TTC after MC - August 2020 (Thread 9)

I’m wondering about you @smileyt too

@2020wish thanks, I’ve had a cry earlier and still feel weepy and crap. X

@Pugprincess sorry ur feeling that way. I’m hoping it’s done hormones tho increasing for u and causing ur emotions to go off.. that was an early symptom for me.

@smileyt how did the scan go?

@2020wish glad you got it sorted 🙂

Sorry guys I feel so depressed today it’s unreal. I can’t get my head into anything. DH noticing and keeps asking what’s up too and I’m like you know what x

@Northernsoul90 I'll just be so happy to get my AF after this wait. We didn't really TTC tbh because this past week I've had all my appointments etc and it was a bit overwhelming for me.

@2020wish I totally get how you feel with your OH, mine is the same always helping others and rushing off to be a good friend and citizen. I find myself getting annoyed too but then tell myself I'd rather have a DP who's so thoughtful and helpful to his family and friends then didn't care about others at all. I'm sure once you have a chat with him he'll make sure to make time for you too ☺️ x

@Northernsoul90 thank you. I know he’s actually laughing at me now cause he says he couldn’t understand why I was going mental at him but now it makes sense to him because we had our wires completely crossed... again another example that communication is key

@2020wish How awful, what is wrong with people?! Glad you sorted it with OH, don't feel bad you weren't to know all the details xx

@Firevie I am in the same position as you and am in my tww after a mmc - I haven't had af yet either. Really hope we both get bfps 🤞🏼🤞🏼

Omg autocorrect actually 🤣🤣

@VP91x would you think ovulation hasn't as Italy happened yet based on that then? Xx

@chloedancer897 absolutely crazy people are still so ill minded these days. Thank you, they are out of the house now and staying between her dads and her sisters x

@2020wish I was just about to ask what area it was in. Unfortunately, north Belfast is rife for sectarianism. It's really the only place I've seen it these days. I hope they're ok

@chloedancer897 I know same here. they have lived there for three years and never had an issue with anyone. It was up near cave hill. They are in a right state as they had just fitted a new bathroom and all in that wee house. Horrible

@Firevie I got pregnant straight after MC before proper AF, I counted my MC bleeding as AF, I'm now 6+2 pregnant....sending u lots of hope ❤

@2020wish oh my word. I didn't think that happened in this day and age!

Had rang him *

Ok so update on my end. He’s appeared home and explained this better. Apparently before he rushed out his friend had rang me after sending the pictures of the vandalism and my partner thought he had explained the phone call before rushing out. So the vandalism was sectarian threats all over their house and car, lived there for years with no issues but now threats of killing them all over the house, police came on scene and basically advised them they needed out of the house ASAP so they where emergency moving and had no van or help and my partner having a van rushed over. So the narrative is completely different and he was right for rushing over. He apologised for not communicating with with me properly tho. Feel a bit bad now. But glad our friends are ok. Thank you all for helping me tho

@2020wish haha ugh men indeed! It’s a good sign though that he’s on his way home now?! I know how you feel though so why don’t you do your breathing techniques and see if you may be in a better mood this afternoon and can start a convo xx

@VP91x thanks as always for continuing to run the thread and looking out for everyone xo

Marking my place!

@Pugprincess I think it's too early. You're just driving yourself insane (I've done it before so I know, it really doesn't help). I think 12DPO with FRER is a good time to test again if you can hold out. I honestly got line eyes in my last cycle and was convinced I saw stuff. It's cruel this TTC malarkey!

@2020wish I can understand your frustration. I'd be the same. I guarantee he doesn't realise what he's done and it sounds like he's already stretching himself quite thinly. I think just chat with him and say while you understand he's being a caring friend and doing good deeds, you guys had plans to spend some well needed time together

@VP91x many thanks for the new thread! I can actually join in with x days DPO conversations now yay!after having read all of your DPO stories! Seeing so many BFPs already really gives me hope after my MMC! I was wondering if we have anyone on here who has had a MMC and then gotten pregnant straight after before even having had the first AF? My doctor said absolutely nothing wrong with getting pregnant before First AF but may just be bit difficult with dating so I guess I was just wondering if anyone has got experiences to share. Also read somewhere that Pom Juice is good to drink for implantation so just told DH to get some. I drank it last week before ovulation lol xxx

@VP91x thanks for the new thread, just marking my place 😊

@MrsK21 Thank you! Your chart looks great so glad that your body seems to be regulating! Yay for tww xxx

@VP91x thank you. He’s retracted his priorities and now on his way home but I actually I’m so annoyed I don’t wanna be near him. Feel like the tone for the day is ruined and stressed and just want to sit on my own now and do my breathing technique lol ugh men

@VP91x thanks for new thread.
Morning all, hows everyone doing today xx

@MrsK21 ur chart looks really good and deffo looks like ovulation has happened!! Yay for the tww!