TTC after MC - Aug/Sept 2020 (Thread 12)

@MichT4 so sorry you didn’t have better news yesterday
@Pugprincess good luck for your scan today. We might even have the same due date!

@MichT4 sounds like a sensible plan!
Yep still have to isolate once I’m back next week but that’s proving quite good actually so means I can home office for two more weeks before ging back to the office 2/3 times a week xxx

@HappyVibes Yeah it is really dark - very gripping though! Love the quote you posted 🥰 thank you for posting it xx

@2020wish Great news on your scan and that baby is doing so well 💖 I bet it was amazing to see them wriggling around! I think that's really positive about the counselling and it's so true what you said about mc and then no medical support - we are just left to deal with it. Xx

@MichT4 It sounds like you have a good plan in place and have a positive outlook which is amazing to hear!! I'm glad you are feeling a bit brighter this morning ❤️ xx

@Firevie he wants to be tested ASAP, but I think he will just go with the flow. I'll have a chat with the insurance co, and see what they say and suggest. I do have an outpatient limit of £1,000 unless I increase my cover first, so I could still end up with a meaty bill. I just wonder whether to leave it to fate and still trust my body will do what it needs to.
It's tricky, I'll just take it all as it comes and see what feels right.
Sometimes it is nice to come back to the normal routine. Do you still have to isolate? xx

@MichT4 do whatever feels right for you. What does OH say/think? Whilst I’m sure it is so hard to not give up hope, in time perhaps you will see that silver lining and a miracle will happen for you when you least expect it! I’m okay thanks, all good. I’ve had a great holiday but now I’m ready to get back to my routine and be back home again with OH! Xxx

Thanks for new thread @VP91x
Just starting FW here.
Will catch up on everything from last thread and new shortly work has been so busy have had no time to catch up xx

@Firevie I just can't keep getting myself down because of things I can't control. It feels like a referral is essential now but it might not find anything, or worse - might find something that can't be fixed. I will welcome tests, but if my healthcare won't cover it, then that's that. I can't be angry over it. I don't want to force it, get into investigations and then they say they won't pay out.
There are lovely stories in here of people carrying their 4th pregnancies, so there's every chance it might happen. And if you're having the investigations, you can't try, so maybe a little more time with a referral in my back pocket is best.
I'm worried they can't look for PCOS because that'll be a wait too, but I can probably get that one done privately as it's not as much.
I just felt exhausted of it yesterday, and I don't want to resent this journey

How are you today? xx

@MichT4 you sound so much better today / I’m really pleased. You are such a strong woman and this attitude of yours just proves it. Def try acupuncture. Mine is in Canary Wharf and quite expensive but if you’d like I can share the info with you along with the info of my private doctor in London just in case you need it xxx

Morning everyone.

I just want to say thank you all so much for your support and lovely messages. You all have a very special place in my heart 🥰

Today is a new day and one to look forward. If my private medical won't help then I will just wait for a referral and keep trying in the meantime. I'd love to get pregnant naturally, just like most people do, with no reference to all the miscarriages, so maybe it's my chance. Obviously if it comes to it, I'll take all the help I can get.
I will try and be more relaxed but will probably keep temping because it's just wearing something at night, and I still don't have a clue when I'll be ovulating - especially now I haven't even bled. So a mindful approach, perhaps with some acupuncture or something. I might also look for private clinics to self fund but not expecting to find any bargains.

@2020wish how lovely you saw your wriggly baby, so happy for you. Sorry about the sickness and anxiety - really glad they are looking after you.

@Pugprincess @SmileyT good luck today girls. Can't wait to hear your updates.

@HappyVibes that little mantra is just lovely. I'll be saving that one

@Diorissimo1985 let us know today how you get on with your results. How is the pinky stuff? And the cramps?

Happy Friday all. So much love to you all xx

Good morning happy Friday!!! Thanks for the new thread xxx

Good morning ladies! Happy Friday! I’m bit bored of counting down cds now lol! Also been having a drink every day - so bad! Look fwd to next week when I’m back home and go tee total again haha! Xxx

@VP91x yes I think it’s some counselling for the anxiety. The sickness actually went away for a whole week then boom it’s back stronger. But it’s reassuring also that things are progressing

How are you? Anymore updates from ur doctors testing?

@VP91x thanks for the new thread

Everyone in the tww good luck and fingers crossed for some BFP!!

@Pugprincess good luck for ur scan today
@SmileyT good luck for ur scan also

@MichT4 allow urself to be upset. U have been through a lot! As some of the others have stated above i was oddly recovered quicker after my third and the more relaxed. Making stop tempting as u know u do ovulate and just opk around peak time? That’s what I did after my third. Hopefully by the time ur referral comes round your rainbow baby will already be on the way

Sorry to anyone that has found themselves on this thread. You will get so much support here

Update from me.. still lurking but sickness has hyped up and feeling mostly too hungover to type.. but I welcome every symptom. I had my 9 week scan yesterday in the epu and the midwife noticed my anxiety and shaking and mindset that I was getting bad news even tho I’ve zero reason to believe something is wrong other than my history (I hadn’t even slept in 24hrs before the scan), so she’s referring me for help and advised I do yoga and meditation. I seen my baby and a video of its wee arms and legs moving about and being very active... couldn’t believe the difference in 3 weeks. She’s told me everything couldn’t be more perfect and I need to enjoy this time. It’s so hard tho as I truely believe having so many loses and no real medical support causes trauma

@MichT4 I'm taking more relaxed approach so far. I'm testing for OV now as it should be any time now but I'm trying not to test for pregnancy until my period is expected. I wouldn't have known about chemical if I didn't test early. On 12 dpo last cycle morning test was negative and I was coming to realization that it is ok if I'm not pregnant this month and I will be a mom in 2021( the test was at the end of positive). But that's how I feel now, it will happen. Sending you lots of love !

@SmileyT good luck to you too!
@VP91x thank you for the new thread 🧵 XX

@SmileyT good luck for your scan tomorrow, keep us updated xx

@MichT4 just caught up on today’s thread and your news. I’m so sorry my love, I have been thinking of you. Hoping you get some follow up soon, I appreciate the waiting is so tough xx

To all you beautiful ladies on here...this is your sign 💫

@SmileyT good luck for your scan tmr hun xx
I loved the fall - watched all of it couple of years ago
@HappyVibes do not cave! You’re so strong you can resist the urge! Xxx

@VP91x I have a feeling you won’t be here much longer lovely! Your support of everyone else on their journey will be bringing you very good things. Xxxx

@VP91x thanks for the. We thread! You’re so so good at keeping it all organised
@MichT4 ahh well I’d love you to come to Austria for your doc appointments but fear that might also eat into your finances 😂😂 I’ll send you the details of my London doc next week as all the details are at home in London
Hope by now you’ve had some time to catch up with oh! Xxx

@Northernsoul90 and @VP91x thanks ladies I've got a plan of action in place so I can relax and hopefully it happens naturally. Xx

@SmileyT good luck with your scan tomorrow is this your 12 week scan? Xx