TTC after MC - Aug/Sept 2020 (Thread 12)

@BEESY90 so sorry you are having to go through this sending love xx

@BEESY90 really sorry to hear this. Look after yourself and we are all here for you xx

@chloedancer897 oh and I should have mentioned I have cb tests at home so will use them for the next cycle! Xxx

@chloedancer897 thank you hun and I know you’re right. Nothing I can do about it now but be ready for my next cd17 lol. And yes I get home on Tuesday at 10am so will dtd straight away xxx

@VP91x still getting about 5hours a night. I can fall asleep ok, it's staying asleep is my problem! I toss and turn all night. I must be a nightmare to sleep beside!lol

@BEESY90 thinking of you. I hope you're ok

@Firevie from your OPKs I would say you had your peak on CD17, don't fret too much. At least doing the temps and OPKs gives you a better idea of your cycle for next time. And you can still DTD on Tuesday anyway, there might still be time! Highly recommend CBD for testing. It's failsafe! I do both because I don't trust my interpretation of the others x

@Pugprincess sorry and yes soll def jump on OH on Tuesday lest of all because I have missed him and need to get some lol xxx

@Pugprincess thank you hun! You’re right! One thing I’ve learnt (buy is so hard when you’re in the situation yourself) is that there’s no point fretting over things you can’t control. And this is just one of them. Even if I had done another OPKS in the evening on cd17 I still would have been here and OH in London so wouldn’t have changed anything. So you’re right I need to snap out of it and be grateful for my body which has recovered from MC so quickly and has reset so I’m ready to conceive and carry a healthy baby! And I need to look forward to and enjoy the spa retreat with my friend. Apparently next fertile window is around the corner / 27september. Also @VP91x can’t believe how accurate YOU were. You told me to start testing early because from my previous stats it looks like I might get my peak ok cd17. You were right :) xxx

@MichT4 is he following you guys everywhere, ours did lol, I wasn’t used to it and found it too much at first. Still does it a lot now but I’m used to it. I found him so clingy at first I remember DH coming home and I was literally rocking back and forth crying having a break down saying he won’t let me do anything on my own 😅😅 must be like what new mums go through lol. When can you take him for walks? X

@Firevie oh no 😣 it’s a pain but there’s just nothing you can do is there 😩 like you say least you are happy to know you are ovulating regularly and will be ready for it next cycle. Still worth getting one in as soon as you get home...Tuesday? What time do you get home?

@BEESY90 thinking of you ❤️🙏🏻🤞🏻

@MichT4 naughty little Loki 😂😂😂 so cute though! I’m sure it will be an adjustment but so nice to think that you have another companion in your life now! We will get a puppy too but we want to move into a house first. So probably next year xxx

@VP91x yeah I thought that. He's a little shite though, clearly OH is his favourite. He's been naughty with me all morning, kept pulling on my pjs and ripped a hole in them. OH got up and he instantly fell asleep at his feet. They are both down here asleep now while I'm awake 😴😂

How are you this morning? xx

@VP91x so FF puts my ovulation day as today and I’ve had a temp dip this morning. I marked cd17 as peak on FF given that’s it’s quite likely that reading was a peak reading. So Ff has put my ovulation date as today but is saying we need the Next three temperatures and if they rise from today’s temp then that will confirm ovulation. I think I have to come to terms with the fact that I may have missed my window this month :( xxx

Morning everyone. Thank you for all the messages about the little monkey yesterday. He's certainly kept us on our toes. He was up a few times in the night, went mental when we put him
In the crate at first but he settled pretty quick. A couple of wee runs in the night 🙄

@Firevie well done for getting all your data in. I must say I do like FF. I'm not entirely sure about ovulation dips, not sure if everyone gets one. But sounds like with your OPKs etc it certainly could be. Are you off to do a sneaky one later? Your spa retreat sounds delightful!

@Pugprincess he's ok, must be strange for him. It's just all new to us, me particularly as OH grew up with dogs. Just hope he's happy!

@BEESY90 I'm so sorry to hear this. Please get to A&E ASAP. When I went with my first MC they sent me straight to the women's health unit and I had blood tests and they checked my cervix. So the wait wasn't long at all. Please keep us updated, and am thinking of you xx

@BEESY90 good luck this morning! Let us know how it goes! Really hope it’s good news !
Temperature 36.20 this morning. It was 36.37 the last three days. Is that my pre ovulation dip? Xxx

@BEESY90 so sorry to hear this is happening. What colour was the spotting before it turned red? Was it dark brown? Watery? Are you in pain? Please keep us updated. Sending my prayers and love xx

@Firevie aw I hope that eggy waits for you 🤞🏻

@MichT4 hello Loki 👋🏻 Lovely name! How’s he settling in? Hope the first night isn’t too unsettled. We had ours in bedroom with us from the start so he never went through the unsettled at night stage. Xx

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Ah I’ve inputted more data incl previous pregnancy test (Date i got a BFP) and miscarriage date (date of ERPC) and it has somehow now adjusted it all. Looks like it has got me down to ovulate tmr:( which is what you ladies have predicted so will see if my temp drops and what my OPKS says once I do it tmr after 12pm. Guessing if I see a temp dip and an even lower OPKS then it’s clear I’ve ovulated and missed my window. Hoping somehow these algorithms have got it wrong and I don’t ovulate until at least Monday xxx

Ladies I’ve now painfully inputted all my date into FF. see chart attached. Strangely enough the fertility window is the same as per my fit bit and my fit bit certainly got it right last time I got pregnant and that was without OPKS and BBT and apps lol. Must admit FF is still confusing me as I’m not sure how it calculates this with just negative OPKS if it’s not a peak as not darker than control line. In premom it gives me a figure which I find easier to read than analysing lines but you guys know better! Also I’m not paying for it so hope it won’t upgrade me ‘automatically’ as some apps do

@BEESY90 Sending love to you, really hope everything's okay! Let us know how you get on tomorrow xx

Ladies that have or are taking coq10 do you take it throughout your full cycle? Xx

@BEESY90 sorry to hear this like the others say definetly get to A&E to get checked out, sending you love. Xx

@SmileyT thanks I might just do it and I put it. All it’s weirdly therapeutic. And I guess we will have a clearer answer tmr xxx

@beesy90 Oh my sorry I totally read your message wrong, sending postive thoughts that all is ok, bleeding can happen in early pregnancy and still be ok. But yeah definitely take care or yourself and speak to the epu tomorrow x

@Firevie if you can't be bothered to input all the data from the beginning just put temps in from CD10 and it'll probably still record temp rise as you haven't had one yet 👌🏾 also with the opks you just need to put negative in for the days up to now and see what it says... I'm with @VP91x that I think FF is great, although premom will probably readjust in a few days if you don't get a higher opk than the CD17 one xx

@BEESY90 oh I'm praying so much that everything is okay in there A&E can make you a referral to EPU as not sure the midwives will before 16weeks. Enjoy your Disney film tonight and please reach out to a friend or family tomorrow for extra support xx