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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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ArjaD · 06/09/2020 13:07

Hi All, I had a mmc at the end of June, and am now 8dpo after our first ovulation since the mmc. Surprisingly, I got this result this morning. Seems too early but it's there... Anyone else got a recent bfp after a miscarriage and is going through the anxiety of it all happening again? Hoping to see lots of rainbow babies xx

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natnev · 14/09/2020 12:51

Two negative tests. Ah well, onwards and upwards x

wishingwomen · 14/09/2020 11:59

I also had miscarriage early June so this is the first proper month of trying again due on in 4-5 days so not testing until I'm late as in the past I've done early ones and it has been negative right up until the day I was due on! So trying my hardest to not to test!
Gutted for you it wasn't this month I can't imagine the emotions you felt but it will happen holding out hope for you!! Thanks

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ArjaD · 14/09/2020 11:29

@natnev ooooooh I'm keeping everything crossed!

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natnev · 14/09/2020 09:09

Morning ladies, hope you've all had a fab weekend.
AF still hasn't shown up, but I've managed to misplace my CB tests! So I'm away to buy some more soon 😬 the anticipation is always the worst part. Will update you all soon x

Emmaa124 · 13/09/2020 14:27

@ArjaD aww bless you thank you and aww I bet it's so stressful it's horrible playing the waiting game but it'll be worth it in the end ❤️

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ArjaD · 13/09/2020 13:52

@Emmaa124 aw I just know you'll be just fine, wee baby will be happy and healthy!
I'm not too bad. Up and down a bit mentally. But I'm also trying to potty train my toddler which is stressful itself. 🙄 He gets so hyper and trying to talk to him is just impossible sometimes.

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Emmaa124 · 13/09/2020 13:43

@ArjaD how are you doing at the moment

Emmaa124 · 13/09/2020 13:42

Good and I'm really good at the moment enjoying every day as it comes so glad I've finally got my 3+ on clear blue and all my dye stealing tests😊 can't wait to hear that you've got a BFP ❤️

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ArjaD · 13/09/2020 13:39

@Emmaa124 will do! How are you? X

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Emmaa124 · 13/09/2020 13:31

@ArjaD ooo do keep us updated with everything ❤️

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ArjaD · 13/09/2020 13:09

@Jaysdream7 aw hope it's not af showing her face!
It's nice to see you all chatting away 😁
Af is almost at an end for me, so gearing up for the ovulation testing again. Oh joy of joys..... 🙄

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Sansa87 · 13/09/2020 13:03

@natnev yesss just don’t know whether to go for 8 weeks instead of 7. I’m roughly around 6 weeks atm.

How is your head now? Hope you’re feeling bettter

natnev · 13/09/2020 12:57

@Sansa87 absolutely it's better, but be kind to yourself and remember it's ok to say it's also shit 🤣 are you booking an early scan?

Sansa87 · 13/09/2020 12:53

Oooh really @natnev I’m going to the supermarket after work, so I’ll look out for them.

Getting waves of nausea, definitely more than during the mmc. Trying to remember this is a good sign, & better than all my symptoms going.

natnev · 13/09/2020 12:46

@Sansa87 best get used to it Grin a lovely bump will be coming soon! I found some of those cooling packs you can use for headaches on the boobs helped a bit with the ache! Do you have any nausea yet?

Sansa87 · 13/09/2020 11:38

@natnev sorry, I described it badly. I don’t have any infection, my the heaviness, and ouchyness of my boobs almost feels like the same heavy weight you get with a chest infection.

I was a size 6 in June... these are my size 8 work trousers. I did not sign on for weight gain this early 😅

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natnev · 13/09/2020 11:18

I'm 32 @Jaysdream7 but had my first two children at 23&24. Have been trying casually for about 18 months now after a very bad miscarriage (haemorrhaged and had to have surgery). Since then I haven't been able to even fall pregnant.
@Sansa87 that doesn't sound good Sad are you on antibiotics?

Sansa87 · 13/09/2020 11:04

@Jaysdream7 my mum has me at 21, and my youngest brother at 42. She did have a mc either side of him, but her pregnancy with him was plain sailing.

I’m back at work after a week off, and mannnn I’m exhausted.

My boobs hurt a. Lot. I feel like I’ve been punched, & have a chest infection, though the chest infection pain is in the boobs instead of the chest, & I have no cough... I don’t know if that makes sense

Jaysdream7 · 13/09/2020 10:26

Is it too rude to ask your age please. I’m 40 so really worried. I really think mine is AF as I have had BFN. Can only pray. Once she’s here In full force I head forward with positivity for second cycle xxx

natnev · 13/09/2020 10:22

@Jaysdream7 ah noooo, that's such a pain. I wish falling pregnant was as easy as they made it out to be in school 😆 we are supposed to be having an appointment with fertility doctors at some point, but with the pandemic lord knows what'll happen. I fell pregnant so easily in my 20's, now it's just not happening. Fingers crossed your spotting may be implantation bleeding 🤞🏻

Jaysdream7 · 13/09/2020 09:16

Morning. I could see it slightly too although think AF is starting this am as slight spotting. Feel like she’s about to show herself. Good luck to you xxx

natnev · 13/09/2020 09:10

@Jaysdream7 I can definitely see a faint line on your cb test. Could you get a digital one to be sure?
AF is definitely evil, although still not turned up yet. Have decided to test tomorrow if she is still a no show 😬

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ArjaD · 12/09/2020 12:48

@Jaysdream7 I agree, I don't trust the blue dye ones at all. But having said that, I fhor a false positive on a pink one this month so who still knows 😔
Congrats @Littlebee1990 and @Sansa87 on the great progress progress! 🎉🎉💪
@natnev aw hope youu feel better soon. Af is such a witch.

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Emmaa124 · 12/09/2020 12:08

I used to get faint lines on cb's too to the point I only trusted red dyes till I got bfp then I'd use clear blue I think some women's body's just respond different to different test but I hope it is a positive for you though try re testing in a few days x

Jaysdream7 · 12/09/2020 12:04

Ladies can you help me. Tested today 12 dpo got negative with first response and then this super faint on cb? Can you see it? Will retest in couple days. Don’t think it’s anything x

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