet though and I've done another test and the line looks stronger.

@Sansa87 that is a very strong line!

Praying everything works out this time around.

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ArjaD · 06/09/2020 18:15

@Sansa87 that's awful 😔 i don't think you ever stop worrying after something like that. Why do we put ourselves through it again huh. I hope you still get to enjoy your wee getaway, sounds like a nice family affair!
@recreationalcalpol (hurray for Calpol) congrats! Join the worry club 🎉

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