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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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ArjaD · 06/09/2020 13:07

Hi All, I had a mmc at the end of June, and am now 8dpo after our first ovulation since the mmc. Surprisingly, I got this result this morning. Seems too early but it's there... Anyone else got a recent bfp after a miscarriage and is going through the anxiety of it all happening again? Hoping to see lots of rainbow babies xx

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Littlebee1990 · 09/09/2020 08:12

@savethewales I couldn’t agree more! I’m 13DPO and my line is darker today but I’m still worried after the chemical!

Can anyone help me with dates? Since my chemical my cycles went from 28 to 35 day cycles. My first day of last period was 7th August but I didn’t ovulate until 27th August.. 1 app puts me at 3+5 and another puts me at 4+6.. so confused! Want to book an early scan for between 6-7 weeks but don’t wanna get the dates wrong.

savethewales · 09/09/2020 08:08

Just a little update, took another one x

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savethewales · 09/09/2020 07:54

Morning @natnev and @Littlebee1990 - I did a digital yesterday and got 1-2 weeks which is good. I’m trying to relax and when looking again I do think the line this morning is darker slightly and more defined - but like you say I should maybe expect more tomorrow or Friday. Honestly, this getting pregnant malarkey is not as easy as they made it sound when I was 13 😂

natnev · 09/09/2020 07:36

Morning ladies Smile

@savethewales definitely get a digital test but those ones look very promising to me! Congrats x

Littlebee1990 · 09/09/2020 07:33

Morning ladies! @savethewales HCG typically rises every 48 hours so it’s not unusual that today and yesterday’s tests look the same for you. Perhaps try a digital to put your mind at rest tomorrow? X

savethewales · 09/09/2020 07:00

Morning everyone, I keep testing and its honestly just stressing me out more. Top test is 9dpo, middle is 10dpo and bottom is this morning at 11dpo. I’m worried 11 is the same as 10, but happy it’s stronger than 9. Hoping it’s just that it’s going to double tomorrow but it’s got me worried sick!

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Emmaa124 · 08/09/2020 20:48

@ArjaD thank you so much can't wait for yours now! ❤️

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ArjaD · 08/09/2020 20:46

@Emmaa124 aw I'm so chuffed for you, it looks great!! 😍

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Emmaa124 · 08/09/2020 20:04

So my first response tests came and I'm so happy to see that the test line is so dark it's darker than the control line

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Jaysdream7 · 08/09/2020 17:46

You are so lovely thank you 💙💙

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ArjaD · 08/09/2020 17:21

@Jaysdream7 and I for you! I'll light my wee candle tonight xx ❤️
@natnev it's always an odd relief I feel when fertile week is over and you can go back to some spontaneity 🤣

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Emmaa124 · 08/09/2020 16:11

Sorry I've not replied to anyone or joined in been at eork all day still here get off at 7 ish luckily but I'm praying for you all that you join the rainbow baby club soon 🥰❤️

natnev · 08/09/2020 16:09

Definitely not romantic! Lying in bed with your bum in the air 🤣 keep us updated @ArjaD, really hoping it's implantation cramps for you x

Jaysdream7 · 08/09/2020 15:18

Bless you! I pray for you to get your baby lines very soon!
Xxx

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ArjaD · 08/09/2020 15:15

@Jaysdream7 aw I think I may see a squinter there. Fingers crossed for you, I'm actually more and more convinced my af is coming, I've been cramping the last few hours.

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ArjaD · 08/09/2020 15:12

@natnev yeah Sunday sounds like the day to test. Ttc is by no means ever romantic 🙄 was quick with my first, then 6months for the second which we lost at 14 weeks gestation. Ovulation tests, then telling hubby now's the time 😂 he must really feel the pressure!

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Jaysdream7 · 08/09/2020 15:12

Hi, @ArjaD I’ve caved at 7/8 dpo and taken a FRER. This is the image. I hate to get your hopes Up but I can see a faint line in your first response similar to this one? I’m not sure that my line is? I’m praying for you xx

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natnev · 08/09/2020 14:44

@ArjaD I'd be really surprised if your BFP was wrong! And I'm really hoping that's the case 🤞🏻 if af isn't here by Sunday do you think I should do a test that day? Or wait a bit? I've never had to ttc before this past 18 months, I fell so easily for my first two children, so I've actually no idea what I'm doing 😂

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ArjaD · 08/09/2020 14:39

@natnev yeah I've never had a false positive before, it's heartwrenching but I guess we just need to get over it. 😔 Sounds like we have similar cycles!
@savethewales the worry stays huh, sort of dreading that.

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savethewales · 08/09/2020 14:35

@ArjaD I’m doing okay, I just feel like my head is full with worry. Got a good progression on frer this morning so trying to relax but it’s so hard!

natnev · 08/09/2020 14:28

@ArjaD AF is due on Saturday for me too. I'm getting the usual sore boobs/cramps/moodiness but I'm praying it doesn't come 🤞🏻 and for you too! I've never had a false positive before, was that your first? Assuming it WAS faulty of course

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ArjaD · 08/09/2020 14:21

@savethewales I've run out of frers, but happy to squint at these for the next few days. Got my clearblues ready for Sat in case af doesn't show. Feeling a bit crampy though. How are you doing? X

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savethewales · 08/09/2020 14:08

@ArjaD I feel like I can! Maybe try another frer in the morning as they seem the most reliable usually? Xx

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ArjaD · 08/09/2020 13:51

@Natnev no I have decided to just satisfyy addiction with these for now and if af doesn't show on Sat I'll do a clearblue. I had a positive Co-op test three days ago but I believe it was faulty.
These forums are great for knowing you're not weird and we all go a bit crazy at times 😁🤣

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natnev · 08/09/2020 13:22

@ArjaD

I'm such a poas addict 😱
I am too! I've found those test strips are very hit and miss, I've had so many mixed results with those. I wish clear blue weren't so pricey. (Thanks for letting me tag along, I've not been on one of these threads before and am not a seasoned MN user, so apologies if I don't get the abbreviations right 😂) Unsure if I can see a line on your pic, have you got any other tests?
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