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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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ArjaD · 06/09/2020 13:07

Hi All, I had a mmc at the end of June, and am now 8dpo after our first ovulation since the mmc. Surprisingly, I got this result this morning. Seems too early but it's there... Anyone else got a recent bfp after a miscarriage and is going through the anxiety of it all happening again? Hoping to see lots of rainbow babies xx

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Littlebee1990 · 07/09/2020 17:03

@ArjaD I edited the contrast and can really see the 2nd line now on your pic x

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ArjaD · 07/09/2020 16:56

@Emmaa124 aw thanks! Yeah I can see it on the actual test here but it may be an evap. I'll do another Frer tomorrow and see what it brings 😳

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Emmaa124 · 07/09/2020 16:46

@ArjaD I inverted your picture this is what it looks like there is a line but very faint

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Emmaa124 · 07/09/2020 16:32

@ArjaD test again after that hopefully it'll be positive

savethewales · 07/09/2020 16:32

@ArjaD I don’t think that’s a bad line for 9dpo though, like if you only had that one. See what tomorrow brings xx

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ArjaD · 07/09/2020 16:30

@Emmaa124 af could be due anytime from maybe Thurs, Fri or Sat. My cycles are still a bit longer after the mmc, but normally about 30 days, so I would say af should defo be here by Sat.

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Emmaa124 · 07/09/2020 16:26

@ArjaD I can see something but nothing like your first picture unfortunately stay positive though how long till your period is due this was my one in the morning before I got my clear blue one the top one

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ArjaD · 07/09/2020 16:21

Not sure if you can even see it on this...

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Emmaa124 · 07/09/2020 15:56

@ArjaD put a pick on let's have a look see what we can see I had a squinter and then I got hole and did a clear blue and got a positive on haha digital

Emmaa124 · 07/09/2020 15:55

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ArjaD · 07/09/2020 15:50

@Emmaa124 it did. Maybe it was broken or an early chemical. Got a total squinter on a frer this morning, prob an evap. I'll try again tomorrow 🤔

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Emmaa124 · 07/09/2020 15:39

@ArjaD did it come up before the time was up and @savethewales phew haha it's just a weird time especially after a mc glad I'm not the only one

savethewales · 07/09/2020 15:31

@Emmaa124 I’m exactly the same!

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ArjaD · 07/09/2020 15:30

@Littlebee1990 here was yesterday's test which I now think was a dud 😳

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Emmaa124 · 07/09/2020 15:23

I've got my positives and I'm still buying tests cause I also most can't believe it after I've been through a mc is this too much?

Semele5069 · 07/09/2020 15:20

I just had a look at available dates for a 7 week scan locally but between availability and work I don't think I could do one until 8 weeks.

How much can they see on a scan at 6 weeks? I'd like some reassurance there's something in there sooner than 8 weeks but can imagine how much I'd freak myself out if it was unclear!

Littlebee1990 · 07/09/2020 14:24

Congrats to everyone else. Definitley feels like a weird time, just cannot feel excited but also have this little ping of hope every now and then. We’re on holiday and I’ve got 2 other tests with us (1 digital) so I think I’ll do another FRER Wednesday and then the digital at end of week. Taking every inch of patience not to use them now 🤪

I had book an early test last time and the clinic let me cancel and held my deposit so once I feel a little more secure I’ll book another one for 6-7 weeks 🤞🏼

I think my EDD will be mid-May which id love but really cannot get too excited as it’s sooo early. This will be our first baby, I’m 30 x

@ArjaD Have you got a pic of the original test? Perhaps today’s test is a dodgy one? Xx

Baby2123 · 07/09/2020 14:12

Hi ladies,

I’ve been on here a good few months now and I finally got my BFP Saturday after losing our baby at 23 weeks in March. I’m soooo excited yet sooo scared, we’re planing to go for a NIPT test at 10 weeks. Has anyone had one of these before?

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LRboop · 07/09/2020 13:59

My due date was 9th Dec so close to yours. Wow, that's tough :( Thought it was a lovely time to give birth. Fingers crossed we're all pregnant by December so we have a nice distraction.

Congrats @savethewales

I'd definitely be getting early private scans. I can imagine going every week if I get a BFP!

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ArjaD · 07/09/2020 13:21

@savethewales aw congrats!!!! That's a great positive, hope it's a sticky bean ❤️ feel free to stay with us, pour out the worry!

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savethewales · 07/09/2020 13:16

Hi everyone, can I join? I had a miscarriage in February and a chemical pregnancy in March after starting to try in December last year. We had to put things on hold after March as my husband became poorly and ended up in hospital. We really gave it a shot in August and I've had this today; I'm either 4 days before my period or 5 (depending which app you use) and have took it with afternoon wee. I'm already terrified it's going to go wrong, but trying to stay up beat! How is everyone else?

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Emmaa124 · 07/09/2020 13:07

Think I'm also going to get a private 6 weeks scan too!

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ArjaD · 07/09/2020 12:57

@LRboop I know exactly how you feel. Our due date was Xmas day of all days. I think it will be a bit of a sad Xmas this year with that in mind. When was yours supposed to be? X

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LRboop · 07/09/2020 12:49

Thanks so much @ArjaD - hope you get a positive soon too and it's not a chemical

Yeah, it's bizarre alright how we are all different. A lot of people told me I'd get pregnant straight away after MC as it's common so I had a lot of false hope it seemed. I just would love to be pregnant before my due date as I'm already dreading it.

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ArjaD · 07/09/2020 12:45

@Sansa87 we were planning to pay for a 6 week scan too, before the tests turned against us 😩

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