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Right SMEP.. determined. Anyone else?

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Mich2020 · 20/08/2020 20:42

Hey all
I've been ttc for a long time, I had my lap and dye last week which removed all endo visible and unstuck my left ovary from my tube. My tubes are clear. The horrible bleeding that I had after is coming to an end. I'm very determined to try everything I can this month and the following months if I fail.
I have read about this SMEP and I've heard good things about it.
Today I am CD 5 so I am going to start dtd tonight instead of the recommendation of CD 8. I done an ovulation test today (just for fun) there's a second line but very much not positive so going to keep doing them twice a day until I get my surge. Also have some cb advance ones coming tomorrow.

My question is how many people have used this method and been successful on here? Would love to keep chatting to people through these next 6 months if possible as this is kind of the last hurdle before more fertility tests are taken for both me and my DP xx

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Mich2020 · 03/09/2020 15:57

Hey, I've been working today, DP made me test even though it was going to be negative lol 😂
Yes think we are all due the same time 😊

Yay @Muda that's amazing

I've had a few aches here and there but not too bad. My boobs aren't sore like they usually are.. I don't want to think too much into it. I'm on CD19 today, usually AF comes around 28-29 although last month CD27 but think that was to do with my lap and dye xx

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Bbdm1984 · 03/09/2020 13:00

@itsgood2talk congratulations, when are you due, have you had your scan yet? Thank you so much for letting us know your success story x

itsgood2talk · 03/09/2020 11:33

Just wanted to come on and say I used this plan and am now 13 weeks pregnant. We were trying for 9 months previously and then got pregnant the first month we tried SMEP so I really believe it works. I got my positive OPK on CD13, DTD CD 7/9/11/12/13/14/15. Had cramping pains CD 19/20 then what I though were period pains 3 days before I was due. Did a test 2 days early as I couldn't wait. I really believe this plan worked as so many stories of people being successful. I really hope it works for you too 🤞🏻.

Bbdm1984 · 03/09/2020 10:06

Well so much for me not symptom spotting been to the toilet 3 times in the past 2 hours and boobs at the side (near to my armpit) have started hurting god its going to be a long week i need to stop overthinking

Bbdm1984 · 03/09/2020 10:00

@Muda that is brilliant to see, i am so happy for you.

1940s · 03/09/2020 09:42

Oh so exciting to see @Muda!!

I've given up on pregnancy symptom spotting as I had no symptoms for my first pregnancy. However I'm on AF symptom alert already at 4dpo.

I'm busy this weekend so that helps. Time slows down from 9dpo and that's when I get the urge to test!!

Muda · 03/09/2020 08:50

I took my last test this morning and was pleased to see 3+weeks- no more testing for me now! I hope everyone’s tww goes by quickly. Let us know of any symptoms you spot or don’t. I still don’t have any yet.

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Bbdm1984 · 03/09/2020 08:43

Morning ladies, no i have no plans today @1940s do you? I think i am actually 6dpo today not yesterday; i know i ovulated last thursday? Looks like we are all due af around the same time now. @Mich2020 i only have a cb digital in my bathroom cupboard so will wait till 14th to test if af doesn't arrive. Had 2 very weird stabbing pains yesterday afternoon on my left side then nothing maybe it was just bowel related though and i have stupidly started symptom spotting (i knew i had no willpower not to do it ha)

Hope everyone has a good day xx

Mich2020 · 03/09/2020 08:05

Morning ladies. Sorry missed a whole day yesterday. Had some time at the beach with the kids before my eldest returns to school
Tomorrow. I'm due around the 13th my app says I can test in 7 days. I'm 4dpo roughly today and have lots of ICs so I very much doubt I'll hold out for another 7 days be more like 5 🙈🙈
Hope your all doing okay xx

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1940s · 02/09/2020 16:26

I'm due 11th / 12th September but won't consider myself late until the 15th as much cycles can vary.

I will stop temping at 4dpo. I've had a great temp spike and so I don't get any further validation from analysing my temps from this point. Plus it's been agonising to see AF come despite a steady rise and also agonising to watch the more typical temp drop from DPO10/11

Anyone have any nice plans for tww?

Bbdm1984 · 02/09/2020 16:00

@Muda af is due for me between the 10th and 13th i think (was always 28 day cycle but last month and month before was 25 days)

Muda · 02/09/2020 15:31

When is everyone’s AF meant to be coming? The tww is the worst and just drags. But you know what they say is true it’s not over until she shows. In the tww I would always go through ups and downs thinking yes this is our time to getting sad thinking it’s not going to happen again. It’s a real rollercoaster

Bbdm1984 · 02/09/2020 14:56

@1940s thats exactly the same as how i feel, oh well time will tell. I think im of the mindset if i dont think positive i wont be too upset when af rears her ugly head although i know i will be absolutely gutted

1940s · 02/09/2020 14:16

Hey, I also don't have a particularly good feeling about this month. So many months in a row I know I've DTD at the right time, so despite this being my first time properly following SMEP I am not feeling confident.

Bbdm1984 · 02/09/2020 10:44

Morning all, how are you doing/feeling? 6dpo here and nothing to report. Thankyou for letting us know @Muda maybe it was mixing it up with timing of dtd that also helped you... i dont know why but i just have the feeling that i am out this month. I think its because i know i did everything to the plan and it has made it too scheduled so cant get the perfect happy ending however i still have everything crossed for everyone else xx

1940s · 01/09/2020 22:55

Congratulations! Thanks for sharing your insight / pattern followed too!

Mich2020 · 01/09/2020 20:58

That's interesting to hear about no symptoms @Muda glad your doing okay. I hope that your luck continues onto us all 💕💕 xx

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Muda · 01/09/2020 16:42

I hope I am the first of many bfps on the thread! X

Muda · 01/09/2020 16:41

Thank you! It feels so nice sharing the news. Symptom wise not much really apart from gargling stomach and cramps And I feel really bloated (they feel very similar to AF symptoms) so it feels worrying but I have looked on MN and some people don’t get symptoms at all or they come later on. I don’t feel sick or anything and my boobs are fine too. I’ve been going to bed early but also waking up early because of it, but i can’t think of much else at the moment so am thinking an early night is best to try and relax my brain.My only sign is missed period. I think I am 21 dpo roughly. I tested Saturday and then have done ‘a few more’ since!
We definitely dtd the most this month than we’ve ever done we started cd8 and did every other then fertile period came and we did every day but extended it to 7 days and then did every other again for a few days after. We also used preseed.

Mich2020 · 01/09/2020 15:12

Omg @Muda congratulations that's amazing news xx

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Bbdm1984 · 01/09/2020 14:55

@Muda that is absolutely amazing, congratulations. I think we all need info... did you follow plan exactly, symptoms, howmany dpo are you, have you told dp/h.. eek i am so happy for you xx

Muda · 01/09/2020 14:41

Hi everyone, sorry I have been quiet the past few days! Slightly apprehensive as had an early MC May around 6 weeks but I’m putting it out there that this is going to be our first healthy baby and a sticky bean!

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Right SMEP.. determined. Anyone else?
Right SMEP.. determined. Anyone else?
Mich2020 · 01/09/2020 08:35

@1940s didn't get much sleep last night and on my way to work again now ☹️ me and DP have had a little argument and we are not getting on so well but hoping it'll pass very soon 🤞🏻
Hope your ok. Glad you got the extra in. It's good to know your doing everything you can isn't it. How was your temp this morning? If I don't get any luck in the next month or so I might try this temp checking. I've never done it before. I usually know when I've ovulated but would be interesting to follow the chart to see exactly what my body is doing

Hope you other ladies are okay xx

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1940s · 31/08/2020 22:53

Hope you're feeling ok @Mich2020 x

I couldn't stand 'skipping' day four after our three days in a row from positive OPK so we DTD tonight. Hope to see my second temp spike tomorrow morning and then I can sit and relax in the 2ww knowing we did all we could!

Mich2020 · 31/08/2020 20:50

Sorry everyone been a bit vacant and in a stress and down in the dumps today ☹️ hoping it'll pass tomorrow and it's just tiredness. First day back at work after my op and then relaxing for 2
Weeks. The 7am alarm wasn't my friend this morning,
How are you all doing? Xx

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