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candycrush2298 · 19/08/2020 17:53

Continuation of previous .. what 4 threads lol

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Boc86 · 29/08/2020 18:58

@Kaybobx what?!?!?! That’s insane I can’t believe she’s done that?!

@ReginaaPhalange still early for lines

@candycrush2298 I get exactly like that wirh progesterone

@Welliedays aww so exciting!

Kaybobx · 29/08/2020 18:30

@candycrush2298 awe thank you ❤ so glad i have you girls to talk to, i think i would of lost the plot earlier not ranting to someone. I just hope i fall pregnant this cycle now so she thinks all the weirdness was actually worth it! Lesson learnt, they are going straight in the bin now!

candycrush2298 · 29/08/2020 18:24

@Kaybobx awww so sorry hun I can honestly understand the embarrassment and I think a lot of us can hahahah as we are exactly the same. Funny enough I for some stupid reason also kept the last two cycles tests and when I was cleaning up I saw all of them and threw them out for the exact reason of fearing someone saw me as a psycho so I feel you. Hope the wine kicks in soon and you feel better thinking of you xxx

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Kaybobx · 29/08/2020 18:23

@ReginaaPhalange haha absolutely! And using that last FRER that comes out negative just feels like losing a winning lottery ticket haha.

ReginaaPhalange · 29/08/2020 18:17

@Kaybobx haha in the same! It's like they don't count cause you buy so many! But with FRER it's like the holy grail haha

Kaybobx · 29/08/2020 18:07

@ReginaaPhalange haha im the same! Because i buy those easy@home tests in bulk i don't mind wasting them so test a couple of times day hence why I'm so embarrassed at all the tests the mother in law seen!!!

ReginaaPhalange · 29/08/2020 18:01

@Kaybobx glow says Thursday and Premom says Friday. I say I won't test for a couple of days but I end up caving lol!!!! Can't help myself!

Kaybobx · 29/08/2020 17:57

@Boc86 yeah still waiting to ovulate, will be in the next few days i think. Ahh gutted you are ttc though. How you feeling about it? Watch you actually fall pregnant now you aren't trying haha.

@ReginaaPhalange what is your AF due date? So sorry you keep getting negatives! It is still mega early though, hopefully the nausea is a good sign 🤞🏼

Kaybobx · 29/08/2020 17:52

@candycrush2298 i think I'm just so embarrassed as there was 2 cycles worth of tests in there! FRERs and about 50 strips lol, i must look like an absolute psycho. I don't know why i didn't throw them out straight away! Annoyed with myself now. Ugh its done now i can't do anything about it, I'm having a glass of wine i need it!

candycrush2298 · 29/08/2020 17:41

@Kaybobx yeah OK that makes perfect sense its definitely like she was snooping then well that's how it feels whether she actually meant to or not its how it comes across. How do you want to play it?
I would personally say something but not sure of your relationship and all that.

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Kaybobx · 29/08/2020 17:35

@candycrush2298
No shes not staying over shes gone now. Shes knows we've been ttc but its not something we've talked about and i wouldn't want to either. There was washing left on my stairs so shes taken it up and put it away. She should of left and not gone in my draws! I had a new look bag in my draw with all my old tests pg and opks, she shouldn't of taken them out then tipped them all over my recycling bin!! Im literally in shock to be honest

Welliedays · 29/08/2020 17:32

@reginaaphlange, so even if you are going to get a BPN, you might be testing too soon as your levels probably aren't high enough yet. I'd try and resist another couple of days if you can as otherwise you're probably wasting your tests

ReginaaPhalange · 29/08/2020 17:21

@Welliedays 9dpo x

candycrush2298 · 29/08/2020 17:19

@ReginaaPhalange yay for the baby grow at bargain prices.
Sorry for the negatives - progesterone can make us have pg symptoms all the time - it can cause nausea, food aversions/cravings, hot flashes and the list goes on. I have experienced it a few cycles ago to the point where I actually hurled when I ate a tuna sandwich thought for sure i was pg but it was just progesterone.

@Boc86 at least you getting comfy with your temping and getting ready for when you can ttc.

@Kaybobx awwwww I am so sorry I know you said she has seen your notebook where you stick all your opks in and you were so embarrassed by that but she never threw your notebook away that time. Do you think she thinks the opks could be pg tests and she was throwing out the negative tests because she thinks you are already pg???
She sounds so much like my MIL!!!
Argh this is a tough one because I know you don't like confrontation and to be mean but when she has gone to far you rage - i know because its how I get.
Is she spending the night? If she is i would say wait until the morning and if you are still raging in the morning then its not just embarrassment that is currently fuelling your emotions and its because she crossed a boundary and based on that I would say something to her. That she has no right to scratch in your draws and throw out anything. Its your private matter - but I personally think she has done this because she wants to discuss TTC and the only way to bring it up is to push you over the edge so that she can speak about it and give her "opinions" becuade didn't you say you haven't actually told her you guys are ttc?

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Kaybobx · 29/08/2020 17:18

@ReginaaPhalange
He will if i ask him too but hes just saying she was probably putting washing away, seen the rubbish and threw it out. He thinks she's just trying to help!
My new box of OPKs and PG tests were hidden underneath my underwear and now they are on my frigging shelf!! What did she think id want them on show?! My book of line progression test and dates over the last year in there also that shes clearly seen!! I literally feel numb right now. Sorry if im overreacting

Welliedays · 29/08/2020 17:15

@kaybobx I'd defs say something, that's torly not acceptable. It's your house and you things.. Why does she think that's acceptable behaviour?

@boc86 I think I'm 5 weeks 2 days today

@reginaaphlange, remind me, how many dpo are you?

ReginaaPhalange · 29/08/2020 17:04

@Kaybobx I certainly wouldn't let that lie. I'd go mental. Can tour husband not have a word with her?

Kaybobx · 29/08/2020 16:52

@ReginaaPhalange do you think i should? Im literally in tears, not sure if im embarrassed or angry. My husband is just saying im sure she didnt mean to and was just trying to help cleaning.
I opened our recycling bin outside to see where it had all gone and there is literally just hundreds of tests just tipped out of the bag. Not even the bag as a whole she'd tipped it all out.
I feel like curling into a ball under a rock!

ReginaaPhalange · 29/08/2020 16:46

@Kaybobx omg that's totally unacceptable and crosses the line!! Why would she go through your private stuff? You really need to pull her up for that!

ReginaaPhalange · 29/08/2020 16:08

BFN.

Why so I feel so nauseous?!?!

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Kaybobx · 29/08/2020 16:03

Im absolutely having a melt down! So my mother in law has been at my house today looking after the little one. I've just got home and went to do an Opk. She has been in my draw and moved all of my stash!!! I had a bag with all my old tests in and all my used PG tests, shes taken the bag out and thrown it in our recycling bin!!!!
Im literally so angry and upset shes seen all of these things my husband hasn't even seen!! I just dont know what to say, im so embarrassed and angry

Boc86 · 29/08/2020 16:00

Oh are you still waiting to ov too @Kaybobx we could end up ov buddies - not that I can use my ov 😭😭😭😭 going to be so so hard to ovulate and not ttc
My thermometer is doing the same! Just turns off if it can’t be arsed!
@candycrush2298 wow will power for not testing!
@PinkRoseFlower yay for tww! Hope it flies for you
@NamechangeTTC nooooo the wrecked tests!
@ReginaaPhalange still hopeful for you
@Welliedays how many weeks/days are you now

Welliedays · 29/08/2020 15:53

Ahh @reginaaphlange I love you're testing! I don't think any of you should rely on symptoms... I couldn't feel any less pregnant if I tried today and I hope that my hcg is still high! Can anyone give me a quick rundown of anything I've missed today, I've not had chance to come on and feel I've missed alot!!

ReginaaPhalange · 29/08/2020 15:15

The last 2 days I have driven my car I have felt nauseous.! DH driving now and feeling a bit better. Even when I had the roof down I still felt sick! Strange!!! Absolutely 0 symptoms though today. Been holding wee since 11am.... maybe habit now haha but going to do a wee test I think!

ReginaaPhalange · 29/08/2020 15:13

Just been into town and picked up some more FRER and a cute we baby grow set for a reveal to DH should I ever get a BFP. Boots have a 50% off clothing sale so got a cute wee set of 3 baby grows for £5!