TTC after MC - Aug/Sept 2020 (Thread 12)

Thanks @VP91x I temped at the very beginning of TTC vaginally so I may just do that again. Put as I’m doing vaginally I think I’d prefer to wait off u tik after AF 🤣xx

@Pugprincess congratulations lovely, how beautiful of a Sunday for you. 💓

Ladies who temp without Ava - do you temp orally or vaginally? Also, do you temp throughout AF, or wait for after AF to finish?

I temped are the very start of TTC but I didn’t understand it and was a faf so I gave up, & just stuck with CB digi. Xxxx

@Pugprincess that really is great news! So happy for you xx

@Pugprincess amazing news. Congrats!xo

@Pugprincess oh wow that is amazing news congratulations xx

Amazing news @Pugprincess! So happy for you! xx

@Pugprincess - that’s brilliant news. Bet you are relieved. Enjoy every minute x

Thanks guys the scan went really well! Baby has caught right up. It’s grown 11 days in the past 9! I’m now measuring 7+3 and I think I’m roughly 7+4 today so baby is bigger than the last one now. She could see the arm buds developing ❤️ Really relieved and happy. I’ve booked in again for sat 19th lol. X

I pressed send too quickly! Doh!

@RichmondLady1981 you've definitely not missed the peak! Get going today 💦
Like you pre MC my cycles were bang on 28 days. I had to wait 11 weeks for it to return and now had a 25 day cycle so it's really screwed things up. I'm going to try and get an average over the next few cycles and see what it does.

@HappyVibes so sorry you're having a downer. It's all so hard and all consuming, have you done anything nice just for yourself lately completely unrelated to TTC? Maybe it will help. Glad you're getting somewhere with your referral and gynae though. Hope they are helpful xxx

@Northernsoul90 I totally get what you mean. I made a bit of a conscious effort to DTD outside of FW and also found OH was happier than we did. I think it made him feel less "used" but also I just enjoyed it rather than thinking right hurry up so I can get my legs in the air!

@MichT4 hope you had a lovely day at your sisters yesterday and glad to hear it's getting easier around the family. Sometimes you just need to disconnect a bit from them.

@Pugprincess hope your scan goes ok lovely! X

@Lollol86 so so pleased about your scan! You are definitely pregnant and try to enjoy these next few months xxx

@MichT4 I mustn't have had enough sleep! I'm not sleeping well at all. I'm switching between night and day shift so I think it's throwing me out of whack. I was hoping to see what my temp was like today, whether it went down or not. Oh well! Glad you are enjoying Loki, puppy stages are hard but you'll miss them when the doggy is all grown up. Much like baby times!

@VP91x no temp today so I'm in limbo!lol AF due Tuesday/Wednesday. My DH wouldn't let me buy tests but I have some of the easy@home ones in the cupboard that he doesn't know about... how early can you use them?😂

Thanks lovely @VP91x Absolutely. I’m going to see what they say on Monday & what options they have available to support going forward - is more bloods, scans, etc. I’m going to ask about clomid, HCG & HMG so I know at one point they could be an option for us, if at all. Clomid is often prescribed to women who ovulate too but have unexplained infertility. I’m excited for tomorrow now. ☺️

Glad I have this appointment so timely or I would be struggling this month to get optimism and positivity back in time for FW. Me & OH have agreed not to really talk much about TTC now. Just let me do the OPKs and tracking, & obvs he would know when FW is through that. But other than that we are gunna stop talking about it in general. See how that goes eek xxx

@Tink20058 I just read back over to find your message about your double confirmation of a little girl 💗. Such lovely news. And your bump 💗 makes me melt xx

@HPenthusiast I'm sorry for your loss. Also, CD10 might not be your true peak. If your HCG levels haven't dropped to normal, then ovulation test might pick up HCG hormone and cause false LH surge result. Anyway, please keep testing to track. Good luck!

@Pugprincess. Hope everything goes well for you at the scan x

@RichmondLady1981 I'd normally get tests like yours LH surge starts in the afternoon and I would have about 18hrs of positive readings. Normally I would ovulate the 2nd day (confirmed by temps) but it varies by person, think ovulation can be 12-36hrs after the start of your surge then you have up to 24hrs after ovulation to catch the egg, so 2 and a half days from your 5pm test yesterday which would take you to Early Tuesday morning before you're out of fertile window👌🏾

Welcome to those that have joined sorry for your losses ❤️

It’s probably your peak peak now @RichmondLady1981 think with my cbd you expect to get two days of peaks so I assume it’s the same for those ones? The others will guide you more. I’m confident you haven’t missed it by not doing last night though. Good luck! x

Thanks @Pugprincess.

I’m working hard on trying to track everything but sooo time consuming and I’m not that knowledgeable. I’m guessing that I’d only ovulate AFTER peak on OPK? Which it seems was yesterday. Would be strange for me to have ovulated yesterday when I had a higher LH reading today? What do you think?

Thanks @MichT4. That’s great info on what happened with @VP91x.

Vp91 would you mind sharing what happened. Did you Actually ovulate on second high (peak) day?

Just getting our cycles out to go for a spin around Richmond park. Should blow away the cobwebs.

@Pugprincess keep us updated xx

@MichT4 thank you, for the first time yesterday I actually thought to myself I'm pregnant. Next scan is the 26th of September which based on my lmp I will be 10 weeks. I'm actually going to contact the doctors tomorrow to arrange appointments as I haven't done that yet.
I'm such a lightweight now, I used to be able to drink loads but not anymore. I also find if I have a night out I feel awful for days 😂😂 xx