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TTC after MC - August 2020 (Thread 9)

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VP91x · 02/08/2020 10:03

Hey ladies,

Fingers crossed for lots of BFPs this month as we are definitely due some!

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@ManchNic
@Niisa
@fafi
@2020wish
@calimommy


@VP91x
@Runnergirl1
@Hayley19835
@Mommybear05
@HE88
@Rainbowhope11
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@Renna
@Diorissimo1985
@Rb486
@Wishingfornumber2
@Northernsoul90
@Sallyjo27
@Pugprincess
@Jazper
@elliew818
@AC2020
@Eli2020
@littletandme
@MichT4
@Re6ecc4
@Bellabubble
@Lollol86
@Firevie
@stayinghopeful92x
@chloedancer897
@Lollol86
@MrsK21
@Rebecca1992
@Beesy90
@LKMH
@Cici89
@Blondecomment0703
@CasperFlamingo

I'm CD11, waiting for something (anything) to happen this month 😂. Only taking my Inofolic Alpha this cycle and nothing else.

Hope I've tagged everyone xx

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Rebecca1992 · 05/08/2020 12:28

@@2020wish Not until 7.30 this evening! I'm trying to keep myself busy today as I'm off work as well!

VP91x · 05/08/2020 12:23

@2020wish yeah so, this month I have day 21 bloods so if I don't get a peak OPK I'll go on CD21 if I do then, I'll do it 7 days after.

16th Sept I have the appt with gynae which the GP referred me for so they can prescribe a metformin/clomid combo or whatever they think is best. Xx

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2020wish · 05/08/2020 12:15

@VP91x don’t u have another appointment for the pcos? Are they going to get you some sort of treatment like clomid?

Thank you x

VP91x · 05/08/2020 12:13

@2020wish no I haven't taken a thing except for the inofolic alpha supplement. Not even grapefruit juice. Yeah hopefully! Aw I'm sure it will be all okay ❤️ will be thinking of you xx

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2020wish · 05/08/2020 12:10

@Rebecca1992 what time is ur scan ?

@VP91x are u still taking the soy iso? Fingers crossed something starts happening soon for u.
I’m more
Nervous than anything, my OH is so excited he’s been counting down the days... X

VP91x · 05/08/2020 12:08

@2020wish no haven't ovulated yet, not even a sniff of an interesting line on an OPK either. Yeah, maybe something is going on! Exciting that your scan is tomorrow, are you looking forward to it? 🥰

@MichT4 haha, I know I've literally been ignoring my body all month but I couldn't ignore the periody feeling its so noticeable the backache and everything. You will get massive kudos for waiting another week! Eek. Bet your OH was pleased to receive a sexy text in the day 🍆💦xx

@Northernsoul90 thank you hun😘 happy anniversary that's a long time together! Hope you enjoy your meal out. Where are you going? Xx

@Scrambledeggy haha thanks, there's no helping me and my cycles at the moment apart from hopefully the specialist I see next month finally.

@MrsK21 yay that's gone quickly for your appointment how are you feeling about it? Yeah, that and the low opks just couldn't be bothered. If I don't ovulate I don't want any possibility or symptom spotting in the wait for AF 😂. Great news that temps are nice and high though! 🥰

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Rebecca1992 · 05/08/2020 11:38

Thank you for your support, you are an amazing support tower of women 🤗

Hoping you all have a great day!❤

Firevie · 05/08/2020 11:25

Well done everyone for doing yoga - whichever video you’ve been doing. I think consistency is the key - the more you do it the better it will go! @scrambledeggy I have always been exercising 4times a week in the gym and since lockdown got into running. DH and I go every day at 5.30 so that has been a nice routine for us though I’m so much fitter than he is lol. So I have lost 6kg in lockdown which is more than I’ve lost in the gym lol. Just finished acupuncture - was good, today she focused on my legs feet and womb and inserted needles to promote good blood circulation. Power walked 4.3km there and 4.3km back whilst on conference calls for work lol so def feels like today is an energetic day.
@Rebecca1992 good luck with your scan. Let us know how it goes. Fingers crossed xxx

fafi · 05/08/2020 11:14

@MichT4 That CM could be a good sign, I was deffo like that after ovulation this time. I think you tend to be drier if conception hasn't happened. I am good thank you!x

@Northernsoul90 Happy Anniversary! I hope you enjoy your celebrations x

Northernsoul90 · 05/08/2020 10:57

@Rebecca1992 Good luck with your scan xx

@MrsK21 Thank you ☺️ fingers crossed that you have ovulated 🤞🏼 if they scan you I bet they will be able to confirm ovulation tomorrow? Xx

MichT4 · 05/08/2020 10:50

@MrsK21 thank you, I think I'm one of the high LH ladies. I've text OH and geared him up for DTD later, just want to cover myself in case. I just did my yoga (thanks @Firevie and others that mentioned it) and I do generally just feel quite content that it'll happen. I'm holding out positivity for a wonderful first cycle post MC - makes the TWW less stressful if I imagine it might end with a happy result!
How are you?

@Rebecca1992 good luck with your scan.

@Pugprincess how are you today?

xx

MrsK21 · 05/08/2020 10:24

aww happy anniversary @Northernsoul90, hope you have a wonderful day :)

@MichT4 that is a dark OPK! I read online (as we all do these days lol) that some women have naturally elevated levels of LH in their systems throughout the cycles - but you do still get that surge and ovulate. That combined with the easy @ homes is probably what is happening as your temps still look pretty stable.

@VP91x glad to hear day 1 went well! I'm ok lovely, just plodding through work this week and keeping myself busy till appointment tomorrow. FF and Ovia both think I've ovulated and putting me at 6DPO so hopefully not long till AF arrives for me now. Temps have remained nice and high so fingers crossed my body has woken up!
Totally understandable you didnt feel up to it despite all that EWCM, a new job can take it out of you!
x

Rebecca1992 · 05/08/2020 10:10

@2020wish Thank u! I will update you tonight after my scan 😊

Northernsoul90 · 05/08/2020 10:07

Thank you @MichT4 @Firevie @scrambledeggy 🥰

@scrambledeggy I will test on Saturday if af doesn't arrive 😊 xx

MichT4 · 05/08/2020 09:48

@scrambledeggy 😂😂 my jawline is pretty chaotic at the moment too. Looking forward to next weeks progress update x

scrambledeggy · 05/08/2020 09:40

@Firevie I went back to a yoga workout on the Nike Training app that I used months ago. It's called Dynamic Restorative Yoga and is supposed to be easy... but all these downward dogs are making me feel so creaky I'm going to try and do it everyday to get stronger. Will also try and keep up running once or twice a week. How do you manage it every day? That's so impresssive!

Happy anniversary @Northernsoul90! Hope things work out okay, when are you planning on testing? Sorry if you've already said, I'm so out of the loop!

@MichT4 I think I'm probably about the same point in my cycle as you, just noticed some mystery hormonal acne on my chin, how exciting, tune in next week to find out what it means...Grin

Firevie · 05/08/2020 09:25

@MichT4 haha ok no more dipping things in our wees lol I haven’t DTD either after we did it a day post ovulation - couldn’t face it four days in a row so hope that’s been sufficient.
@Northernsoul90 aww happy anniversary- I’m glad you’ve got something booked in. Celebrate and enjoy the love you have for each other xxx

MichT4 · 05/08/2020 09:11

Aww happy anniversary @Northernsoul90. Having something booked in is always nice! Where are you off to?
I hope it's a double celebration for you 🤞🏼 xx

Northernsoul90 · 05/08/2020 09:06

@MichT4 I am good thank you feel a lot more positive today - 12dpo now. It's my one year wedding anniversary today and 11 year anniversary of being together tomorrow so we have booked a nice meal for Saturday night. I'm hoping that having that booked will give me something to look forward to if I get a bfn or will be another cause to celebrate 🙏🏼. I can't say I feel any different really other than having quite a bit of cm but I've never really paid much attention to it before, I can't remember if that's the norm for me or not 😂. I'm trying not to think into it anyway, I don't think I had any symptoms this early last time I got bfp xx

MichT4 · 05/08/2020 09:04

Ha! @fafi I know 🤦🏽‍♀️
CM is wet. Not loads, like watery, but I'm aware of it at times and it's there. I checked a bit more inside and there was quite a bit, with the tiniest bit of thick EWCM. What a combo!

How are you doing? xx

fafi · 05/08/2020 08:58

@MichT4 You deffo need to put the sticks down, haha! What is your CM like?x

MichT4 · 05/08/2020 08:53

@Firevie no do not do OPKs after 😂 I just missed POAS and did one with FMU, so not even when you're supposed to pre ovulation 🙄. I'm in my TWW, going to stop being tempted by dipping things in my wee. This is why I need to be in the office 😂😂

@Northernsoul90 yeah think we will maybe DTD later, doesn't hurt. How are you? xx

Firevie · 05/08/2020 08:47

@scrambledeggy yay join the yoga club 🤣 the Bettina Rae videos aren’t proper yoga but very gentle and it’s more about mindfulness, being kind to yourself and visualisation and breathing i find which I think is so useful too. I get my sweat on when I run in the evenings. Enjoy Bettina Rae and let me know how you find it and keep up the positivity - loving it! We are so strong and so our bodies and minds xxx

Firevie · 05/08/2020 08:44

@MichT4 what’s happening with your Opks? Sorry I’m not following - are you in your TWW? I’m 4dpo and haven’t done Opks should you also do them post ovulation?
But my BBT went up a little from yesterday so fluctuated like @VP91x said
@2020wish good luck for your scan tmr!
@Lollol86 OMG don’t get me started on eyebrows! Not sure what to do as can’t rock up with caterpillar eyebrows to my friends wedding
Re acupuncture - doesn’t hurt. She just did a gentle one at my back last week post consultation. Let’s see what she does today. They say you should go regularly to start seeing benefits. I have my hols coming up now but will continue once I’m back
For those who are doing some yoga today - enjoy and let know how you find it xxx

scrambledeggy · 05/08/2020 08:42

Belated thanks for the welcome @VP91x , glad to hear your new job is going well. I hope you can work out what's going on with your cycle, mine's been a right mess Confused

Sorry for being out of the loop , I had a busy few work days, but I'm now MAYBE 6dpo, with temperature continuing to rise. So just over another week before I am allowing myself to test. At this point I don't care if I see a BFN, the very fact that my cycle (now day 58 lol) is getting back into some semblance of normality is keeping my mood up.

@Firevie I'm going to do some yoga this morning too! I was avoiding yoga for fear of not being bendy enough, but seeing you all give it a go has really encouraged me. How exciting that you're off on holiday! I just got back from a weekend away and I feel like it really reset my brain, in a good way. I even told some of my colleagues about my loss and they were really nice about it.

Wishing everyone a positive day! Don't beat yourself up if you find yourself feeling sad, I've been very up and down as well, guess it comes with the territory. I'm also trying to take all your advice about trusting my body, as I'm sure somewhere VERY deep down it knows what it's doing Grin

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