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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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candycrush2298 · 07/08/2020 14:56

Continuation of previous threads new name...

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Welliedays · 10/08/2020 19:47

@namechangettc I have the same issue around arranging drinking days... I'm trying not to drink at the moment at all (except my wedding day the other week) but it's hard. It's not too bad at home as I can get round that quite easily and tbf we haven't been out recently anyway!

candycrush2298 · 10/08/2020 17:58

@NamechangeTTC thats good you will just have to plan your drinking nights with the girls around test days lol!!! They won't know 🤣🤣🤣 I don't drink so dont have that worry as everyone already knows I dont so won't look strange lol!!

@Welliedays thats why there are Internet cheapies 🤣🤣🤣 ebay lets you do your hearts content lol. Yes definitely dont think you would have an issue reselling and getting most of the money back thats what intend to do with the Clearblue advanced fertility monitor when I am done with it lol🤣🤣🤣

Let's hope lightheaded is a symptom for yoh

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Welliedays · 10/08/2020 17:05

@candycrush2298 😂 I'm from Yorkshire which is probably why I'm not totally obsessed yet as I can't justify the price of the tests 😂😂 and that's why I've not bought an ava bracelet either 🙈 to be fair, looking at the prices on ebay I reckon you'd easily sell on again, but I still can't justify it when I've just paid for a wedding 🙄

Hopefully we'll all get BPF soon.

I've just been feeling light headed so come for a snack, which is not like me (I should say the snacking is, feeling light headed isn't!!)

NamechangeTTC · 10/08/2020 17:05

I’m more worried that I’ll impact on implantation then blame myself if the month hasn’t worked. Will see! Will text on Friday as have some drinks planned that night

candycrush2298 · 10/08/2020 17:04

@NamechangeTTC I am not sure what the statistics are for having a drink at like 1 week pregnant lol and you not pregnant until implantation lol

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NamechangeTTC · 10/08/2020 16:51

I’ve freaked myself out reading about alcohol impacting implantation @candycrush2298 so I’m behaving for now.

Sore boobs today. Not sure if this is normal in my cycles!

candycrush2298 · 10/08/2020 15:50

@Welliedays lol!!! Its better if you are not obssessed trust me it drives you mental hahaha.
Let's hope this is your cycle and you don't have to get to that stage lol.
Yeah I was thinking of Tempdrop or Ava but I just dont want to spend the money I have forked out a bucket load of money this year alone so dont want too.

@NamechangeTTC I know after @Elakiya mentioned this morning I was trolling old forums reading what people said about it and its really convinced me.

Lol drink till you see pink once you have missed your period and you test and its positive then you stop drinking you don't have to right now.

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NamechangeTTC · 10/08/2020 15:37

Welcome @Welliedays

Very tempted by the soy @candycrush2298 I might try those next cycle.

I’m so lost as trying to plan stuff with friends and the whole alcohol thing is a challenge. I’m a drunk!

Welliedays · 10/08/2020 15:22

😂 Thank you! I already feel like I want to be obsessed, but don't want to put the husband off... We've never had more sex than the last couple of months, and maybe if I obsessed he wouldn't be as keen 🤷🏼‍♀️ I did over test last month, so that might be a sign of what is to come (I've also kept the BFP as I keep questioning whether it actually happened, even if it didnt stick). I've been watching ava bracelets on ebay too... But I don't know if I want to pay the money yet.. Maybe if the next couple of cycles aren't successful... I am trying to keep postivie even though I know how hard it is for most people

candycrush2298 · 10/08/2020 15:15

@Welliedays welcome. You are very fortunate to not be at the obssessive stage lol or tracking anything. I truly hope you get your BFP quickly and you never have to start tracking.

How far along are in the TWW?

Lol I think everyone of us have begged for one symptom or another to appear lol!!! Its just that we are looking for a sign before we can test lol!!!

And I am sorry to hear about your chemical hope you have a sticky bean this cycle!

@Elakiya argh you and me both. Truly am sick of these. Its literally more than half the year I am on TWWs and its bollocks so yeah totally with you on that.
I of course am still totally rooting that next week AF is going to be late so you can sneak a test lol!!!
I have and from what i have seen some it had messed with their cycles when they went overboard and took 200mg a day for the 5 days. But those that took 100mg that are on a regular cycle were totally fine. So I will take 2 and a half tablets a day think the tabs are 40mg so will make it 100mg thats what I will take. If it messes up my cycles then it messes up my cycles its not like I am getting pregnant anyway so a few months to regulate itself again won't be the end of the world. I will obviously be annoyed if it messes it up but there are far too many success stories not to try it. So if I don't try it I always wonder if I should you know.
So dont worry hun I know there are risks that my awesome short cycles might be ruined for a while but on the flip side I might have no cycles at all for a long while with a sticky bean.

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Elakiya · 10/08/2020 14:39

@candycrush2298 I am just sick of tww's. Urghh. Anyway need to focus on exams I have 350 hours of studying to do, and I've done nothing :(.

Maybe do some more research before you take this thing though. We don't want to mess anything up.

Welliedays · 10/08/2020 14:27

Hi girls, please can I join your chat, I've actually been following your previous threads but haven't been able to register... It turns out I'd been autoblocked for some reason, but now we're all good! Just as a bit of background about me, we thought we'd start trying last month as we had our wedding day and we're having our reception next year, so would love for a little one to appear in between (I know that's a big ask!!). Anyway, I thought we'd done it last month and the first of trying, I got a really faint BFP the day my period was due... And then had a bad bleed and a negative after, so it must have been a chemical Hmm (this happened a week before the wedding). But we've got back on board and have tried again this month. I'm not tracking as don't want to appear too obsessed yet as my husband will totally think he's married a crazy person 😂 but I'm on my tww now and I'm already hating it! Does anyone else find themselves touching their boobs willing them to be sore?! My boobs were so sore last month which is what gave it away for me and prompted me to test!

candycrush2298 · 10/08/2020 11:51

@Elakiya yes you have made it through the first week of the TWW which is always the worst for me. On the last stretch now!!

Yeah dont think it will I have heard vitex will mess up regular cycles and should only be used for irregular (its also dubbed a natural clomid) so thats why I didn't buy it. You have got me all excited and ignited a bit of hope me again was feeling quite defeated thank you so much xx

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Elakiya · 10/08/2020 11:46

@candycrush2298 True, AF is only a week away so we'll see how that goes. I don't think this soy thing should wreck your cycle. I think it will just improve your egg quality. Fingers crossed for you this month :)

candycrush2298 · 10/08/2020 11:44

@Elakiya lol well we can always be hopeful!!! No losing hope before AF has arrived positive April baby vibes hahahahahah argh thinking of you hun I know how brutal it is xx

Oh wow ok that's amazing I know I dont have long irregular cycles (hope it won't mess that up lol!!) But I am still going to try it anyway.

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Elakiya · 10/08/2020 11:38

@candycrush2298 This is what that poster had said "Hey ladies, I'm also in the TWW (AF was due today) but I actually got my BFP a few days ago on a ClearBlue digital (and now I'm a whole new level of feeling anxious!)...after almost a year of TTC we were very shocked as was losing hope. In case it helps any of you long cycle ladies I tried soy isoflavones this month - it's dubbed the 'natural' Clomid, which I'd been prescribed but had put off taking as wanted to do everything possible naturally first. I O'd 7 days earlier than cycle before and I'm sure it was stronger than normal because I had an instant temp rise whereas normally I have a very slow rise. Would definitely recommend looking into them if you want to bring O forward to shorten cycles. It's obviously very early days for me, but just wanted to share in case it helps anyone else x"

Elakiya · 10/08/2020 11:35

@candycrush2298 I will definitely be trying it next cycle too.

Elakiya · 10/08/2020 11:35

@candycrush2298 This was posted in a thread called "long cycle girls" or something like that. Therefore I am guessing they would have had irregular cycles and therefore trying to conceive for a while. I'll have a read of that thread and see if I can work out when she had been trying since.

At this point I genuinely don't think any of my symptoms are actually pregnancy symptoms lol. I genuinely think I might just have erect nipples due to this cold/flu type thing and I think I got that due to not taking antihistamines.

candycrush2298 · 10/08/2020 11:28

@Elakiya OK will get hubby to go past Tesco on his way and pick some up lol!! Going to start tonight. OMG a BFP first time I wonder if she was struggling to conceive before this. I know everyone is different and it may not work but at this point anything is worth a shot I think.

Thank you so much for the suggestion really appreciate it. Eeeep fingers crossed xx

I am hoping with your erect nipples that eggo of yours is already preggo but in the event that it isn't why not give this a go lol

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Elakiya · 10/08/2020 11:22

@candycrush2298 I don't think it matters if you take them in the evening/night. As long as you get it in your system from cycle day 3 - 7 I think that's fine

Elakiya · 10/08/2020 11:21

@candycrush2298 The poster got a successful BFP on the first month of doing this. Hopefully if you can have it tonight you could do 3-7? Omg I am so excited to see how this goes. I will try this next cycle too.

candycrush2298 · 10/08/2020 11:09

@Elakiya do you tbink it will matter if I take them tonight and still do CD3-7 or do you think its best taken in the morning? I missed the window by not starting on CD1 with raspberry tea so maybe this will be better for me to try. I know I ovulate but I don't know the quality of my eggs and this will improve the egg quality and give a strong ovulation I am all for it.

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candycrush2298 · 10/08/2020 11:01

@Kaybobx I know but this time you have done something different you BD'd more you used proper OPKs that showed a much longer surge and bd'd on those days. And you charting BBT to ensure you did actually ovulate so yeah this month could be different hun!!!
As for triphasic chart thats incredible really hope it shoots up up up!!! Ooooh so routing for you!!

@Elakiya omg that sounds great. I want to get some I can still do the CD 4-8 or 5-9 if I grab some tonight after work. Did the poster of this thread say that it worked for them? Or anyone else say it worked?

@indecisivewoman81 I hear you my obsessiveness went way over the top last cycle. So totally know how you feeling!!! Its so difficult though isn't it

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indecisivewoman81 · 10/08/2020 10:52

@Elakiya you and me both. I've just had a handful of chocolate pretzels because I saw them in the fridge even though I had breakfast 45 minutes ago!!

Elakiya · 10/08/2020 10:43

@indecisivewoman81 Awww, I know how you feel. I am becoming quite teary and upset. Also I am an emotional eater so this is genuinely not helping my PCOS :(