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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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candycrush2298 · 19/08/2020 17:53

Continuation of previous .. what 4 threads lol

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candycrush2298 · 02/09/2020 09:17

@Kaybobx sorry forgot to attach my chart.

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candycrush2298 · 02/09/2020 09:15

@Kaybobx the temps being higher means nothing wouldn't worry about that. The reason it is higher is likely because it is an actual BBT thermometor so its taking a real reading.

As for the rise I would say that doesn't look like yesterday was ovulation so maybe today is ovulation if it rises tomorrow? Which would make sense since you are saying you are in a lot of pain today??

As for my AF, my Flo app says tomorrow but I don't think so because I usually always have a 12 day luteal phase (today would be 13dpo) and my temps dropped way below the coverline today just like last cycle which to me means the Flo app is stupid and I am going to start AF today lol. It usually starts around 8am though and I keep getting the feeling of 'wet' but its just creamy CM its driving me mad.

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Kaybobx · 02/09/2020 09:01

Only slightly went up this morning. My chart looks nothing like last months. Not sure how accurate this new thermometer is as my temps seem alot higher. Why is it never simple?!

Did you say your AF is due today? What time does she usually arrive?

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candycrush2298 · 02/09/2020 08:53

@Kaybobx its possible because you have tested so early this morning its residual of yesterday's surge. Try test between 11am and 8pm and see if its still as dark. Thats quite a long surge. Have your temps gone up? Like higher than the previous temps?

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Kaybobx · 02/09/2020 08:38

Help! 😭 why does it keep going up?! Im in quite abit if pain this morning too!

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candycrush2298 · 02/09/2020 08:19

@NamechangeTTC I think you should only start BD'ng when you start getting highs on your opks do every other day until you start getting highs. 7 days in a row is too much for most people I would never make it hahahaha. Dont BD again until you get close to peak let your man rest lol

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NamechangeTTC · 02/09/2020 08:13

We had a really unsuccessful attempt last night which is annoying me as apps think yesterday was most fertile day. I’m unsure since I’ve not have ov yet I don’t think. Hubby says 7 days in a row is more than he can manage 🙈

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candycrush2298 · 02/09/2020 07:01

@Boc86 I would do those scans as well hahahaha.

@ReginaaPhalange awww no need to be sorry. Its a tough pill to swallow every single day getting BFNs even when you have done everything right. It just sucks. Its OK to be sad. Sorry you got another bfn.

Glad you a good dinner and enjoyed yourself. I am due AF today. Hopefully yours is late.

Haven't used a muslin cloth is it truly amazing???

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Boc86 · 02/09/2020 02:46

Aww don’t apologise! X

ReginaaPhalange · 01/09/2020 23:28

Hey all. Just nipping on to apologise for my downer today.

Had a lovely Chinese out but didn't have wine. Sore boobs and mid right back pain, so took a test and bfn. Not testing again now this cycle (unless AF ain't here by Monday - she's due Thursday or Friday).

Tomorrow is a new day. Just going to have a good sleep and wake up to face the rest of the week.

Ps, how good does it feel to take make up off with a balm to oil cleanser and a hot muslin cloth 😍

Boc86 · 01/09/2020 22:57

@Welliedays I’m absolutely drowning under boxes! Get the keys tomorrow woo
Aww yay for nearly 6 weeks
If I fall pregnant I’ll go for a 7 weeks scan then 9-10 weeks 🙈

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candycrush2298 · 01/09/2020 22:45

@Welliedays yeah everyone has been so amazing in uplifting me and making me feel just super. So yeah I am OK thanks hun. Still not going to track or anything and still going to take this month off. Will keep everyone updated when I get a date for the scan so I can move it to when I am going to ovulate next cycle as I will need to track then so they do the scan on the right day. And will let everyone know when I get that golden ticket (hubbys semen analysis)

Oh wow 5wks5days thats awesome. Yes I think it becomes harder for a loss now when there is a heartbeat. Not that anyone who has had a chemical doesnt have heartache but yeah imagine its more painful the further along you are. Lol well possibly AF pains are better than nausea and sickness lol. Hopefully that doesn't show up for you at all and you're one of the lucky ones. I imagine that your body is doing loads in the background so some pains will come with the territory. Lol growing a baby is hard work hun.

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Welliedays · 01/09/2020 22:24

Sorry I've been so quiet today girls.

@candycrush2298 you seem happier in your messages this evening, I hope you've got your mojo back now. I am so confident your time will come and when it does,I cannot wait!!

@namechangettc keep testing, and keep the faith.. And if all else fails keep dtd!!

@boc86 I'm so pleased you've decided to go for it this month too, although I hope you're not currently lost under a heap of boxes

@kaybobx you sound like you need a well earned break, I took quite a fancy to my husband earlier, but it was only for a fleeting moment and as neither of us have the energy that's probably not a bad thing as we wouldn't have managed much 😂

I'm feeling happier this week, I'm currently 5weeks5 days - I think I've had the 6 week mark in my head as if I start bleeding then, EPU would see me, so I feel like I'll have more back up, does that make sense? Although I also know little bean would have a heartbest.. So that makes it harder if u do lose it from now onwards. Still feel like AF is on her way, so I guess that's me feeling like that for the next 8 months 😂 keep getting sharp pains low down too, I guess everything is stretching and prepping 🤷🏼‍♀️ been on the sofa since 7.30..not tired, just absolutely no energy. How people are pregnant with a toddler is beyond me!!

NamechangeTTC · 01/09/2020 22:08

Bloody femometer not working this time!

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candycrush2298 · 01/09/2020 22:02

@NamechangeTTC hopefully you will get a peak still and you haven't missed it but yeah use easy@home now as those are 10miu the femometer are 20miu

@Kaybobx omg you are such a champion your vagina must be broken whahahaah!!! I am pretty sure you're done hahahaha

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Kaybobx · 01/09/2020 21:56

@NamechangeTTC you'll get better results with those easy@home tests. Mine were always negative with those thin green things, now they are super high.

@candycrush2298 done the deed again, thats it I'm done, no more, not a chance! Hubby knows to absolutely not ask until October hahaha

NamechangeTTC · 01/09/2020 21:49

It’s annoyingMe!!

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candycrush2298 · 01/09/2020 21:46

@Kaybobx omg you blazing away!!!! Wahahahaha

@NamechangeTTC still looks pretty negative but a bit high maybe if it gets darker tomorrow you getting close

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NamechangeTTC · 01/09/2020 21:30

Migraine too bad for sex tonight. I just can’t.

NamechangeTTC · 01/09/2020 21:29

Wonder if this means I might be....

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Kaybobx · 01/09/2020 21:12

I'm still getting darker... i hope this thing buggers off tomorrow!

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candycrush2298 · 01/09/2020 20:05

@NamechangeTTC yeah definitely hopefully results will be in tomorrow.

Oh no was your easy@home results negative too? Was it as least high?
You said your peaks are usually only a few hours? Maybe you did but in case you didn't keep testing in case

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NamechangeTTC · 01/09/2020 20:01

Oh no @candycrush2298 better for him to be checked.

I’m in bed with a migraine. Held pee 4 hours and used an easy at home and a femometer. Wondering if it’s missed my ovulation completely. I should have ov by now.

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candycrush2298 · 01/09/2020 17:53

@snapple21 yeah think he is OK just feels icky.
Yeah the appointment will just come in the mail. So let's hope its quick haha but likely won't be this cycles ovulation since I ovulate so soon after AF so will likely be cycle after that.

@Welliedays lol yeah been a day of uplifting me since I have been feeling so sorry for myself. The girls have been amazing. And yes will get my appointment in the mail for the scan he wants it done around ovulation. This doctor was easy to convince gonna request him all time from now on.

As for the clomid will always trust @snapple21's advice since she is the midwife lol!!!

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Welliedays · 01/09/2020 17:46

Oh my girls, you've all been chatty today!! I think from what I've ready @candycrush2298 has for an appointment for a US and you've all decided to hold fire on thr clomid just now - probably sensible as there's defs loads more to try before then. Definitely need to give the soy another chance I think, remember now everyone got a BFP on their first cycle with it!

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