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TTC after MC - August 2020 (Thread 11)

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VP91x · 16/08/2020 17:12

Hi ladies 🥰

BFP list ❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@Niisa
@fafi
@2020wish
@Rebecca1992
@Beesy90
@Pugprincess
@IWM20
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@Lollol86


@VP91x
@MichT4
@Hayley19835
@Mommybear05
@HE88
@Rainbowhope11
@Renna
@Diorissimo1985
@Rb486
@Wishingfornumber2
@Northernsoul90
@Jazper
@Bellabubble
@Firevie
@stayinghopeful92x
@chloedancer897
@MrsK21
@LKMH
@Happyvibes
@Bl0ndi3
@Lemondropsandgumdrops
@TJM123
@eclipsechips
@Will867

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

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Lollol86 · 21/08/2020 14:49

@VP91x oh don't say that I think it's going really slow 😂😂 today we have been to town to sort out school shoes and a few other bits, I've just got back from meeting my friend for a quick catch up. Bloody shattered now. Only thing planned for this weekend is we are going to the out tomorrow for lunch, I literally can't wait for pub chips. Do you have much planned? Xx

ladysamee · 21/08/2020 14:48

@VP91x very similar situations then! Yes, I'm going to be sticking to the same calorie amount as you. I've found that the "MyFitnessPal" app helps me track that very easily. We will get there! x

VP91x · 21/08/2020 14:36

@ladysamee I'm also feeling the same about my weight, I am a similar BMI to you and starting my diet again on Monday. Going to do x2 shakes a day, a low carb snack and low carb evening meal - to keep under 1300/400 calories a day. I keep starting diets and falling off but I really need to stick to it to help with my PCOS symptoms. I've bought a weightloss diary to help me keep on track. I also have my gynae appt at beginning of October. Xx

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susiebluebell · 21/08/2020 14:29

@Sallyjo27

Morning all, how is everyone? Finally rang my gp yesterday to ask for bloods (antibodies, blood clotting etc) and she can’t do them and can only do the 21 day progesterone. Only the hospital can do them. I’ve been referred to gynaecology (we don’t have a recurrent miscarriage clinic) and there’s an 11 month wait. So after a bit of a melt down yesterday we’ve decided to have some tests done privately. Hopefully will get an appointment with the consultant within 4 weeks. I’m hoping as my luteal phase is only 10 days they’ll listen and give me progesterone. Really annoys me that the only person who seems worried about my 3 miscarriages and wants to get to the reason why they happens is me 😩
I know the feeling of nobody seeming to care but yourself, I've only had one miscarriage and already the friends and family who knew seem to have moved on totally. I'm sure they are just trying to be tactful and positive but I feel negative/selfish for bringing it up.. Confused I'm sorry as well that there is such a long wait for you - sometimes these things go quicker though, you never know if others patients cancel etc!

I've not contacted a Dr yet about my mc because I'm moving house in the next couple of weeks (London to Cornwall) and there didn't seem to be a point in starting the ball rolling up here. I hope it doesn't come back to bite me if I have another mc or there are other issues ConfusedBlush

ladysamee · 21/08/2020 14:09

Hi ladies, it seems a few of us are in the same boat. I've also had my bloods done twice (due to the irregular periods, my doctor was just shooting in the dark in terms of when to take them). First one I had was

VP91x · 21/08/2020 13:57

@Diorissimo1985 keep us updated with how your GP chat goes. Is it still a faint line on your tests? Xx

@Northernsoul90 congratulations on your new niece, must be a lovely feeling 🥰 glad they are both doing well.

@Sallyjo27 oh god 11 months! That's an insane wait, especially considering you've had the 3 MC's. Do you know what the availability is at your private clinic? Hope you get one soon so you get some appropriate help xx

@Pugprincess look after yourself, just take it easy 🥰

@Lollol86 I don't know why, but seems like ages that you got your BFP! Have you got anything planned for the weekend?

@Firevie Austria has been added to the quarantine list now hasn't it? So annoying! Xx

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eclipsechips · 21/08/2020 13:49

Thanks @MichT4 I'm still hoping that will we're sorting things out it'll happen naturally but I'm really glad we've got a plan for moving forward

eclipsechips · 21/08/2020 13:48

@VP91x we're going to sort out saving first as we were planning on a house move but I think we're both agreed to put that on hold just now.

eclipsechips · 21/08/2020 13:46

@Northernsoul90 Congratulations Auntie!

MichT4 · 21/08/2020 13:44

Congratulations on your niece @Northernsoul90 🥰🥰 xx

Northernsoul90 · 21/08/2020 12:49

@Pugprincess @MrsK21 @Lollol86

Thank you 🥰 they are both doing well. I thought I might feel a little bit funny with all the new baby hype but turns out I'm the worst one for it and instantly rushed out to buy girl outfits and am demanding constant pics 😂. Over the moon xx

Lollol86 · 21/08/2020 12:28

@Northernsoul90 congratulations auntie, oh wow so tiny. Glad they are both doing well xx

MrsK21 · 21/08/2020 12:25

Aww congrats on becoming an aunt again @Northernsoul90 hope your sis and baby are both doing well xxx

Pugprincess · 21/08/2020 11:54

Aunty @Northernsoul90 🥰

Pugprincess · 21/08/2020 11:53

@Northernsoul90 aww congratulations 🥳 so small, love it when they are tiny ❤️ Glad they are doing well xxx

Northernsoul90 · 21/08/2020 11:51

Thanks all, baby is here a little girl weighing 4lb 8oz which is the exact same weight her big brother was! Both are doing well and as of yet she hasn't needed to go into the NICU 🤞🏼💖.

HappyVibes · 21/08/2020 11:14

To all the ladies struggling to get bloods taken and results - I used medichecks online for mine & they write a full report from a doctor who specialises in that area to explain exactly what each of the results means for specific tests. It’s amazing!!!

Pugprincess · 21/08/2020 10:46

Hey 👋🏻 no it wasn’t a lot. I have a pic if anyone wants to see 😬 I had a right funny turn when I woke up, really dry mouth and weak, made me have a panic attack and I’m home alone 😔 rang husband and calmed down. Eaten now. Think I need to take a snack bed with me incase I get like that again. Also a smell coming from toilet was awful, I don’t know what it was but it smelt strong. Dunno if it was my toilet cage rim block thing playing tricks on my nose? Smells ok now 🤷🏼‍♀️ I’ve attached gross pic of discharge but just done enlarge if you don’t want to look lol. I will take it super easy today and this weekend. No more long walks. I was really struggling half way round. Just shuffling and waddling already 😅 was in ugg type boots tho, I don’t walk the best in those lol. Scans next Friday 8.20am. Il be nervous this week cause by thurs I’m approx 6+4 which is when baby ran into trouble before and I started with lots of dark brown spotting. Like it was on tissue after most wees and was dripping into toilet and on floor when stood up. This stuff I’ve been getting has been in discharge so different for me. I know years ago I had some cervical erosion (I tend to bleed at smear tests etc) x

TTC after MC - August 2020 (Thread 11)
Firevie · 21/08/2020 09:55

@MichT4 fingers crossed for you tmr morning then! OH is fine thanks. He will leave tmr and then I still have two weeks at home with my parents. So I’m hoping for my peak when I’m back in London so we don’t miss our window
Have a safe journey back xxx

Sallyjo27 · 21/08/2020 09:43

I meant to ask as well, as I’m on cd5 now would everyone else start trying again or would you wait?

Sallyjo27 · 21/08/2020 09:42

Morning all, how is everyone? Finally rang my gp yesterday to ask for bloods (antibodies, blood clotting etc) and she can’t do them and can only do the 21 day progesterone.
Only the hospital can do them. I’ve been referred to gynaecology (we don’t have a recurrent miscarriage clinic) and there’s an 11 month wait. So after a bit of a melt down yesterday we’ve decided to have some tests done privately. Hopefully will get an appointment with the consultant within 4 weeks. I’m hoping as my luteal phase is only 10 days they’ll listen and give me progesterone.
Really annoys me that the only person who seems worried about my 3 miscarriages and wants to get to the reason why they happens is me 😩

MrsK21 · 21/08/2020 09:41

@Northernsoul90 I'm onto my 3rd flashy this morning but better news is that my second bleeds seems to have calmed right down so I'm carrying on as normal today and sticking with CD11. Hoping I get my peak soon - the lines on the stick seemed much darker today.

How exciting for you! Hope all goes well with the c-section, let us know how she gets on!

@Pugprincess when I was pregnant I had that after long walks / gentle exercise too. I wouldn't worry about it too much - sounds like your cervix is just super sensitive. not long till the scan now! xxx

Lollol86 · 21/08/2020 08:48

@Northernsoul90 wow that's early for baby to come, I bet the baby won't weigh much. Keep us updated xx

@MichT4 have a safe journey back xx

@Pugprincess make sure you rest up today, is your scan next Friday?

Not much of an update form me,
I think I'm getting slight waves of nausea but still wondering if it's just in my head, I also have some slight boobie pain last night. I'll be 5 weeks tomorrow so still early but hoping my symptoms are not starting to kick in xx

VP91x · 21/08/2020 08:14

@Pugprincess It probably was the long walk as you said, was it alot? Rest up today xx

@eclipsechips it's good that you have both spoken about the options and your next steps. It also does help to take the pressure off because you onow you have something in the pipeline to help even more. Hopefully you can get the ball rolling soon xx

@MichT4 thank you lovely, a little! Have a safe journey back today xx

@Northernsoul90 oh, I hope everything goes well with your sister's birth and baby is all okay 💕💕. Those flashies are annoying even if you know you will get a few of them x

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MichT4 · 21/08/2020 08:07

@Northernsoul90 it's been lovely, definitely needed.

@Northernsoul90 @Firevie I haven't tested since Monday now so I'll test tomorrow morning I think. If it's negative, then I'll know but if it's still faint I'll call the doc. Thinking about it I probably will call even if it's negative as still no sign of AF.

How are you? Hope OH is recovering well? xx

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