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August might be pact might be madness part 2

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claireb707 · 12/08/2020 17:20

Hopefully can get all you in here

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claireb7rg · 17/09/2020 13:32

Ugh can tell I'm not right. More emotions today and I've just noticed a cold sore coming through on my lip.

Typical as I'm interviewing today tomorrow and Monday via Microsoft Teams for 4 new members of my team 😩😩

whambam89 · 17/09/2020 12:59

@sansa87 so pleased that everything is ok! X

claireb7rg · 17/09/2020 11:57

@Sansa87

Everything looking okay, measuring at 6+3 they want to keep an eye on my pain.

Got a little photo too.

Mother in law has taken me out for hot choc page to calm my nerves. I burst into tears as soon as she said “and there’s the heartbeat”

Oh lovely what fabulous news 💓💓
LeopardLover · 17/09/2020 11:01

@Sansa87 So happy for you!! I've continued to have loads of cramping but it's good they are keeping an eye on things for you. You must be so relieved! 😊❤️

Sansa87 · 17/09/2020 10:58

Everything looking okay, measuring at 6+3 they want to keep an eye on my pain.

Got a little photo too.

Mother in law has taken me out for hot choc page to calm my nerves. I burst into tears as soon as she said “and there’s the heartbeat”

claireb7rg · 17/09/2020 09:39

[quote kirinm]@claireb707 I can totally understand why you're feeling down. Not knowing what is going on with your cycle this month is really stressful and you've been ttc for a while now. I hope Friday gives you a bit of a boost.

@Sansa87 good luck today 🤞🏻[/quote]
Thanks (have name changed slightly)

Another day another negative test 😢

Good luck for your scan @Sansa87

whambam89 · 17/09/2020 09:00

@sansa87 hope everything goes ok xxx

SS123456 · 17/09/2020 08:57

@Sansa87 good luck today, thinking of you! ❤️

Sansa87 · 17/09/2020 08:00

Thanks guys, I love you.

IM preparing myself for bad news. I’m really sad oh had had to go to work. His mum should be here in half an hour to pick me up.

I’m shaking like a leaf. Intuition and lack of symptoms are telling me this is not going to be a positive outcome.

kirinm · 17/09/2020 07:49

@claireb707 I can totally understand why you're feeling down. Not knowing what is going on with your cycle this month is really stressful and you've been ttc for a while now. I hope Friday gives you a bit of a boost.

@Sansa87 good luck today 🤞🏻

LT103 · 16/09/2020 22:44

@Sansa87 let us know how it goes. Fingers crossed

MrsB2019x · 16/09/2020 19:39

@Sansa87 Glad you have an early scan tomorrow, fingers crossed for you 💙

@claireb707 So strange, sorry you’re feeling so down about it too 💙 Hopefully a bit of me time on Friday will help you feel a little bit better.

Sansa87 · 16/09/2020 17:29

@kirinm it’s a constant dull pain, but then I get the odd hour where it’s sharper, & paracetamol doesn’t touch it. I remember feeling like this last time.

Oh is telling me to stay positive though

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claireb707 · 16/09/2020 17:25

Fingers crossed for tomorrow @Sansa87 xx

Still no period for me, I've been very emotional today, can't tell if it's pms or just emotions though. Partner has hacked me off, work has been shit and my mental health keeps edging downwards (not helped by the lack of conceiving). I've booked myself a manicure for Friday afternoon so hopefully that will improve my mood slightly

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kirinm · 16/09/2020 16:19

Are you in lots of pain or is it just an odd pain?

Fingers tightly crossed for tomorrow. x

Sansa87 · 16/09/2020 16:04

Still having pain, I can’t even describe it. I need to stop prodding my boobs wishing for them to hurt and go hard again, because they will purely because I’ve bruised them.

I have an early scan at 9 tomorrow morning, which I’m terrified about.

Thanks @kirinm

kirinm · 16/09/2020 15:56

How are you doing @Sansa87 ?

kirinm · 16/09/2020 10:06

I'm CD15 today. I don't know if I've ovulated. I'm half worried that we DTD at the right time and there is a chance I could get pregnant but also half excited because that is desperately what I want even though I am facing some uncertainty with risks at the moment. It is such a weird place to be in. Want to be pregnant but know it probably isn't a great idea. Urgh.

Although I think I'd like to take a more relaxed approach to TTC, I'm not sure I could go a month without knowing if / when I ovulated.

kirinm · 16/09/2020 08:21

@Sansa87 sorry to hear you're so anxious. I agree with everyone else, a scan may help reduce your anxiety. Symptoms do really come and go and I know that doesn't feel in anyway reassuring when you're the one they've gone for.

Some EPUs are referral only although I have no idea why when others aren't. Hopefully your GP can do the referral over the phone so you can get seen today.

Sansa87 · 16/09/2020 07:58

@MrsB2019x that’s a good point, I’ll give them a go.

I’m sat here angry crying right now. Just found out one of management is going round speaking to staff members that he thinks I’m pregnant because I called up sick when I apparently when home with a bad back yesterday.

I’m beyond mad. Fucking management. He’s supposed to be a friend too. Sadly a friend told me so I can’t even take it to higher management.

MrsB2019x · 16/09/2020 07:27

@Sansa87 Ah okay, I think different rules apply around the country. Maybe give them another call, they might see you based on your history?

Sansa87 · 16/09/2020 07:22

@MrsB2019x I don’t know if the rules have changed, but last time I rang them and was told I had to be referred by my gp before they could see me 😔

I wish Oh wasn’t so swamped at work. I could’ve got a private appointment at half 2 today in the town he works, but I don’t drive, and he can’t leave to come get me, and then drive me home again. At least I’d have him with me.

LeopardLover · 16/09/2020 07:17

@MrsB2019x Thank you, lovely! Sorry it's been another hard month for you (and the others who are out). 😔 Crossing my fingers October is the ONE! x

@Sansa87 Good luck today x

MrsB2019x · 16/09/2020 07:15

@Sansa87 I don’t think you need a GP referral I think you can call EPU directly x

Sansa87 · 16/09/2020 06:31

Thanks girls. Zero symptoms left today, but stomach pain worse.

Going to take day off work, & call the gp to get a referral to hospital again 😔

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