CSG (Thread 3)

@Elakiya well hubby and I are into photography so want to go see Old Man of Storr, Fairy Pools, Castle Dunvegan, the Coral beach, the massive waterfalls and then ask the locals what other beautiful places there are that are hidden gems as I think there are loads. It looks so breathtaking I cannot wait to go.

@PinkRoseFlower hey!!! Thanks for checking in gosh 8dpo already, wow time is just flying by. You have been too busy to symptom spot lol. Good luck with the move.

@Elakiya hahaha thats why I gave up because it helped me nothing. I was doing it at 8pm every night and never matched what Google said I should be based on where I was in my cycle it made me mad I thought I was pg one month because it was high and medium right until AF showed Dr Google just lied to me hahahah. Cant wait to see your LH tests hahah

@Elakiya NO! I refuse to believe that even with cramps that its a definitive conclusion you are out!!

@Elakiya yeah same time everyday because your cervix moves throughout the day the only way to confirm if its changing from day to day is to do it the exact same time everyday (not on the days you BD or are aroused because sex moves it about as does being in the mood) and once you have about 2 or 3 cycles of data you will be able to see whats normal for you or not.

I stopped because it never did what was normal checked it last night and it was high and soft and I am like you are literally excreeting red juices why are you so high and soft whahahaha!! But my cervix is clearly abnormal 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@Elakiya of course you were just a small child yourself you wouldn't have understood the loss. Awww I truly hope you get your bfp hun thank you for sharing with us. Must have been so tough on your family even if you weren't yet able to understand the loss.

Did it rise before ovulation? Have you been checking it at the same time everyday (excluding days of BD and arousal as that could make it go higher)

If you have then its a really good sign that its high now after ovulation. Lets hope it stays high!! Wow that would be amazing if it stays up all the time.

@Boc86 at least you're literally on the last haul that's great news. Then after the cleaning its just sorting out isn't it.

@Boc86 hey how is the move going? Are you finished moving and just unpacking or not yet??

Well done on not wanting to know gender you guys are so strong hahah.

@Kaybobx I will be watching YouTube videos on how to tell the difference on the doppler lol obviously!! obviously will be going for a lot of scans, I only looked at the price of the 4d scans which were £80 or £90 cant remember now lol so possibly the standard scans are cheaper and will most definitely be doing them frequently lol. But in the weeks of no scans I will be using a doppler (I know you don't like them @snapple21 sorrrryyyy in advance hahahah) I understand completely your obsession I will be exactly the same 🤣🤣

@Elakiya awww I am so sorry to hear that, must have been an absolutely brutal experience I cant even begin to understand that kind of pain. It must be part of your soul being taken away from you. Just too sad. Yeah for me I need to know. Hubby feels exactly the same way the two of us are on the exact same page when it comes to the testing.

@Welliedays we are all different you do what's best for you. If not knowing is better for you then you do that girl!! You know yourself and what's best 💜💜.
Because chromosomal issues run in my family I need to know for sure if our baby will have it or not. The NIPT Harmony test is very expensive about £400 but for us its vital to know. The scans are about £80 which is affordable to us to help my anxiety. I would go for our first scan at 7weeks or so just to hear the heartbeat and know our bean is OK.

@snapple21 its definitely possible didn't you say you usually always peak in the evening? Which means if you peak tonight the monitor will say so in the morning.

@Elakiya wow you and @Welliedays are just awesome hahaha! I cant be waiting that long my patience is extremely limited. I like things to happen now hence me already saying I will be paying for private scans cant be waiting 10 million years for the first scan on the NHS lol!!! I need to hear that heartbeat like ASAP lol!! My anxiety wouldn't handle the unknown one bit. I am truly envious of you two that are so super chilled. I am even going to do a harmony test at 10 weeks because my sister is special needs so will be learning the gender from then already 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Wow that is super interesting I had no idea that you did that. That must be super fun that the whole family gets involved!! Can understand you not wanting to pick out names for both genders with every letter of the alphabet lol!!!