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TTC after MC - Aug/Sept 2020 (Thread 12)

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VP91x · 27/08/2020 20:32

Evening all 💕

BFP list

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@Niisa
@fafi
@2020wish
@Rebecca1992
@Beesy90
@Pugprincess
@IWM20
@Lollol86


@VP91x
@MrsK21
@MichT4
@Hayley19835
@HE88
@Rainbowhope11
@Diorissimo1985
@Rb486
@Northernsoul90
@Firevie
@chloedancer897
@Happyvibes
@Bl0ndi3
@eclipsechips
@Will867
@Jazper
@susiebluebell
@Cici89
@Fingerscrossedfor2021HK
@ladysamee
@Sully84
@LAcain
@gizmo167

If anyone else would like to join please do.

Xx

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Peblet · 10/09/2020 21:29

Thanks ladies ☺️

@MinnieMouse4 that’s great, it’s comforting to know that things are back to ‘normal’ isn’t it!
Exciting and anxious times ahead!

Lollol86 · 10/09/2020 21:17

@Bl0ndi3 I'm 7+5 weeks. I can definitely see a second line 🤞🏻 xx

@Peblet so sorry for your loss, welcome to this thread xx

@MichT4 im ok thank you just really tired and sore boobs, but I welcome any symptoms. How are you doing, no af yet? Xx

MinnieMouse4 · 10/09/2020 21:17

@Sully84 ah okay. That must have been awful just before Christmas. I’m so sorry to hear that. Hopefully after your last cycle everything has reset itself ready for your rainbow baby xx

@Bl0ndi3 there is absolutely still time and hopefully some symptoms will appear soon! I can definitely see a faint line and I remember having a similar line on one of those tests when I was PG! I have everything crossed for some good line progression! Xx

@Peblet welcome to the thread and sorry to hear about your loss. My first AF post MC arrived yesterday after a 36 day wait! I’m ready to try again this month. Fingers crossed AF arrives speedy for you xx

@familybythesea I am so sorry to hear you had to go through that with your GP receptionist. Some of them can really be so cold. I would complain either through the practice manager or PALS! I remember my GP receptionist put the phone down on me on the day I started MC bleeding because I couldn’t use their online system! I was furious! I agree with @MichT4 that they shouldn’t be allowed to give information out like that and in that manner. Hopefully you get to speak to your GP soon! Xx

Update from me - CD2 and I am so much more relaxed than I was a few days ago. I’m happy I have an answer now that AF has arrived and I know I can get on with SMEP next week. Are there any other ladies in a similar stage of their cycle that wouldn’t mind buddying up with me? Xx

Dizzy201 · 10/09/2020 20:42

@MichT4 I did one this morning and the line is thicker but still faint, my boobs have grown a cup size already, am very tired and going to the toilet loads, gonna do a first response type on Saturday morning but I think its gonna be positive again, just hope it stays positive this time. Hope you get some good news once you have been to your appointment 😊

Firevie · 10/09/2020 20:32

@familybythesea oh no that sounds awful! What an idiot! Hope you get to speak to your doctor tmr. And you should def complain! Xxx

Sully84 · 10/09/2020 20:14

@familybythesea that receptionist doesn’t sound good at all, I would definitely bring it up with the doctor or email the surgery. Do you have an appointment with your doctor to explain your results?

Bl0ndi3 · 10/09/2020 20:06

Thanks all glad it's not just me but it's too early for me to get carried away, terrified of it being a chemical so I'll test again tomorrow and see how I go.

If I get another line tomorrow I will order some FRER I think x

MichT4 · 10/09/2020 19:52

@Peblet sorry for your loss and welcome to the group. I hope AF arrives for you soon so you can have a fresh new cycle

@Bl0ndi3 I can see a line! At 9dpo it's probably just faint. Ooh exciting, hope it progresses for you.

@Lollol86 how lovely! I hope it all goes well. How are you feeling?

@Dizzy201 have you taken any more tests? How are the lines?

@familybythesea I'm so sorry for your receptionist experience. That's awful. I'd definitely complain. Receptionist have no right to give information like that over the phone with no context. I don't know what the numbers mean but I'd ask for a doctor to call you tomorrow to discuss

familybythesea · 10/09/2020 19:43

I was wondering if anyone here is knowledgeable about the GP tests? I have been rambling on about how I'm worried I had mine too early and got my results today. The woman on reception who gave them to me was just awful, her actual words were: 'Here they are...oh yes, you're showing as perimenopausal. And you're 37. Oh dear, that's not good is it? Your FSH level is very high.' My heart dropped and I hardly knew what to say back. Anyway, the only results she had were FSH 2.4 and LH 4.9. After googling I can't work out how this is high? And shouldn't they have tested some other things too? I feel so lacking in confidence that I'm in good hands - trying not to be upset about it but I just feel so anxious. Any words of wisdom very welcome!

Peblet · 10/09/2020 19:42

Thank you, same to you all 😘

@Bl0ndi3 I see a line xx

familybythesea · 10/09/2020 19:37

@Peblet Hello and sorry for your loss. I hope you're doing ok.

@Bl0ndi3 I can see a line :) I hope very much it's the BFP you're waiting for.

familybythesea · 10/09/2020 19:31

@Firevie that's great that you already have the progesterone - hopefully that does the trick for you! :)

Dizzy201 · 10/09/2020 19:29

@Peblet sorry for your loss 😔 welcome to the group and hope you get a pregnancy that sticks soon x

@Bl0ndi3 I can def see a line, could just be faint as its early? Could be worth testing again and if you get the same maybe track results over a few days or get another brand?

Bl0ndi3 · 10/09/2020 18:55

Is it worth using same urine to test again to check it's not just a false one or will they be same batch so same problem if it is a fault?

Bl0ndi3 · 10/09/2020 18:54

OK SO I UNCHARACTERISTICALLY CAVED for no apparent reason but anyways.... line eyes please.....

I never test so early because I'm scared of a chemical and getting my hopes up I think the pressure of first AF after MC got me me perhaps....

TTC after MC - Aug/Sept 2020 (Thread 12)
Sully84 · 10/09/2020 18:51

@Peblet welcome and sorry that you have had to join here. Hope you are doing ok x

Bl0ndi3 · 10/09/2020 18:49

@Peblet of course you can join and welcome.

So very sorry for your loss 💜💜💜💜

Peblet · 10/09/2020 18:47

Evening guys,

Am I okay to join this thread? Had a missed miscarriage on 17/8 at 11 weeks, decided to wait for AF before trying again which should be next week if my body is doing it’s thing, but who knows! 🤞🏻

Best of luck to all those testing 😘

Bl0ndi3 · 10/09/2020 18:34

@Lollol86 aww how exciting 🥰 how far along are you?

I think there's a few testing this weekend, myself included (9dpo today)
😘

Lollol86 · 10/09/2020 18:29

Hey how is everyone getting on? Anyone testing in the next few days?

I have my first midwife appointment next week. Feeling very anxious xx

Bl0ndi3 · 10/09/2020 18:24

I should also add I am exhausted today I could've napped on my lunch!

However I wake up at 3:30-4:30 most nights needing a wee so I never get a full night of unbroken sleep - been this way since I was pregnant last cycle 👀🤷🏼‍♀️🙄 so it's could be that but I feel completely drained and it could be a symptom

Bl0ndi3 · 10/09/2020 18:21

Quick update from me

9dpo and cramps but I've had cramps more or less everyday since ovulation day 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️
When I got BFP last cycle I had slightly tender boobs at 9dpo which was odd for
me as normally get them later in cycle and I've been having a good old grope today hahaha and no tenderness so I'm a little disheartened.

Will test on Sunday with IC not wasting my money on anything more expensive until I've seen a line on a cheapie first haha I've got 5 so I will keep testing until AF due date as well.

@VP91x ah okay I'm rubbish at temping but your chart looks very perfect to me so fingers crossed!! Tests tomorrow still?

Pugprincess · 10/09/2020 17:06

@Firevie yes I always waited for the full flow to count day 1 XX

Update from me-risk assessment done ✅ xxx

Hope you are all well xx

Sully84 · 10/09/2020 16:45

@MinnieMouse4 i had my MC in November (surgery December), since then my cycles have varied between 26 and 31 days (pre MC they were always 28 days). My last period was really light bleeding for 10 days that I thought was an anovulatory cycle (never had a period like it before). So a bit confusing at the moment.

@Dizzy201 fingers crossed for the next test Smile

Firevie · 10/09/2020 15:07

@familybythesea many thanks for this insight! Wishing you all the best and hopefully you’ll have a fertilised egg implant soon!!! I have progesterone tablets from my OBGYN which she said I should start using on the day of ovulation but I didn’t this time as I hadn’t dtd with OH in my FW anyway but will take them next time xxx

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