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TTC after MC - Aug/Sept 2020 (Thread 12)

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VP91x · 27/08/2020 20:32

Evening all 💕

BFP list

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@Niisa
@fafi
@2020wish
@Rebecca1992
@Beesy90
@Pugprincess
@IWM20
@Lollol86


@VP91x
@MrsK21
@MichT4
@Hayley19835
@HE88
@Rainbowhope11
@Diorissimo1985
@Rb486
@Northernsoul90
@Firevie
@chloedancer897
@Happyvibes
@Bl0ndi3
@eclipsechips
@Will867
@Jazper
@susiebluebell
@Cici89
@Fingerscrossedfor2021HK
@ladysamee
@Sully84
@LAcain
@gizmo167

If anyone else would like to join please do.

Xx

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VP91x · 09/09/2020 07:11

@Firevie yes, I can imagine. Although nice to have a stress free TWW. My temps have dropped a bit today, so if they don't go back up then maybe I won't need to test xx

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Firevie · 09/09/2020 07:08

@VP91x yay fingers crossed for Friday! And thanks for the explanation re high temps. Guess they will drop in couple of days as not long to go until predicted af - finally, I just want to move on to my next cycle now. Xx

VP91x · 09/09/2020 06:57

@Bl0ndi3 are you temping? I'm probably going to test on Friday at 9dpo. I'm an early tester not going to pretend to try and wait 😂.

@Dizzy201 congrats! I hope those lines keep getting stronger for you, 💕

@MinnieMouse4 I hope you get a good line or a positive on the CBD. Would be fab!! Thank you xx

@Pugprincess have you had a CV test? Did she get tested? Hopefully all is okay, I'm sure they are being safe. Are you able to do anything from home if it comes to it? Xx

@Sully84 I know it isn't any comfort whilst you're waiting for AF, but alot of us on here have experienced irregular cycles post MC. It might be things settling if you are still getting negatives.

@Firevie thank you hun, your temps should be high anyway it's the progesterone that keeps them high which is why if you are pregnant they stay high past your normal luteal phase. Once the progesterone drops to prepare for AF your temps will drop xx

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Firevie · 09/09/2020 06:48

@VP91x**@Lollol86@Northernsoul90@MichT4@Wishingfornumber2@Sully84@Pugprincess thanks all for your understanding! We haven’t talked about it since so I hope OH doesn’t bring it up anymore.@familybythesea
@VP91x all sounds promising. Fingers crossed for you this month
@Pugprincess what a milestone. Here’s to a happy 9 months!!
@michT4 yay to the referral! 30 sept not long to go
Werirdly enough my temps are still on the high😒 af predicted Saturday on premom and Monday on FF. I just want to have af now but I’m puzzled by my high temps but not pg as we didn’t have sex in FW or anywhere near my ovulation date. We dtd 4 days after ovulation lol 🤣🤣🤣

Sully84 · 09/09/2020 03:22

Morning all

@Firevie I agree that you need to do what feels right for you, it’s not selfish, it’s self preservation. Hope you husband is ok to go on his own x

@Dizzy201 exciting news, keeping everything crossed for you.

@DBTJ glad everything is going well, hope you can relax and start enjoying it now x

@MinnieMouse4 I feel like I can see a faint line so really hope it progresses, how many days late are you now?

I’m all over the place at the moment, went to bed early with a headache and now been woken up with weird pulling pain in right side at the back. Not intense but enough to wake me up. Day 37 and still no AF.

Pugprincess · 09/09/2020 01:23

Hi everyone 👋🏻 Sorry been busy with work then jobs at home and falling asleep early lol. I’m awake now cause I napped on sofa from early 😂😅 don’t think there’s been a night I haven’t fallen asleep on sofa. Thanks for asking @VP91x I’m ok, just worrying about school and covid tho, not sure if I already said but waiting to hear about a girl in our class who’s relative has tested positive. I’m wearing my visor and doing lots of hygienic practices. Not seen the girl since last weds so a week tomorrow. I’m 8 weeks tomorrow so that’s a milestone as lost the last one at 8 weeks last time.

@MinnieMouse4 I see the lines on both tests too 🤞🏻🤞🏻 For progression.

@Dizzy201 🤞🏻🤞🏻 For progression on your lines too, congratulations 🥳

@DBTJ great to hear baby and you are well 💖

@Firevie don’t think you are being selfish at all ❤️

@Bl0ndi3 welcome to the 30s club and hope you had a great time celebrating xx

Hope everyone else is well. Xxx

Dizzy201 · 08/09/2020 21:56

Thanks 😊
@MichT4 just a few huuuge spots and a gippy with nasty smells 🤣🙈

@MinnieMouse4 wow exciting 👏

Excuse me if im quiet while I try to catch up on the thread 🤣

Northernsoul90 · 08/09/2020 21:54

@MinnieMouse4 I can see faint lines on all the pics 🤞🏼🤞🏼 xx

@MichT4 Great news about the referral!! I bet you feel a bit of a weight has been lifted xx

@VP91x Really hope this cycle is the one for you xx

@Dizzy201 That's amazing!! Congratulations! Xxx

MinnieMouse4 · 08/09/2020 21:36

@VP91x thank you for that information. It’s good to know. I have 2 CBDs and 3 Tesco cheapies (1 dip and one pee on a stick). I think I will try the cheapies for a few days and finish off with a CBD at the weekend. I have my fingers crossed for you this month too and am sending lots of baby dust your way for a BFP soon! Xx

@MichT4 I’m so glad there are others here who see the line too. The CB test I did also had a v faint line but not enough really to be able to see on a photo. I will attach the best one I have but I’m not expecting anyone to be able to see it - it could just be my eyes willing it to be there lol! I showed OH both tests and he can’t see any lines on either and when I tried to point them out he made a comment that he can’t see anything that’s not there and it really hit a nerve with me. Xx

@Dizzy201 that is fantastic news! Congratulations 🥳 xx

TTC after MC - Aug/Sept 2020 (Thread 12)
Wishingfornumber2 · 08/09/2020 21:28

@VP91x they didn’t say when I will get the results, not too sure how long to expect really. I have a good feeling for you for this month, have everything crossed for you!

@DBTJ that’s great your scan went well. Hope you can start to enjoy it.

@Firevie you are not being selfish, you need to think of yourself in situations like this. Especially as you wouldn’t be able to just pop home if it all got too much.

MichT4 · 08/09/2020 21:26

@Dizzy201 wow congratulations! Just shows how a bit of relaxation can help. So happy for you! Any other symptoms?

@Bl0ndi3 sounds fabulous. Can't wait to take Loki to the beach. Sounds like you had a wonderful celebration xx

Dizzy201 · 08/09/2020 21:21

Hi ladies I was in the thread back in June, nice to see lots of BFP, sooo sorry for all the losses, I have lots of reading to do to get up to date. I completely gave up trying around the time I would have been due after my missed misscarrige, no ovulation tests or tracking and haven't even been TTC, due AF in a few days but have had very tender breasts- just did a test and got a faint positive!!! Eeek, im 41 so not out of the woods yet cos of age and previous history but 🤞 for sticky bean x

Bl0ndi3 · 08/09/2020 21:18

@VP91x aw thank you 🥰🥰 oooh exciting there's a few of us around similar time so I don't feel totally alone with the symptom spotting obsession haha! When do you plan on testing? X

I did check my CM and there's quite a lot and it's kinda thin but with little globs or almost EWCM type stuff lol sorry

@MichT4 thank you honey I did yes we went to the beach with the dogs and then I went out for dinner and cocktails and definitely didn't hold back hahaha

TTC after MC - Aug/Sept 2020 (Thread 12)
TTC after MC - Aug/Sept 2020 (Thread 12)
VP91x · 08/09/2020 21:11

@Lollol86 oh no, hopefully omce you're in second tri it will ease up a bit and you won't feel so rotten. Are the girls enjoying being back?

Yeah not bad!! Wishing the rest of this wait away haha xx

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MichT4 · 08/09/2020 20:48

@MinnieMouse4 I can see a line too. I'd definitely test again using a different brand maybe in a couple of days. Fingers crossed for you 🤞🏼

@Firevie I don't think you are being selfish. It would be hard enough facing that when you can escape and run home, but travelling all that way to be uncomfy and sad - not worth it. Stick to what feels right for you, I'm sure OH will understand.

@Bl0ndi3 happy 30th for yesterday. Did you have a lovely day?

@DBTJ that's so great that everything looked good on your scan. I can't believe how fast time is going, although I'm sure it doesn't feel it to you! Seems to have come round so fast.

@VP91x fingers crossed these non symptom spotting items are all symptoms to spot 🤪. Really hope this cycle is the one

I got my referral through ladies, unbelievably for the 30th September. Couldn't believe it but looking forward to getting some help and guidance xx

Lollol86 · 08/09/2020 20:47

@VP91x apart being exhausted I'm ok. I'm finding the kids going back really hard as I'm
having to log on early to get some work done, then do the school run and work right up until it's pick up time again 😴
How are you doing? Xx

VP91x · 08/09/2020 20:42

@Lollol86 thank you 😘 how are you? X

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Lollol86 · 08/09/2020 20:38

@VP91x really hoping this is your month 🤞🏻 xx

VP91x · 08/09/2020 20:19

Little update on me - CD19/6dpo. Symptom spotting a tiny bit. Getting a stitch like pain on my left ovary area. CM is still creamy and temps are on the up. Have everything crossed in case something has happened this cycle. Hope everyone else is good too x

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VP91x · 08/09/2020 19:45

@Wishingfornumber2 Ooh, I'm glad your BT went fine! When do you get the results?x

@HappyVibes sounds like you've got lots of nice treats to look forward to. I hope you are feeling better today, especially after your appointment where you got some clear next steps xx

@Sully84 I think the wellbeing fertility scans are so bloody useful, I have had two now and they have been really helpful. I'd recommend if you are in a position to get one, the sonographer goes through everything with you and then you have the report to take away if anything comes up and you want to take it to the GP. Great that you will get day21 bloods x

@chloedancer897 I'm so glad that you are taking some more relaxed time for yourself - the massage sounds fab I hope you enjoy! You won't be here alone, it will do you the world of good to just step back from it and all the restrictions. Obviously you'll be aware of FW etc. I hope your OH is okay too xx

@familybythesea day 21 bloods, definitely push for them. Day 3 are no use without them. Did you speak to them?x

@HopeForRainbowbaby how have you been getting on? I hope you are okay xx

@Pugprincess how are you? xx

@MinnieMouse4 I can see a really faint line on that test, the clearblue digi week indicator tests are their most sensitive at 10miu. The clearblue early testers are 25miu which makes no sense, but there we are, haha! xx

@Bellabubble that is handy that you get a prediction as well as a confirmation. You definitely covered yourself well. I was saying above that the clearblue week indicators are 10miu so if you are going to use them then go for that one. If you are going to get a private scan definitely get a wellbeing/fertility/pelvic scan every clinic calls them something different. They will check your ovaries/uterus/lining/general area they will be able to tell you if they see any structural problems and if you go at the right time they can confirmation ovulation if you go pre ovulation they can tell you where you are likely to ovulate from and when if you go a few days before :) xx

@Bl0ndi3 happy 30th! Glad you had a fab time. I'm a day behind you do 6dpo today and the symptom spotting has begun, haha.

@Firevie I don't think you are being selfish, he probably walked away because he didn't know what to say. Also, he probably wants to go. Would he go by himself? You have every right to not want to be in that situation and he needs to respect your feelings on this. As adults we sometimes put ourselves in really uncomfortable situations emotionally to protect others and it isn't fair on our mental health. It is okay to say no! xx

@DBTJ Brilliant news that all is well with your little baby and wow in the second trimester that has gone quickly. I'm sorry you were probably suffering in silence. Lots of love to you x

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Bl0ndi3 · 08/09/2020 19:35

@KatiePlus3 I would say you probably ovulated on cd14 as I'm sure you ovulate around 24 hours after a peak OPK? I got peak on CBD on cd27 and then a peak OPK on cd28 so I'm working on ovulation being CD29 :) xx

Lollol86 · 08/09/2020 19:32

@Firevie you are definitely not being selfish, you do what's best for you lovely: I'm so sorry you are having a bad day. Take each day as it comes and before you know it you will have that bfp xx

KatiePlus3 · 08/09/2020 19:21

@Bl0ndi3 cycle twins indeed! I've never actually done this before with OPKs, I've only ever just gone by a phone app, this is my first cycle using the kits. I havent been temping etc, I will do that next cycle if no luck this time. So I had a positive OPK at 11am on the 30th august which was cycle day 13 and it faded the next morning so roughly when would I have ovulated? Xx

Northernsoul90 · 08/09/2020 19:06

@HappyVibes Great news that your appointment went well - everything sounds very reassuring. Hopefully you won't need it in another 3 months anyway! Xx

@SmileyT Amazing news!! 🥰 yes definitely start to relax and enjoy! Xx

@Bl0ndi3 Happy birthday! I hope you had an amazing time celebrating 🥳 xx

@Firevie No you aren't being selfish! I would the feel the same! Xx

@DBTJ Brilliant news!! Wishing you a healthy and happy second and third trimester 🥰 xx

@RichmondLady1981 I think you tagged the wrong person with the comment about tests for progesterone 😊... how are you getting on? What cycle day are you now? Sorry I forget as so many are on the chat. Cd 4 for me today so nothing interesting to report 🤣 xx

RichmondLady1981 · 08/09/2020 18:33

@Firevie that’s totally understandable!

Agreed it’s not the best time to travel anyway is it so you could blame the Whole situation.

Have a nice evening. X

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