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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TTC Thread #3

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Daffodil21 · 15/08/2020 12:15

Continuing the previous thread:

TTC Thread #2 www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/3941503-ttc-thread-2

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CEW19 · 18/01/2021 16:21

Thanks everyone for well wishes. Now I'm on day two of worrying about what's going on in there Confused

Good luck on the tests @acaciabluebell @Tofu35 X

Daffodil21 · 18/01/2021 15:49

@acaciabluebell I mean maybe book a few blood tests a couple of days apart? I guess that depends on how helpful your gp is, but if you explain that you can pinpoint ovulation then hopefully they'll go with it.

So glad there's progress going on in this group in terms of investigations. I know how daunting that feels but it really is better to get checked out, so hope you're all feeling okay about it ❤️

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acaciabluebell · 18/01/2021 15:41

@Tofu35 That's brilliant! How long did you wait overall to get your appt at the fertility clinic? I'm expecting to wait another year tbh 😣

acaciabluebell · 18/01/2021 15:39

@Daffodil21 Do you mean like the day after? Or do you mean if I get signs of ovulation on another day then I book another test?

Tofu35 · 18/01/2021 15:39

@acaciabluebell woohoo for getting those tests booked in! You better buy a lottery ticket as well, you're on a lucky streak :)

Its the NHS one, I paid for a private test in the meantime (just before Christmas) to hopefully speed things along so I think the march appointment will be discussing all test results and talking about next steps.

Daffodil21 · 18/01/2021 15:37

@acaciabluebell thank you. If you're not sure on ovulation could you book a couple of tests? This is what my GP suggested

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acaciabluebell · 18/01/2021 15:20

I can't believe but I've actually managed to book Day 3 and Day 21 bloods for this month., wohoo! The GP receptionist didn't even make a fuss either, unlike the one I spoke to last month who I basically had to beg, and then ended up being cancelled it anyway.

Anyway, it's all guesswork for me this month! I wasn't tracking, and then noticed I had a fair bit EWCM but no usual ovulation cramps which confused me. I did a OPK randomly yesterday and got a strong line. Today there's barely a second line so can only assume I've ovulated. I haven't used OPKs in months as my ovulation cramps have been so regular. Hopefully the dates I've booked will be the right dates! I've also registered DH with my GP so we can book his SA too.

@Daffodil21 I hope everything goes smoothly on Wednesday. It must be difficult feeling so anxious.

@Tofu35 Good luck for this cycle hopefully this will be the one!! Is the fertility clinic a private one or NHS?

Daffodil21 · 18/01/2021 15:07

Thanks @acaciabluebell having a massive wobble now though. Got another scan on Wednesday and absolutely dreading it. It feels like everything has stopped and there's nothing going on in there anymore. I had been feeling pills and stretches all the way through, but nothing for the last few days. How are you doing?

For those considering acupuncture I honestly cannot recommend it enough so go for it! I had planned to have it once a fortnight but then I got pregnant after the first go (one of the ones that didn't last). Then afterwards I ovulated sooner than usual after a mc, and sooner than even my usual cycle so I'm convinced it must have had something to do with it. The cost does add up but for me I thought it was worth it

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JTB123 · 18/01/2021 14:54

Congratulations @CEW19 😍😍

Tofu35 · 18/01/2021 13:24

CD2 for me. Another month, another possibility :) husband has another SA booked in next month, and then it's a couple's phone consultation with the fertility clinic in March. Good to have some dates in the diary!

acaciabluebell · 18/01/2021 13:20

@CEW19 congratulations!!! Lovely line there!
@Daffodil21 I'm so pleased that things are going well for you 😊

@Bramleyapples13 and @Tofu35 how are you both doing?

Who else is left now without a BFP?

Bramleyapples13 · 17/01/2021 15:55

Congratulations! Lovely news!

Tofu35 · 17/01/2021 12:59

That is wonderful news @cew19, looks like you won't need those acupuncture sessions after all!

Daffodil21 · 17/01/2021 10:24

@CEW19 how lovely!! Now you basque in the relief/excitement/happiness/'oh shit' 😂 then when you're ready arrange your booking app with the midwife. They won't want to see you until 8 weeks or so though so you'll feel a little left to it until then. I think you can self refer online but I just called my GP and they got the midwife to get in touch with me

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CEW19 · 17/01/2021 09:05

@Daffodil21 not and inkling at all! Last couple of months I’ve been spotting from around cd26 and this month nothing. Line came up pretty much as soon as my pee touched it, couldn’t believe my eyes! Came out of the toilet holding it in shock as my dh was coming out the bedroom. Now we’re just sitting here wondering what to do next and how we’re supposed to be reacting 😂 Will do another one in a min to make sure. Now what?! Lol

Daffodil21 · 17/01/2021 08:44

@CEW19 YESSSSSS!!!!!!!

I am beyond thrilled for you!!!! Congratulations!!!! How are you feeling? Did you haven an inkling or were you completely shocked?

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CEW19 · 17/01/2021 08:30

So, I’m now on cd29, AF didn’t show yesterday. Just took a test and . . . !!

TTC Thread #3
EekFirstTimeTTC · 17/01/2021 01:04

Hello @Ttcsummer just come across your post on here! I'm also 27 and TTC #1. Came off the depo in Dec 2019, AF made a comeback in June 2020 and am still trying so about the same length as you. I could really do with some support as we're trying to keep it relaxed at the moment and haven't really told anyone to try and prevent any pressure of others getting excited.. would love to stay in contact and support one another on this journey. Fingers crossed 2021 is our year! 🙏

CEW19 · 15/01/2021 19:25

@Bramleyapples13 yes she specialises in fertility acupuncture. She just asked loads of questions about my cycle, diet and exercise, sleep, stress, some questions about husband. She’ll start off next week with a taster session, said she’d recommend 4 weeks before pinpointing different stages of my cycle.

As expected, AF is definitely on the way and probs here by tomorrow which will be CD28. So another 10 day luteal phase.

Everyone else ok? X

Bramleyapples13 · 15/01/2021 17:28

Fantastic news @Daffodil21 🤗 I find it incredible how quickly little beans develop to even have noses at this stage.

@CEW19 have you gone to a fertility acupuncturist? I've been wanting to try it for a while but not just for fertility.

Tofu35 · 14/01/2021 15:24

Good luck with the acupuncturist @cew19! I've started doing yoga with adrienne again, lots of talk about mindful breathing and letting go of worries. I do always feel calmer after doing it, so hopefully it will give me some good vibes going into this new month :)

CEW19 · 13/01/2021 15:53

@Daffodil21 so pleased to hear everything is still looking good in there!

I just had a consultation with an acupuncturist and booked an appointment for next Wednesday. So interesting some of the things she was saying around the importance of sleep and just shutting off and not letting TTC consume you (yeah right!). Going to try and leave my phone downstairs so I go to sleep straight away and doing a bit of meditation to break my thought process. AF due this weekend but pretty sure nothings happened again this month.

Poppyismyfavourite · 10/01/2021 21:30

Ooh @Daffodil21 that's great, got my fingers crossed for you!

@acaciabluebell welcome back (sadly), I think it's perfectly reasonable to take a break if you need too - to stop it taking over your life!

Tofu35 · 10/01/2021 17:50

Glad you could hear the heartbeat and things are starting to take shape @daffodil21! ♥️

Daffodil21 · 10/01/2021 16:43

Thank you @Bramleyapples13 - scan went well! Heartbeat still going and measuring ban go on for dates again! We heard the heartbeat and it's beginning to take shape - you can see a head and even the beginnings of a nose! Can't quite believe it tbh, although a long way to go still

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