CSG (Thread 3)

@candycrush2298 it sounds the absolute perfect way to do it, and you're calling it sex not BD! This is exactly what you need, just enjoy yourself no pressure and have fun 😊

Absolutely looking forward to our break. It can't come soon enough! Although if im pregnant i cant go in the hot tub but i don't care! I'll sit on the grass in the cold and watch hubby haha!!
I did have a weird random thought, i could do a gender reveal by throwing a coloured bath bomb in the tub 🤣🤣🤣 .... aware i would need to actually get pregnant first 🙈

@NamechangeTTC yeah sounds promising but also getting BFNs lol. We will literally be pregnant at pretty much the same date, we can do this!!! Positive thoughts

@candycrush2298 absolutely pray that never happens to any of us too!

Ooo exciting! So you are just going all natural with your body and going with the flow. Sounds perfect. Hopefully the break is just what your body needed too.

The lodge with hot tub is incredible! We went for Christmas last year but was already booked for this year so we took new years for 3 days instead. Its literally in the middle of nowhere just surrounded by sheep, absolute bliss 👌🏻

@Kaybobx pulling sounds so positive! I had pain on the left rather than the right which isn’t my normal and my boobs feel different but bfn says differently!

@candycrush2298 thats the best thing you could of said. Life is so cruel at times.
I guess you won't know how you will react unless it happens, It's hard because you'd want to try straight away as as we know it can take years but the thought of it happening again would haunt me.

Whos left from those that took soy this cycle now?
I'm trying not to say too much because i don't want to get excited then get BFNs but i feel different. Like my cramps arent cramps it feels different i can't even explain it. More like pulling! I dont know, just clinging onto hope! 🤣🤣

Glad you're having a fab time away. We are going to a hot tub in Worcester for New Years so that will mostly consist of walks and board games too.

I’m a child after 3 stillbirths (I think. I actually don’t know weeks as my mum still can’t talk about them but I know 3 visible pregnancies and labours) and the offer to not hide this and talk is huge.

@Elakiya thats rubbish!!! But glad you are happy 😊 thats all that matters.

@candycrush2298 yeah im good thank you, hows your day been?

Oh gosh you wasn't to know, don't beat yourself up about it. Unfortunately these things just happen. All you can do is just be there to listen, she may not want to speak about it so just let her lead the conversation. Poor woman though! So sad

I don’t think there’s much you can say except offer to be there and listen, let her tell you how shit it is and don’t just offer platitudes (“it’ll be ok” etc).

Dog keeps hugging my tummy and I’m like 👀👀👀👀

@Kaybobx She's arrived, well I don't know whether to count it as Day 1 (because it's brown blood and I have less than a teaspoon amount of it) but if I don't count until Bright red blood then tomorrow morning is AF.

I'm okay dw. I am actually surprisingly happy at the moment hahahaha

@Welliedays good luck for your midwife appointment.

@Elakiya still hoping she doesn't show!!

@snapple21 i hope your AF stays away too! I drink all the time, dont worry lol.

@NamechangeTTC im sure you shared a positive post this morning about the days to get a BFP lol. You're not out yet.

Not necessarily @namechangettc, you know that it quite possibly won't from the thing you shared earlier! I'd say between 12 and 14dpo it should show, but not at 10dpo

10 so it should show.

Thanks @elakiya and @namechangettc

How many dpo are you @namechangettc

Zilch.

Hope you’re ok wellie

I’ve caved and wasted a frer. I just want any fucking line.

@candycrush2298 I’m wiping blood now so she’ll be here in full flow tomorrow. I am still happy though. 30 day cycle plus an 11 day LP. Just need to sort my eating out and we’ll get there 😁

@Welliedays good luck with the midwife appointment and hope you start feeling better soon

Sorry for the radio silence, I've hardly left my bed the whole weekend, been so lethargic and feeling constantly sick (still haven't been though) and had some mild cramping where my ovaries are on and off. I'm hoping the nausea will wear off soon, it's getting quite tiring! No idea how the MIL hasn't worked it out yet, I've not seen her all weekend and I normally see her quite a lot. Just over 7 weeks now I think. First midwife appointment next week. Dreamt I lost the baby last night, that was fun 🙄

Happy birthday for yesterday @candycrush2298 @reginaaphlange

Went back to bed. Woke up feeling like I’ve got a stitch. Feeling pretty certain we’re out again and just not sure how long I can face this!