Our first month ttc our first

Oh @rosieb060 definitely get testing!! Two days late is so promising 🥰🤞🏻 Do you feel any different at all?

@Amy259 AF was due sat!

@beckyBP thanks, love. I've got all the mixed feelings!

I might do one first thing tomorrow morning.

Thanks for the love girls. I love this little safe space to be super honest. Now the period pains have died down I feel ok and ready to go again!!

Defo going to try preseed this week.

How is everyone?

Today's chat made me laugh.. don't even speak to me about the lockdown lbs. I was my in my best shape in March. I feel like I've doubled 😂🙈

@rosiej95 love you approach this month. Might take a leaf out of your book! .. wait.. is that even the saying??

@Amy259 hoping for a a speedy 2 weeks for you 🤞🏽

Well done for holding off @rosieb060 id say hold off but I didn't take my own advice this month so not really one to dish it out 😂

Xx

@rosieb060 there’s no way I’d have made it to 14dpo and not tested so you’re a lot stronger than me 😂😂

When is af due? Xx

Advice (pretty) please: 15DPO tomorrow & trying to decide whether to test or not.

Should I do it, or should I wait a bit longer? Xx

@rosiej95 apart from my nail technician hahaha I love that! That’s so lovely though, everyone will be so happily surprised.
I feel like that’s why we need chats like this so much - imagine not being able to vent it out or ask for advice anywhere etc, I’d go mad!

@rosiej95 oh tell me about it - I can’t wait to me more than 10 feet from my kitchen cupboards all day 😂😂

Yeah if I got a bfp this month I think I’d book an early scan for just before Christmas then give them it as a gift too!

My 3 closest friends know (bridesmaids, and we chatted about it on my hen) and DH’s best friend, but we don’t really talk about it, they just knew after our wedding we’d try. We haven’t really talked about it with parents either but again they knew we were keen to start after the wedding. I’m sure no one asks but they assume we’re ttc and wouldn’t want to ask if they haven’t heard any news! What about you? X

@rosiej95 I hear that - the covid kilos are real at this end 😂 determined to start eating healthy again tomorrow. Since we got married in August I’ve definitely been enjoying myself a little too much haha.
Yeah apparently if you dtd every 2-3 days between AFs it’s just as good as tracking. I would far prefer that but my DH just isn’t always up for it that often so I feel like I have to time it a bit!
It would be great but I’d rather be much further along before telling my mum, she wouldn’t handle it well if something awful was to happen.

I’m currently somewhere around 4dpo I think... didn’t track this month as we weren’t supposed to be ttc (new job) but we definitely dtd 3 times in what I think was my fw soooo here I am in another tww 😂😂

@rosiej95 how are you getting on? Where about are you in this cycle now? There’s still time for Christmas bfps! Although my next cycle would put me finding out right between Xmas and NYE and we’re due to be away with my parents so that would be a tough one to keep a secret 😂🥂

@beckyBP sorry you had a shocker of a day yesterday - that’s not a fun weekend. Hope today was better for you, minus af arriving... I was so sure I saw something on that test. Hope you’ve spoiled yourself today?? X

@meganlea I've got to admit that did make me laugh.. I'm more likely to say 'positive as f*ck' in real life 😂

But AF has arrived.. early too! And the cramps are baaaad! 😫 I was sure there was something on that text but never mind! We go again!

Hope is everyone? Hope you've all had a nice weekend! X

@beckyBP I swear I could see it on that pic as well so I’ll be shocked if AF does come! Hope you’re okay chick.

Also I’m still getting used to the TTC forums lingo and skimmed the msg first and read ‘I’m positive AF’ as ‘I’m positive as f*ck’ so to re read it I was like noooo 😩

@Amy259 sorry for taking ages.. it's been a hell of a day. Not even eaten yet! I didn't end up getting a test because it's been a shocker of a day but I'm positive AF will be here by tomorrow. Got the 'AF imminent' pressure and pains.

Really started to convince myself yesterday too 😫

Any update @beckyBP? 🤞🏻🤞🏻

@Amy259 @meganlea I'm not sure girls. I need to stop looking at it. Driving me mad.! I've don't have any other tests. This one came with my ovulation strips 😫 will need to pop out in the morning xx

@beckyBP no way!!! I definitely see something!! Test in the morning and let us know. Fingers crossed eeeeek 🤞🏼 xx

@beckyBP I see it - fingers crossed it gets darker tomorrow or the next day!!

@Amy259 I think it's just an indentation now. It's hard to get a pic of what you see isn't it xx

@beckyBP post the photo!!

@Amy259 I tested.. broke my own rule 😂🙈 I'm not sure if I see something or I'm convincing myself there's something there. I think I've lost my head girls 😂

@meganlea they’re the strips and app I use - I love the app 😂 and it’s got my predictions spot on every time (except the month af was late with the cp). The private Facebook group it suggests you join is a bit intense - handy at the start because you can search the posts and know for sure someone has already asked whatever you’re wondering, but I ended up hiding it because it was a lot to keep appearing on my feed..