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10dpo... anyone with me?

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jennaxc · 15/08/2020 22:45

I'm 10dpo and so eager to take a test as I know you can get a positive. I'm trying to hold off another couple of days..

I've had lots is symptoms, nausea, cramping, headaches but could just be my mind playing tricks with me.

Does anyone else feel similar? It would be great to hear how others are doing Grin

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rosieb060 · 06/11/2020 14:30

Congratulations @jessi60 !

jessi60 · 06/11/2020 14:14

So I’m finally getting somewhere! So happy 😂
Af has showed today.. my first one since my implant removal. 27 days since my withdrawal bleed! X

rosiej95 · 06/11/2020 13:09

@jennaxc ahh that makes sense.
I'm quite lucky we get to dtd quite often.
Even more so this month cause I'm off work for 4 weeks 🙈
Might give it one more month of trying to dtd as much as possible & then go from there.

Yes it's quite frustrating tbf. I don't think it helps because it's all I've wanted for the past couple of years it took my BF a little while to feel the same.

I'd love it to happen before Xmas tho 🥰
🤞 for us all!

jennaxc · 06/11/2020 10:24

@rosiej95 I'm sorry 😔 onto next cycle though. It's honestly shocked me how long this all takes. You spend your whole life worrying about getting pregnant and nobody talks about this side of things.. fingers crossed it's our month this time!

With the ovulation kits I think it depends on how often you dtd generally. It's really helped us because of my bfs cfs so been able to concentrate on a certain time. If you're dtd often you're probably covering it anyway. My app was wrong about my ovulation date, it's 1-2 days later. Could be worth trying just to see how accurate your app is..

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rosiej95 · 06/11/2020 07:48

@jennaxc AF showed up yesturday I'm pretty gutted this time 😩
But it's a new month...

Im still so torn about weather to use an ovulation kit. I don't know weather to just give it one more month without or weather to just use them.

Ooo that'll be so good, sounds like you've covered it 🤞

Haha i know I think the amount of pregnancy tests we go through as well it's just easier then getting your hopes up 😩

jennaxc · 05/11/2020 23:17

@rosiej95 how you doing? You still on your tww? Xx

End of ovulation week for me. I managed to dtd twice within my 24 hours when my sticks were positive so fingers crossed I've covered it this month 🙌🏻

I've got to the point now where I don't even think about getting a BFP I just assume I won't. I straight away start thinking about ovulation week next cycle and when it is. I think it would be a big shock if I did now 🤣

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rosiej95 · 31/10/2020 10:48

@jennaxc I'm feeling a little more drained?
Like I cba 😂 weather that's a symptom or I'm just lazy ha
I'm hungry all the time & constantly thinking about food
Apart from that & cramps nothing?
Just wanna know now tho 🙈

jennaxc · 30/10/2020 23:58

@rosiej95 tww is the worst, really not looking forward to mine 🙈 spotting could be a good sign couldn't it.. I really hope it's a BFP!! Still loads of time yet. Have you had any other symptoms?

Yeah tracking but just not feeling it this month at all. I've been so fed up with this lockdown! I'm on day 2 ovulation week and not dtd yet, I need to get a move on 🤣

@jessi60 hello, it's nice to speak to you ☺️ we've not told anybody either so it's so nice coming on here. My bf tries to speak to me about it but they don't go through as much as us do they.

Xxx

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jessi60 · 30/10/2020 21:59

@rosiej95 thanks! I was gutted at the time but were in the process of getting another one just waiting for all the solicitor things to go through.

Ano it is nice to be able to talk to people. I haven’t told anyone about trying so nobody to talk to about it. My boyfriend is very laid back about it all and just says it will happen when it happens. Typical male response.

Have you had regular periods since coming off your contraception? And did you have a withdrawal bleed at first? Xx

rosiej95 · 30/10/2020 21:52

@jessi60 ahh sorry to hear your house fell through 😔
it's deffo an eye opener! & literally one of the most emotional draining things but cannot wait to get a bfp to make it all worth it 😂
It's so nice tho being able to chat to others in the same situation.
We haven't told anyone we are ttc & there's only so much I can chew my boyfriends ear off about it 🙈

jessi60 · 30/10/2020 21:12

@rosiej95 Aw I hope so but my eyes have been well and truly opened into the world of TTC and how difficult it can be, so trying to be realistic in all of this.

Similar for me actually, I think I went on the pill from the age of 16/17 and was on this for 5 year and then had the implant for 5.5 in total I think. So it’s been a good ten years of my body being on hormonal contraception. Ideally I was going to get my implant out and that would be it, but me and my partner were in the middle of buying a house and it fell through and was a stressful time so I thought it wasn’t ideal to come off everything all together hence starting the pill but then I was horrendous on the pill this time around so just thought it was time to come off it all. And the time does feel right.

Yeah it will be our firstSmile

I haven’t had periods in all of this time either. So that’s why I’m unsure whether I would of ovulated this month and rang bleed was probably a withdrawal from the hormones. Xxx

rosiej95 · 30/10/2020 20:35

@jessi60 hey 👋
I've heard you can be quite fertile after coming off birth control. Hopefully this is the case for you 🥰

Tbf until I started looking into ttc I didn't even realise about ovulation ect I was on the pill from 15 & then went on the implant then back on the pill so never had any periods for all that time.

Are you ttc your first? ☺️

jessi60 · 30/10/2020 20:13

Hi guys been reading through your posts from the start of this thread. Hopefully I’m okay to join.
This month was my first month TTC. Although don’t know if it can actually be classed as a first attempt or not lol. I had my implant out on the 23rd September. After having this for 6 years. No periods in this time. I started the combined pill a day after implant removal, took this for 12 days (long story to why I started the pill) - I then had horrendous side effects and stopped taking it. So been off hormonal contraception since the 5th October. I had a bleed 5 days later which lasted 5 days (I’m assuming this was a withdrawal bleed). I’ve had nothing since. Had regular unprotected sex this month. Sooo... I have no idea about my periods or even ovulation dates so abit useless in that sense. And aware that my chances are slim this month because I probably haven’t even ovulated.

I’ve learnt a lot just reading all of your posts on here. Looking forward to seeing you all get your BFP soon. Xxx

rosiej95 · 30/10/2020 19:38

@jennaxc all good here Thankyou bored of this 2ww now 😂🙈
10dpo according to my app & bfn this morning
I had spotting 5dpo & then just been crampy but I'm not testing again now until Sunday/Monday

How are you doing? You still tracking? :)

jennaxc · 30/10/2020 19:05

@rosiej95 how are doing babe? I hope you're ok!

Start of ovulation week for me.. don't feel very positive about this month though, not really sure why...

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rosiej95 · 22/10/2020 11:57

Ahh sorry to hear AF is here for you's Nothing new to report here tbf 🤷🏼‍♀️😂
Haven't managed to dtd as much as I would have hoped but I'm hoping the apps wrong and ovulation could be this week? 😂😂
If it hasn't happened for this time then im deffo buying the ovulation sticks.

@rosieb060 haha! No I don't personally think so 🙈 ive been tempted myself haha!
have you seen ITS are bringing out a maternity range with Dani dyer? 😃

rosieb060 · 22/10/2020 11:10

@rosiej95 I've bought maternity clothes already. Is that really bad?!

AF day three. Can't wait for her to go away Grin

AKcheer · 21/10/2020 23:09

@jennaxc yup I’m on AF too!! Enjoyed the Prosecco today hahaha. How you doing

jennaxc · 21/10/2020 19:22

How are you both doing? @AKcheer @rosiej95

AF well and truly here for me, enjoying the red wine while I can 🤣

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AKcheer · 19/10/2020 19:01

@rosiej95 Haha I wish! I’m getting brown spotting now quite a bit so I think she’s here. So annoyed. Hahaha oh wow I love this 😂 it’s always good to plan for your pregnancy outfits!!!

rosiej95 · 19/10/2020 18:55

@AKcheer stuck on a roundabout somewhere 😂🙈
Hopefully she takes the 4th exit & goes in the opposite direction 😜🤞
It's such a rollercoaster of a journey this ttc.
I feel like I've turned a little crazy this month 😂 last month I was chilled this month I have maternity clothes in my basket on boohoo cause they have a massive sale on 🙄😂

AKcheer · 19/10/2020 08:56

@rosiej95 Yeah I have seen but now I feel a bit crampy (less then last month though haha) and have had some brownish spotting like a tiny bit so I think AF is en route it must be stuck on a roundabout somewhere!!!

Ooh exciting!! Yes DTD through these days! Positive energy and baby dust to you!!

rosiej95 · 19/10/2020 08:13

@AKcheer Some people on here have also said they had way more symptoms when af was arriving then when they got there bfp 😜 🤞 she stays away for you!

I don't use the sticks but my app is telling me ovulation is tomorrow I'm not taking that as 100% tbf so will just continue dtd to cover all bases 🤷🏼‍♀️

AKcheer · 18/10/2020 11:56

@rosiej95Hey how are you? I’m ok patiently waiting got AF. She should be here in the next 2/3 days. I’m getting on and off AF symptoms I think. I don’t know I think sometimes things are in my head who knows. I haven’t got symptoms like other people on here say. At this time people say they are so tired and have achy boobs I kind of feel mostly normal so no idea. I won’t test early anyway not feeling hopeful but we will see! How you doing

rosiej95 · 18/10/2020 09:28

@jennaxc ha! I'm basically just trying to cover all the days 😂 tbh not sure I can do everyday all the time maybe every couple haha.

I've heard of people having no symptoms & getting a BFP! So 🤞
The waiting I think is deffo the worst part!

@AKcheer how are you getting on? 😊

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